>>81508599 (OP)mental illness
That they have to engage in all the screeching "activism" about the insane shit they do is unconscious admission that you actually can't become a woman, at least not one in the sense a heterosexual man would ever accept.
Think about it. If you could actually become a woman, like they delusionally think they can, you'd just do it, be done with it, and live happily as a woman. But the screeching and flag-waving is proof you can't.