Thread 81508761

should you date a girl if she fancies you, but you dont particularly find her attractive?

>>81508761 (OP)
As long as you don't find her ugly/repulsive, yeah.

>>81508761 (OP)
If you're not dating for marriage then you're dating for heartbreak.

>>81508761 (OP)
no you shouldn't, it's cruel and you're only going to hurt her

>>81508761 (OP)
No, women thrive from feeling wanted and desired by their partner. If you don't find her attractive her interests will stray elsewhere eventually and she will leave you for someone who does find her attractive

>>81508761 (OP)
Can you do better?
Have you even tried? Do you know for certain?
How lonely are you?

I did this
Dont do this
Youll feel trapped and guilty and shell feel used and ugly

idk man ask chatgpt

>>81508761 (OP)
If she isn't crazy, mentally ill, or obsessive then why not?

>>81508761 (OP)
I did, once upon a time. I learned to find her attractive, for a while, until she started disliking me. It didn't last very long.

>>81508795
I second this. You both deserve better anon

>>81508761 (OP)
What do you mean? All females are attractive. If you have a woman near you she is automatically attractive. Are you gay or something?

>>81508771
Well, unless you date a girl that's less attractive than you and thinks she's dating up

>>81508761 (OP)
Depends, a girl who was below my league asked me out, I didn't turn her down because of her looks, though.
She's just a really shitty person and it made her uglier than any physical appearance could.

So personality is more important to me, I think

>>81508761 (OP)
As a schizoid, i just dont see the point in doing that.

My sister's first boyfriend used her as a practice gf i think. Pretty sure he was an redditcore incel. She was head over heels for him and couldnt see what a detestable faggot he was. Sucks.

I did that for almost a decade and it was very miserable. There were a few times that it was comfortable but it was very boring. The sex is way worse too when you aren't very attracted

a girl was quite desperate to get married and start having kids, and wanted to start dating me after we had lunch together like 20 times and spent a lot of time on the phone together. the problem is the entire time I was oneitusing for another girl and being a huge simp and asking this girl what to do almost every day, if I had settled for this girl I didn't find very attractive, no doubt it would have never left her mind that she was my second choice and I was obsessed and simping for another girl until I couldn't anymore

>>81508761 (OP)
I did this many times what's the problem

>>81508761 (OP)
OP HERE
She's a petite hapa asian girl
Very artsy and has those little doodle tattoos

>>81508761 (OP)
>fancies
what? Don't you mean love, faggot

>>81508761 (OP)
Yes, I'm dated two people who love me.

Moids are so fucking evil
Leave her alone

>>81509799
>Moids are so fucking evil
There are literally men in this thread who told OP not to date that woman though