Thread 81511795 - /r9k/ [Archived: 1099 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/16/2025, 6:19:54 PM No.81511795
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I'm starting to go crazy the more I think about how in less than a month I'm 23 and still never had a gf or anything like that.
I force myself to go outside but I don't even know what I should do.
I just want a girl to hang out with and do stuff and experience life with.

If any fembots are reading this. What do you do when you are outside and what kind of context would you prefer a guy approaching you?
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:02:42 PM No.81512699
>>81511795 (OP)
as long as a guy is humble, polite and doesn't have shady intentions (women can pick this up) then im always happy if i guy has approached me. I'm young but even when older men proposition me, it is a pleasant experience. Even though I have a non-negotiable preference for guys my age.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:04:06 PM No.81512714
>>81512699
>Even though I have a non-negotiable preference for guys my age.
gay
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:10:08 PM No.81512751
>>81511795 (OP)
How's your life going otherwise? Back in my early 20s I used to care a little too but now that I'm making good money and can afford most of what I want to do, I don't care anymore. I can fap to amazing foids I could never get in real life. Most normies I know criticize their gfs/wives on a daily basis. Women are overrated. You're probably fantasizing about a great relationship with a beautiful woman who's both your best friend and an amazing lover. Real life almost never works out like that and you'd have to be a Chad to have a good chance at ever having that. Women in general are superficial, lacking in hobbies and mostly just annoying or boring.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:15:10 PM No.81512793
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I'm trying to lower my standards but it's hard to date someone who you don't find physically attractive. The stacys and beckys out in public already have tall, white, prettyboy chad BFs, even average looking women exclusively date these men. There is no market for average looking/average height men such as myself.
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:18:15 PM No.81512818
>>81512714
im in my 20s so i want someone in my 20s you tard
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:27:18 PM No.81512912
>>81512699
>>81512818
How much have you been approached?
Have you approached guys before?
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:30:06 PM No.81512941
>>81512699
>women can pick this up
i must be a major autist because i cant read that shit!
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:31:23 PM No.81512957
>>81511795 (OP)
I get ya man. I really do. The fear of missing out and jealousy are unironically painfull. I could not tell you how many times i wanted to slam my car into oncoming traffic or a tree. But recently ive realised that these thoughts are designed for you to spiral deeper and deeper into depression and hatred. If you ever catch yourself thinking negatively exclaim "Yeah buddy like i give a shit" and immidietally move onto something pleasant.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 9:00:36 PM No.81513246
>>81512941
Are you an autistic girl that wants a bf?
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 10:04:24 PM No.81513838
>>81512793
I do see guys that are average looking or of average height with gfs. I'm not sure if maybe I'm just really ugly.
I do really really deeply regret some of my life choices so much.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 12:12:40 AM No.81515044
>>81512793
That's a lie and you know it anon, most people are lonely.