I don't like talking, I hate talking to people, but in conversations I can be submissive, agreeable, and an emotional bitch. I'm 25, with no social experience and no confidence so what the fuck am I supposed to do? Whenever I talk to people (which I already don't like), I won't be aggressive, decisive, confident, oppositional. Is it over if I'm poorly socialized and raised by a single mom? Do I buy a flask and pray I hit the golden drunkenness whenever I talk to someone?

>>81511849 (OP)
>Do I buy a flask and pray I hit the golden drunkenness whenever I talk to someone?
You already know the answer.
I'm the same way. Little bit of booze goes a long way. Just act really chill, it'll come naturally since you're already used to being passive. Easy way I found to do this was to actually use gendered language when I spoke to other guys.
>Thanks brother.
>Yeah man.
etc. It makes both of you feel more respected. You'll get the hang of it anon.

>>81511941
Just conversate with people only when your prefrontal cortex is fucked and youre retarded theory.

>>81511978
i barely talk when sober and when i do the conversations suck, i don't really see a solution except getting drunk

Get a hobby that gets you out the house and talking to other men regularly.
Like martial arts, or wargaming, or motorcycle club.
Hell, go to a sports bar or shoot pool at a pool room and talk with the older guys.

>>81512036
If you feel more confident talking in your comfort zone, youll be fine.

>>81511849 (OP)
>I can be submissive, agreeable, and an emotional bitch
that's your self perceived place on the social hierarchy, which considering where we are might as well be 100% spot on. Alcohol won't make you more "open", it would just make other people less willing to put up with your newfound shit talking.
try to increase your objective worth is the only sensible course of action, but with opinions like
>Whenever I talk to people (which I already don't like)
you would just become one of those "rudeness is a weak man's imitation of strength" insufferable twats.

>>81512546
>you would just become one of those "rudeness is a weak man's imitation of strength" insufferable twats.
ok, so is there a solution or do i ldar with a cuban in my mouth?

>>81511849 (OP)
Oh god these conversations again ? This is so fucking demoralizing.
I just decided not give AF and not to talk to people at all anymore. I lost my vcard, hooked up with a few girls.
Way too late though, way too late to be in any dignifying relationship. I don't like other people and I dont talk to them.

>>81512693
yeah, next time i'll talk about fembots and their stinky feet or some other degenerate bullshit that i filtered

>>81512652
I spelt the easy solution, but I'll say it again in a more age appropriate language
>stack yo paper nigga
The harder path is a change in outlook from edgy misanthropy and arrogance to something more mature. i.e. stop being jaded.