Those of you that are normalfags that managed to get a gf once.
How did you go from acquaintances to a relationship? At what point when you started dating were you officially a couple?

>>81513981 (OP)
You have to get drunk together and start making out, after that the rest comes naturally.

>>81513981 (OP)
You usually start hanging out one on one with her and eventually sex and romance happens if your both interested. If not your just friends and you move onto another woman

i was sitting alone(as always) at lunch in highschool and a girl ive never seen before sat in front of me and said "do you want to be my girlfriend" and then it just happened
didnt last very long though

>>81513981 (OP)
First one was a girl from the town I grew up in who let me have sex with her when I returned there to visit when I was 16.
Second was a random fat girl I accidentally complimented at a party by saying her voice was hot so she asked me to be her bf and let me fuck her.
Third one was an older married gen X lady I met at a BDSM event off of fetlife. She just told me she wanted me and we kept hooking up after that.
Last one was an 18 year old latina I met off this board after making a gf begging thread. We happened to live in the same state so we started visiting each other and hooking up.

>>81514017
>do you want to be my girlfriend
jesus christ what is wrong with me today
boyfriend*

>>81513981 (OP)
Drunken confessions, my friend.

>>81514017
wtf femanons are gay?????

>>81514045
no no no blueballs im a guy i made a typo im a man with penis

>>81514017
>a girl ive never seen before sat in front of me and said "do you want to be my girlfriend" and then it just happened
How tall are you? You must be very attractive.
How old were you 2? Was she usually alone too?

I'm pretty positive my ex was a inteligence agency implant. There is no other explanation.

>>81514065
i was 16 she was 17, and im 5'6 with a decent face but im not exceptionally good looking
>Was she usually alone too?
i never saw her with anyone else so probably, even when we werent dating anymore she'd always greet me in the hallway

>>81513981 (OP)
The only real relationship Ive ever had was back when I was 18, so this is very much teenager shit, but basically we were just hanging out watching TV at my place until late and at some point we ended up sort of play fighting, and I worked up the courage to ask her if I could kiss her. And to my teenage selfs great surprise she actually said yes.

From then on, I was very confused on what was going on, because we would have full on make out sessions and shit the following weeks, but I wasnt sure if she was my girlfriend or not, and she never really said anything about it.
What I learned, at least from my experience, is that women will wait for you to ask that question, because they are afraid of you getting cold feet the second they ask for something serious.

But I was young and hopelessly in love so I ended up writing her this really long, corny letter that ended with me asking her to be my girlfriend. Since we were both kids and still pretty naive she thought it was the sweetest shit on earth and said yes, and thats how I got my first and only ever girlfriend.

However, I do not suggest doing this with any woman over the age of 20. They will most likely be creeped out and never speak to you again. This only really works in your teenage years, I feel like.

>>81513981 (OP)
We were always in class together, I had a crush on her, on rainy days in recess and blank periods peope got so bored we would actually talk to each other and I would join in on conversations that she would also join just organically, then we started talking to each other just the two of us when we crossed paths, then we would just seek each other out to talk, then it got to a point that we would spend all of our free time in school talking, I felt pretty comfortable around her so I asked her out and she said yes, the I took her to the zoo and we both had our first kisses there.

>>81513981 (OP)
hung out one on one a lot. grabbing meals, playing piano together etc. eventually ended up at her dorm room, and we were watching my fav metal band. she was pretending she was interested cuz i guess she had the biggest crush on me. when i paused the video to tell her something, she just threw her lips at my face and went from there

>>81514091
So was she attracted to you because you were alone like her?
Why did you break up?

>>81513981 (OP)
She approached me out of the blue about wanting to be friends. A few months of that passed and then her friends pressured us into being more. And that was that, because I didn't really care.

>>81513981 (OP)
Before you get going be honest about your circumstances whatever they are:
Privacy: do you have anywhere you can actually be alone with someone? Can you afford a decent restaurant, or at least a couple hours at a nice cafe? If there's no bedroom for you to go back to, then it's not fair to expect that of them.
Presentation: No matter your looks a little personal grooming goes a long way. You don't need damn tux, but the cleanest most flattering clothes you have, yes. Start there.
Presumptions: What are you actually trying to do here? What do you want? Just wanna fuck? Looking for the one? Something in between like most people? Figure it out, and say that early.

Major first step is simply looking in a context where that's appropriate or normal. I.E. Bars, clubs, dating apps, leisure activities where the bare minimum of some spare time is expected. (don't bother people at work)
Next step is not wasting your time or theirs, don't pursue people who say explicitly they're not interested. If someone actually acts like they're picking up what you're putting down, that's when you start wasting your own time without obligation to them. The most direct approach that respects everyone's time and dignity most is to simply offer your own number (or whatever way to contact you), put the ball in their court, and walk away. If they liked what they saw, you'll hear back. Either way you find out without imposing.

Last, have fun dummy. Try to have a good time, see how they have a good time. Take an interest in them and their hobbies. If you don't know how to do anything you like together it's not worth it.