>>81516099 (OP)I agree. The trick (for me) is to be content with one's own self...not to be stuck within the expectations that someone else has of me for them. In other words, if I'm comfortable in my own skin doing what I'm doing for myself, from a personally physical, mental, and spiritual (aka holistic) standpoint, I'm good to go - regardless of what anyone else has to think or say or do about it.