>>81518076You're right, being a decent person doesn't. It doesn't with women. It doesn't with other men, it doesn't at work. The ones who succeed are the same people who put on a mask to hide their shittiness.
The bizareness of this is that you get viewed as a shitty person masking if you try to be genuine and not be a fake fuck.
I was talking about work and other social situations there but it applies to relationships too like I've said. Women have wanted me when I've I'm not invested and just want to fuck around with them, but these same women get bored the moment I get too serious with them. They'll then turn it around on you and pretend like you're the real abuser and a piece of shit while they move on to chase men that actually straight up abuse them with no remorse, while you end up blamed. The worst thing is that even other "losers" won't blame you. I've seen people on this very site judge me and others like me for things that I can't control.
At this point I've accepted that I'm living in a clownworld reality.
The only thing you can do is put on a mask while not forgetting that you are a good person inside. Be a shitty person when you have to but keep an eye out for those few good people that exist in the world, they're out there.