Thread 81520305 - /r9k/ [Archived: 1016 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:39:12 PM No.81520305
1749543976130436
1749543976130436
md5: 2dab29eb8e67b42ee6e3d90b5b8fba3c🔍
Why are foid unwilling to approach men?
The majority of young women have never approached a man!
Replies: >>81520307 >>81521971 >>81521976 >>81522263 >>81523191 >>81524815 >>81524997 >>81525454 >>81525993 >>81526883 >>81527475
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:39:58 PM No.81520307
>>81520305 (OP)
Being in a relationship with a male wouldn't add anything to my life at all
Replies: >>81520337 >>81526454 >>81527886
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:45:22 PM No.81520337
>>81520307
It would add love and to have someone deeply care about you more than anything else? Is that not worth it?
You could have someone to go on dates with and cuddle with.
Replies: >>81520343 >>81520362
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:46:47 PM No.81520343
>>81520337
just so i end up being replaced or cheated on when i stop looking young? i could've done something else
Replies: >>81520350
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:48:01 PM No.81520350
>>81520343
Why do you think that? Women cheat as much as men.
Would you not rather want someone that wants to grow old with you?
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:49:55 PM No.81520357
Why do you unwilling to approach us? Afraid of rejection? My boyfriend wasn't.
Replies: >>81520361 >>81520434 >>81526067
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:50:35 PM No.81520361
>>81520357
Why are YOU unwilling to approach US?!
Men approach women more than women approach men. What is the matter?
Replies: >>81520384
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:50:41 PM No.81520362
>>81520337
Shut up nigga. Fr
Replies: >>81520373
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:52:56 PM No.81520373
>>81520362
Why do you say this?
Most of you end up having bfs in the first place.
Like way more women are in relationships than men are. So most of you seem to like it anyway.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 1:54:56 PM No.81520384
>>81520361
Your ancestors were the ones approaching since they were confident and courageous: both admirable and desirable qualities that you lack.
Replies: >>81520428 >>81520436 >>81522799 >>81523846 >>81523956 >>81525456 >>81526706
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:08:27 PM No.81520428
>>81520384
And your female ancestors were kind and caring and loyal. Something you clearly lack too.
How come men are expected to act like they always have when women don't?
Replies: >>81520454
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:09:52 PM No.81520434
>>81520357
a man will never report a woman to the police for an unwanted approach
the same cannot be said for the reverse
Replies: >>81520454 >>81527891
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:10:44 PM No.81520436
>>81520384
You ancestors also enslaved backs and refuse to give right of vote to women.
You aren't your ancestors.
Replies: >>81520454
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:14:21 PM No.81520454
>>81520428
>kind and caring and loyal
I am. My boyfriend likes that I am so kind, caring, and loyal to him.

>>81520434
That is an extremely rare event and almost always because they could not take "no" for an answer.

>>81520436
Just admit you're scared of rejection. My ancestors didn't enslave anyone. It was illegal in their countries before they emigrated to the US in the 1920's. They believed in women's rights.
Replies: >>81520461 >>81520668 >>81521929
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:15:50 PM No.81520461
>>81520454
>was illegal in their countries before they emigrated to the US in the 1920's.
What country?
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:49:10 PM No.81520638
Women have the upper hand, they are the choosers. That's why it's so bizarre that it's men who are expected to ask them out.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:56:45 PM No.81520668
>>81520454
>That is an extremely rare event
there was stats released stating that 1/4 zoomer women have reported an unwanted romantic advance to the police
thta's worse than russian roulette odds
Replies: >>81520761
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:16:12 PM No.81520761
>>81520668
That's all over all advances, so it's not 1/4 odds for every giving aproach. Actual chances aren't possible to estimate as number of advances wasn't counted. It's better than Russian roulette odds for sure.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:54:38 PM No.81521929
>>81520454
>My boyfriend
The fuck are you doing here you normalfoid?
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:58:49 PM No.81521970
>Why are foid unwilling to approach men?
They do, it's just done in a way that you don't notice, ESL-kun
Replies: >>81522275
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:58:52 PM No.81521971
Screenshot_20250615_021142
Screenshot_20250615_021142
md5: d0905a8ec16de3159783dae20ef5e19f🔍
>>81520305 (OP)
they have no balls to ask someone out they like
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 5:59:21 PM No.81521976
>>81520305 (OP)
Asking men out is a terrible idea.
Men need to feel like theyve earned and achieved something by dating you.
In my experience no matter what the incels and losers on the internet try to tell you, men dont actually respect or want women who ask them out. It takes away the thrill of being with you.

I swear only desperate men want women to ask them out and I strongly advise women against it.
Replies: >>81524458 >>81524801 >>81526380
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:12:15 PM No.81522086
It makes me feel really really bad knowing that all of my peers collectively have the intelligence of maybe middle schoolers and don't mature beyond that. Social media (this includes 4chan) replies basically make me think that the average person is a drooling imbecile incapable of seeing beyond the surface level for any thought, idea, or topic and devolves into mindless arguments or chimp behavior. Now when it comes to women, they are basically this except they rationalize their skewed delusional perspective of the world with their emotions and feelings and are easily more influenced by social media and news outlets. Communicating or approaching one is a total waste of time. I'd rather wait for a one-sided relationship where I can isolate her from this rotting shithole of a society and maybe help get her the fuck off her phone and computer than to go on some pussy chase and sift through a bunch of stupid 20 or 30 year old women who behave like teenagers and genuinely need to be smacked across their fucking mouth. You don't have to go to some special place to see how these stupid ADULT little girls behave. Just go get a job, or go to literally any social gathering and you can see how princess was raised to be a horrible piece of shit by their simp father. No one in their right mind wants to get with some simp father's whore of a daughter.
Replies: >>81522237
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:29:53 PM No.81522237
>>81522086
I hope you die alone honestly
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:33:57 PM No.81522263
16739845634
16739845634
md5: 4bae9f789e531aab3139742d2ff1c5af🔍
>>81520305 (OP)
Why put in effort when the man will do it for you?
Replies: >>81524454
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:35:09 PM No.81522275
>>81521970
>s just done in a way that you don't notice
example?
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:02:27 PM No.81522497
It gives up the power of being chased and pursued. I had a girl approach me once and it's 100x better than approaching because you know you already won.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:36:40 PM No.81522799
>>81520384
>"Oh, I don't like that person, but I'd sure start liking them if they approach me"
Said no one ever.
Replies: >>81523180
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 8:18:14 PM No.81523180
>>81522799
I would appreciate a girl for trying. Maybe them liking me is enough actually.
Replies: >>81524676
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 8:19:41 PM No.81523191
>>81520305 (OP)
Because humanity rewards female cowardice, and then acts suprised when male cowards are still produced like half the equation of reproduction and genes is cowards
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:30:21 PM No.81523846
889c4
889c4
md5: d92efc4bdc701d13a03f9c584419fa4a🔍
>>81520384
No my ancestors would just kidnap you and add you to their harem, then when they get bored of you they would feed you to jaguars.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:42:05 PM No.81523956
>>81520384
My ancestor murdered his wife in front of his children lmao
Replies: >>81526130
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:29:52 PM No.81524454
1737313898854264
1737313898854264
md5: 76535d76807cb5a3495c7afde185534a🔍
>>81522263
Why put in the effort if the woman will not reciprocate?
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:30:01 PM No.81524458
>>81521976
>Men need to feel like theyve earned and achieved something by dating you.
I would feel happy just having a girl ask me out.
>men dont actually respect or want women who ask them out.
This is bullshit. Many of the normalfags here got their long term gfs from being approached.
>It takes away the thrill of being with you
I would feel a thrill just being approached by a girl with good intentions.

Do you actually have experience with what you're writing?
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 10:52:14 PM No.81524676
>>81523180
Yeah but that's so uncommon the other way around that it makes the act admirable. For women, it's just another tuesday.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:05:41 PM No.81524801
>>81521976
This is a tranny you should kys
Replies: >>81525434
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:08:18 PM No.81524815
>>81520305 (OP)
That's against the order of things
Replies: >>81525132
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:32:02 PM No.81524997
>>81520305 (OP)
Because most of them view women as merely accessories to their own lives and thus have no care for being loving and caring aside the bare minimum of what gets her to be their emotional support.

Why would I put in the effort to be in a relationship with someone who's apathetic towards my hobbies and interests while expecting me to be his #1 cheerleader, and I get called a nag for dare asking him to care about me w/o specifically asking him to?
Replies: >>81525434 >>81525877 >>81525969 >>81526866
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 11:51:22 PM No.81525132
>>81524815
Things have become so much out of the original order of things.
But I don't see you complain about female bosses or women being the breadwinner or shit like that.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 12:24:45 AM No.81525434
>>81524801
Nope Im a woman and im just telling it like it is
>>81524997
Facts
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 12:27:34 AM No.81525454
>>81520305 (OP)
>Why are foid unwilling to approach men?
lazy whores that got everything they ever wanted in life without any work
they approach chad though
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 12:27:41 AM No.81525456
>>81520384
>women have a revolution in the gender and are able to break away from social norms
>still want men to do all the work
Its just not fair, I can approach women, but the only way to know for sure she wants you is if she approaches you
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 12:52:15 AM No.81525669
B8 thread but I'll bite

They do approach men all the time lol
They don't approach the worker drones though
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:00:51 AM No.81525750
I got waived down by a group of girls the other day, they did a heart symbol. I walked over there and then they quickly said "ok goodbye".

Would have been better if they didn't say anything to me.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:07:31 AM No.81525820
You can admit you are scared and entitled. Don't go shooting people because of your own inadequecies, Elliot.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:14:27 AM No.81525877
1740549925800626
1740549925800626
md5: 4956a8629d5e5e35387172fb75983424🔍
>>81524997
>Why would I put in the effort to be in a relationship with someone who's apathetic towards my hobbies and interests while expecting me to be his #1 cheerleader, and I get called a nag for dare asking him to care about me w/o specifically asking him to?
Has *any* girl bothered caring about my hobbies? That's what I thought.
Replies: >>81526332
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:23:49 AM No.81525969
>>81524997
If I had a gf I would engage in her hobbies with her.
Of course I would do anything to her if she would do the same to me.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:26:14 AM No.81525993
>>81520305 (OP)
They approach Chad constantly, I have Chad friends, of course you arent one so its ok to not know, but you can see it just by goin outside in events for a while
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:34:03 AM No.81526067
>>81520357
Did your boyfriend just cold approach you and ask you for your number after 30 seconds of talking? A couple minutes?

I'd like to learn how human beings operate so I can be more confident in my ways of talking with people.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 1:40:40 AM No.81526130
>>81523956
That's really not "lmao"
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 2:02:56 AM No.81526332
Jhhjj_thumb.jpg
Jhhjj_thumb.jpg
md5: 5517de573a99f93e5ce9bfdf319b0b22🔍
>>81525877
Idk. I find that most women are way more willing to be supportive about their bf's hobbies or even get into into their hobbies then men do with their gfs. Most men just want a girl with either already similar hobbies or a girl to bring into their hobbies, while being apathetic at best towards any hobbies she has. That isn't really the case for women. Hell, a woman saying she finds gamers unattractive nowadays will get shit on by both men and women.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 2:09:57 AM No.81526380
>>81521976
This. If a man hasnt asked you out its because he isnt into you. Dont try to force it, it wont work.
Replies: >>81526440
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 2:17:40 AM No.81526440
>>81526380
Not really. Some guys are just too timid.
Replies: >>81526451
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 2:18:53 AM No.81526451
>>81526440
It's a character development if the shy, timid guy can get over it. That's a positive.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 2:19:39 AM No.81526454
>>81520307
This
>women have careers
>women have large pool of suitors
>women have way large safety net via government
They just don't need a man to be independent. Plus, even if they do, some of these women are evil and will financially drain you then leave you.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 2:53:37 AM No.81526706
>>81520384
>Your ancestors were the ones approaching
true, but they didn't approach the girls themselfes, they were approaching their chosen brides dad with 5 goats and 2 cows as a bride price.
A lot more like a business negotiation between men and a lot less pretending to be a handsome charming and funny chad in hopes of convincing a girl to accept him
Modern dating really isn't that old in light of human history.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:13:49 AM No.81526866
>>81524997

Tell me you dated a Chad without telling me you dated a chad
Replies: >>81527046
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:15:35 AM No.81526879
men usually spill their spaghetti when a women approaches them. or they are INSALEY try hard almost every time. every guy is guilty of one because you can't be perfect.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:16:04 AM No.81526883
>>81520305 (OP)

Women will usually do some type of signal and non autistic guys will pick up on it and ask them out lol. Also women have their own money so the only way you will impress her with money is if you're making a LOT more than her (think 150k a year).
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:37:17 AM No.81527046
>>81526866
i just conducted several covert operations in which i cannot go into further detail about
also spilled coffee on my leg and beat the tboy arc in maplestory
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:20:34 AM No.81527435
>women are biologically hard wired to not approach men first
>women made it actually unironically illegal to for men to approach women first
I wonder why nobody is getting into relationships anymore
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:25:30 AM No.81527475
>>81520305 (OP)
Because the dynamic currently is that one woman gets approached by plenty of men, so why should they seek out men when they can simply pick and choose from the ones that are clearly interested?
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:15:43 AM No.81527886
>>81520307
Yeah, can see why. Men are shit.
If men at least took care of themselves a bit I'm sure women wouldn't mind, but the standard is in hell so they don't see the point.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:16:29 AM No.81527891
>>81520434
>a man will never report a woman to the police for an unwanted approach
Yeah you're thinking with your dick there
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:22:52 AM No.81527946
Women be like:
>We want equality and to move away from the traditional gender roles!
>But not for the things that benefit us so man up :)
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:48:00 AM No.81528166
IMG_0298
IMG_0298
md5: 4f63758f2ddf8c8cf4d655472dd36dd7🔍
>these comments
Damn gen z is fucked.
>weirdly hostile and combative females
>shy males with no self reassurance
>both think they are hot shit while being the worst version of themselves
Replies: >>81528515
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:36:11 AM No.81528515
>>81528166
Okay?
But women are the ones who have broken from their gender roles and still expect men to preform theirs and shut up.
Its playing a losing game, why would I placate women when they get treated with kids gloves and placated by everyone around them anyway?
Its feeding into a beast thats already full.