Thread 81520492 - /r9k/ [Archived: 1098 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:21:05 PM No.81520492
svy
svy
md5: 99e09bf190de7bb7dfd39b8b52c9e210🔍
Why don't incels just self improve?
Replies: >>81520572 >>81520599 >>81520832 >>81520844
sage
6/17/2025, 2:24:49 PM No.81520514
u need to get a hobby nigga
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:26:19 PM No.81520520
Takes a lot of time and money to see results and most women still wont look at you
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:36:39 PM No.81520572
>>81520492 (OP)
The word "improve" is doing a lot of the heavy lifting here. What's a worse state, and what's an improved state? If I became a serial killer, I would magically become far more attractive to women. Is that an improved state?
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:41:38 PM No.81520599
>>81520492 (OP)
I'm not an incel so I'm not gonna improve myself
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 2:46:39 PM No.81520629
My personality is shit and you cant even change that
Replies: >>81520816
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:27:43 PM No.81520816
>>81520629
You literally can. You can change your personality.
Replies: >>81520885 >>81520896 >>81520905
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:30:47 PM No.81520832
>>81520492 (OP)
I did it for around 12 years during my 20s. Gave up when I was 32. It had no effect, I'm 38 now and I am as lonely now as I was during my 20s., It literally makes no difference if you improve or not, if women don't want you women don't want you
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:32:41 PM No.81520844
>>81520492 (OP)
Currently doing it
Managed to get some new male friends and I don't feel too miserable anymore
BUT still no gf
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:39:49 PM No.81520885
>>81520816
Women can sense when youre faking a personality women have told me
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:41:28 PM No.81520896
>>81520816
It depends what you mean by "personality". If you mean what psychologists mean, so the thing that's described by the big 5 model, then I'm not sure it's possible.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 3:42:38 PM No.81520905
>>81520816
Proof?
From what I read its literally the opposite than what people commonly think. Your personality is far more set after childhood than your looks.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 4:18:23 PM No.81521135
18ec63e3b05f47082978d89034173710002d4950
18ec63e3b05f47082978d89034173710002d4950
md5: 7da57fd46d4590d967ca316d18f30c69🔍
Self improvement is impossible