Are you single out of personal choice, anon?

>>81520998 (OP)

mmm overall I'd say no. I've had girls hit on me and be interested but my inability to make a move makes me want to say no

I just let girls orbit to me whenever and I try that relationship out because its something to do. I dont ever actively look for them. Has worked pretty good though.

>>81520998 (OP)
My choices so bad they're worse than being single

>>81520998 (OP)
I guess, I technically could get a bf but the options are:
>Guy that's clearly a pedophile and will ditch me once I hit the wall.
>The most emotionally unavailable fucker in existence, I'd basically have to do mine and his job to keep the relationship going.
>Rapist who treats me like a sex object more than a human being.
>Guy twice/thrice my age, nothing objectively wrong with them, I just don't know how I'm supposed to bond with them + I want to be able to show my bf to my friends without making it insanely awkward.

>>81521053
>I just don't know how I'm supposed to bond with them
Someone with more life experience than you should be able to do the legwork.

>>81521053
>The most emotionally unavailable fucker in existence, I'd basically have to do mine and his job to keep the relationship going.
How does that work? Emotions are like a small portion of the relationship. Does it actually matter if he's emotionless as fuck but still carries the rest of the shit like with a job and chores and shit? Seems functional to me.

>>81520998 (OP)
Was nobody going to bring up how long that foot is?
Anyway, it depends on how you define choice. I literally just haven't talked to women for years, and you could say that's a choice. I take online classes and I only work with guys at my job. Maybe I should try talking to some at the gym or going to the bar. I just feel that I wouldn't connect with any random normie woman walking around out there, but I suppose that's no reason not to try

>>81520998 (OP)
>Are you single out of personal choice,
Yes personal choice and not because no one want me

>>81520998 (OP)
No. I'm single because of my genetics. Females all have a little computer in their head that decides if you should be able to mate or not. This happens unconsciously and only takes milliseconds.

>>81521077
Yeah but if I start talking about chronically online shit/fandoms they won't get it since they didn't grow up with it.
besides I want to contribute to the relationship aswell, making people do everything for me makes me feel really guilty.
>>81521087
>Emotions are like a small portion of the relationship.
Not sure what you mean by that, but I guess how I see it is that I'd like to have a man to have a bond with, if they don't talk to me much then I don't know how I'm supposed to connect with them, let alone how to be a good partner for them myself.

>>81521179
What's an example of some chronically online shit?

>>81520998 (OP)
>>81520998 (OP)
Yeah, I'm total volcel schizoid. Relationships and sex just aren't worth the effort to attempt. I like my solitude.

>>81521207
needle cookie.

>>81521243
I feel like that's something that even chronically online guys wouldn't know about unless they're trans or gay though. I played undertale and have no idea what that is.

>>81521252
It was a situation at a convention somewhere around 2016/2017 where an artist that drew artwork of a controversial ship got gifted a cookie that had a bunch of needles baked into it, then there were other claims of this happening in other cons too.

>>81521243
>know my esoteric in-jokes before you've even met me, tehe~
This is a shit test.

>>81521301
That sounds pretty boring. How are YouTubers able to make a 20 hour long video about such a mundane subject.

>>81521302
>>81521305
I guess it's a bit of a niche situation, though still, what common topics would one have with someone that can realistically be their parent (that isn't politics cuz fuck that shit)

>>81521053
You guys are really weird and delusional. It makes me think Im not really a femcel, because there are even weirder girls here.

>>81521314
My foid is 10 years younger. We mostly talk about philosophy, medicine, politics, and vidya. She has autistic niche hobbies we don't talk about, e.g., trains, and I don't bore her with mine either. Been together for 5 years now.

>>81521314
>what common topics would one have with someone that can realistically be their parent
Don't date a guy that is that much older than you WTF

>>81520998 (OP)
Mostly. I think getting a chick could be done but it would take control away from aspects of my life that I am unwilling to relinquish.

Not really. It takes two to dance tango. I've been absolutely unlucky in love matters.

>>81520998 (OP)
Yes, I've had to beat women away with a stick to stay single. My virginity is precious, it puts me in the same category as Sir Isaac Newton, Nikola Tesla, Mother Teressa, that dude who wrote Alice in Wonderland, Saints and Buddhist monks. I have ascended above my instinct and I look down on the normies.

>>81520998 (OP)
No, I'm very ugly and women are scared of me.

>>81521433
Yeah that's why I'm not doing that, It wouldn't work.

>>81520998 (OP)
Im a 34 year old kissless virgin who have never seen a vagina IRL.
Never been drunk/high, never been to a party, never had a girl who was a friend, never said "Hi!" to a girl classmate/colleague/stranger first (only after they say: "Hi!" first), never talked to a girl who wasn't a client (Im paid to talk to) longer than a few surface level sentences

>>81521632
Not sure if this is you but if it is, you look really fucking cute, but your eyes seem kinda aggressive? like you went through some shit/

>>81521632
>Never been drunk
I didn't even remember this lore tidbit about you.
You owe it to yourself to try getting drunk at least once, alcohol is legal and doesn't disqualify you from any future high paying careers like other drugs could, and it could do enough magic to your brain that you stop spamming this crap.

>>81521683
There are alot more "lore" about me. I cant bother saying it all everytime.

Just imagine the most quiet, but still funny and loving for his friends, guy who just play ALOT of games and in his own world from age 13 to 25+

>>81520998 (OP)
I'm single because my sexual energy has been constantly depleted by masturbation for the last 20 years

if i were that dude i wouldnt post my feet.

also who prints a tweet on a canvas?!?!

>>81521663
yeah, you dont look ugly at all, You have really nice hair

>>81521627
you should date me I play jrpgs and go to the gym, also I'm not a rapist or a pedophile, also i'm terminally online and not super old and desperate enough to fly to you eventually

yeah
I bet I could land some used up whore that wants a provider because of the stuff (materialistic) I could offer
but I refuse

I do not deserve to breed.

>>81521740
Are you attracted to women or men though?
Because if it's women that flight would be super awkward, inb4 I'm not a femboy either.

>>81521789
I am attracted only to women -

>>81520998 (OP)
I have a gf, when we inevitably break up I will attempt to hook up with one girl afterwards then declare myself volcel and get a dog. Its just not worth it.

>>81520998 (OP)
No. There are no horny milfs in my area or hot singles a click away

It's always a choice. Incels btfo

>>81520998 (OP)
yes but no one believes you when you say it and any comeback sounds like cope so here we are.
>divorced

>>81521800
Well, I hope you'll find a good woman then (kindof an oxymoron I know) since you seem awesome based on that description.

>>81520998 (OP)
Probably not.
Never had the chance to get a gf. Never rejected a girl, never had any girl come onto me.
I am a literal incel I think. I was rejected before I had any chance.

>>81521017
Literally how does something like that even happen? I cannot even imagine a girl wanting my attention.
Why would a chad come here if you are not a larper?

My peenors too small

>>81520998 (OP)
I don't understand why women who are whores have all these children's toys and interests.

>>81522177
That's no woman.

>>81520998 (OP)
I wouldn't say personal choice, rather "my own fault".

>Self esteem low because I live with my parents and still am not in my career.
>Get immense stress and anxiety interacting with females, especially when it comes to dating (been working on reducing this)
>Enjoy my free time and am autistically focused on something that takes of 80% of my time right now
>Refuse to use "dating" apps. Too socially awkward and disgusted by the whole thing anyways

Basically if I wanted to get pussy I'd have to go the route of loser who's attractive and fucks shitty women until they're tired of me or realize I suck and move on. I don't have it in me to participate in that.

>>81520998 (OP)
>out of personal choice
No? Lmao wtf
Anybody that says that is either asexual (not a real condition) or in denial

I want to have sex with a pretty woman that loves me so bad I'd kill for it
I'd gladly betray my country or humanity itself for it
I'd do any unspeakable thing

I choose to avoid it because I find myself disgusting. They were shoving SSRI's down my throat in late-elementary school, and I put on a lot of weight really fast, so I have a gross, flabby body, even after losing a lot of weight. While this causes the bulk of mental anguish in my life, It's gone completely unaddressed. I never discussed with my family, or a therapist, or anything. I don't like talking about.

Girls have tried to hit on me before, but I just can't deal with it, I'm too self conscious and repulsed at myself.

All that on top of having autism and living on SSI. Just bad shit all around. I really wouldn't mind dying at this point.

All that on top of having autism

>>81522486
It's really fucking brutal for me to think about. My life was completely ruined before I was even in middle school, because the only way they know how to "help" autistic people is by shoving poison pills down their gullets.

It just seems so unfair.

>>81520998 (OP)
I am ugly and neurodivergent so I am single because of genetics.

>>81521053
>Guy twice/thrice my age, nothing objectively wrong with them, I just don't know how I'm supposed to bond with them + I want to be able to show my bf to my friends without making it insanely awkward.

If he were your own age or younger, you'd feel insecure when your friends show off their relatively older man. Fuck you.

>>81520998 (OP)
is it still out of choice if i don't bother trying because i know it would get me nowhere?

>>81522650
I think I'm going to eventually have to commit suicide over this. I don't want to think about this shit anymore. I'm 38 now, so I did a lot of time in my own head, and I know these wounds will never heal, and trying to get "help" seems pointless. I sorta had a suicide attempt once, but there wasn't any damage and nothing came of it. I really would prefer to do it with a gun to the brain. I think If I had access to a gun, It would already be done. At this point, I might as well at least wait until my mom dies.

Sorry to go on, but the floodgates are open. Like I said, I really don't talk about this to others very often at all.

>>81520998 (OP)
I am single because I don't know how to talk to women, or really how to talk to anyone anymore.
Whenever I do use a dating app I get matches I just don't know how to talk to them.
I am single on purpose when I'm not trying.
I have almost had success on duo but see above.

Yes. Women are so fucking annoying and its like taking care of a child. I'f rather jerk off then go through her shit tests

>>81520998 (OP)
I'm not ready to get into another relationship after the last bunch of women I dated fucked me up terribly. I also don't have the funds for it right now, dating is expensive as fuck.

>>81520998 (OP)
Imagine being a woman and getting praised by thousands just for existing. Legit just don't be fat, smack some product on your pretty face, undress in front of a camera, and boom; instant unconditional validation. This shit sucks.

>>81520998 (OP)
fkn glowie you will never know
but i will
baca use i know thag i know nothin
can u say the same?

>>81521053
>will ditch me once I hit the wall
based

No one notices me, that's why

Yes and no. I have rejected a few women and gave up but only because I can't into socializing.