Why dont incels just pick up a hobby - /r9k/ (#81522746) [Archived: 1053 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:31:00 PM No.81522746
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Youre all incels because your boring and your personality is shit. Just pick up a hobby and attend hobby clubs and meetups. Theres plenty of girls that are desperate for a respectful men to say hi to them and talk to them about their hobbies
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:36:10 PM No.81522797
>>81522746 (OP)
Wow, I've never thought about that, I'll just go to the local heavy machinery club and pick up some hot heavy machinery girls who also coincidentally like anime.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:37:25 PM No.81522814
>>81522746 (OP)
Having a hobby is cool and all, but if you bring a girl into it, it stops being a hobby. It's like trying to profit from a hobby, it immediately sucks all the fun out of it.
Girls don't care what the hobby is, just get a hobby for yourself and ONLY for yourself. Find something you can do with the girl after you're in a relationship, but you need your separate hobbies.
Also,
>blacksmithing
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:38:45 PM No.81522823
>>81522746 (OP)

I play multiple different instruments, I workout a lot, I like to cook, I like to play odd people games like chess and sudoku (and regulars games too), I like to go out and see new things, etc. A lot of incels have hobbies

It's not about hobbies it's about social and relationship skills. You stupid fucks can't understand that because you likely grew up in an environment that cultivated those things and now since those things are so instinctual to you, you don't know how to actually convey what makes someone likeable and just give what you think might be the reason from your little, ignorant perspective
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:39:19 PM No.81522830
>>81522746 (OP)
hobbies might help someone else, they don't do shit to help me
doing photography does NOT get me a gf
i'm sure if I were a chad it would get me girls, but i'm not
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:39:38 PM No.81522832
there are definitely guys who are not sexy when they are hobbying
in fact i'll double down and say hobbies do nothing for a certain type of guy
it's like the inverse of chad
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:40:03 PM No.81522838
>>81522746 (OP)
I go to both hiking clubs and language lessons. There isnt a single girl below 60. Just a bunch of old people ane a few young guys who have been fed the same bs advice.
Women dont go to muh hobby clubs
Women dont attend muh meetups
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:42:22 PM No.81522859
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>>81522746 (OP)
Wow, reading as in reading books is the most lame value-from-stereotype thing you can do.
>buks smurt
>i do dat thing den i be smurt
It's the intelligence equivalent of pic related
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:46:15 PM No.81522910
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>>81522746 (OP)
Attached is a list of my hobbies. If having hobbies is all it took to find a gf, then I would have a gf
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:47:27 PM No.81522926
>>81522832
it should also be said sometimes people get tired of seeing everything you want to be and nothing else
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 7:50:12 PM No.81522956
>>81522746 (OP)
I do 3 of those things on those list and I'm personable. I'm just beyond ugly. You say it's about personality, but if women recoil whenever you say hi to them then it's impossible for them to get to know you.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 8:17:55 PM No.81523177
>>81522910
>Educational theory
Based.
What are your views on school
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 8:24:38 PM No.81523234
>>81523177
My view is that american education is totally fucked and nobody is doing shit about it, and the best use of my skills is creating an educational system that holds students accountable instead of just passing them every grade
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 8:26:14 PM No.81523247
>>81523234
>My view is that american education is totally fucked and nobody is doing shit about it
Agreed.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 8:28:17 PM No.81523269
>>81522746 (OP)
funny story prolly told it before but my mom signed me up for woodcarving classes
so I go there and I was the youngest there, by decades, everyone else was old enough to be my grandparents, the 2nd youngest person was my mom
this wasnt some hicktown either it was a pretty big city
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 8:31:45 PM No.81523298
>>81522746 (OP)
Extremely superficial and biased chart
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:08:07 PM No.81523658
>>81523298
It's literally just made up, there's not even an attempt at a fake source, anybody could make a chart like this. It's unbelievable that people can still bait with this shit.
>>81522910
No offense, but nobody on planet Earth has enough time to earnestly dedicate themselves to that many things, so having a list of over a dozen things like this just make it seem like you're trying to impress people.
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:24:33 PM No.81523801
>>81522746 (OP)
Let me help translate:

>Reading
Meaning "Guy that can read".
If you ever decide to read a book over giving woman attention she's 100% getting the ick. l If you like sci-fi or fantasy then lmao.
>ForeignLanguages
Most women at some point fantasize about fucking a sexually agressive foreigner they can barely communicate with. A random guy taking language classes is going to be an ick. Doubly so if's not a "sexy" language like spanish or french.
>PlayingInstrument
They occasionally masturbate to the memory of a guy they had a crush on in high school playing wonderwall and then fingerbanging their friend at a party. Some random instrument like a theramin or a violin is an instant ick.
>Cooking
They want YOU to cook for THEM and only the dishes that they like. Cook for the love of the game, or worse yet, something that you like but hey don't? yep, instant ick.
>Woodworking
Dreamed about fucking a lumberjack at some point
Want you to do the housework that their dad usually handles
If you spend your evenings handcarving some figurines or souvenir's then lmao
>Painting
They watched the Titanic and thought DiCaprio was hot.
If you paint something like warhammer minis then lmao
>Writing
They like porn (90% of what women "read").
>Gardening
They like the idea of owning a house with a big yard where they can sit on the patio while you do all the backbreaking chores.
>Swimming
Dreamed about fucking a lifeguard at some point
>Photography
Got wet watching Sweeney get fucked by that photographer twink in Euphoria or have another similar fantasy. Also porn.
>Astronomy
Astrology
>Hiking
They want a guy that takes them on free vacations around the world. Idea of "hiking" is walking from the parking lot to the tourist trap and back.
>Archery
Dreamed about fucking Barton or another pop-culture idea of an "archer"
>Blacksmithing
Dreamed about fucking a sweaty musclebound metalworker at some point
>Traveling
They want a guy that takes them on free vacations around the world.
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:30:56 PM No.81523854
>>81522746 (OP)
why don't you pick up my turds with your tongue, faggot
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:48:58 PM No.81524019
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>>81522746 (OP)
if only girls came to the LGS nights of MTG (they dont) (trannies come though ew)
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:51:26 PM No.81524037
>>81522746 (OP)
Dont care, gonna keep building lego
Anonymous
6/17/2025, 9:57:52 PM No.81524094
>>81523801
>sexy" language like spanish or french.
>french
Kek, noone like fr*nce and the fr*nch, language, litterally every woman in and outside europe hates france agree its the most useless and disgusting labguage on earth.
They like spanish and italian.
t.surrender monkey who lived in the US