>>81523994 (OP)Transracial adoption is a very legitimate issue, and it's disappointing to see it brushed off like this. I'm sure the girl loves her parents but is also frustrated that she feels that she cannot talk about race with them, especially if they are taking the "race-blind" approach that many adoptive parents do. For Korean adoptees specifically, the problem was exacerbated by American soldiers fathering and leaving behind children during and after the Korean war and by Korea's lacking child welfare policies in the decades following--adoption transmogrified into another way in which the state handled destitute and illegitimate children.
Imagine if you were adopted at birth into a black family in a majority-black country and your adoptive parents never spoke to you about your visually apparent racial difference from others around you. How would you feel?
Here is some more reading on the issues if anyone is interested (hah):
(1) For a general introduction to the issues at play: Laura Briggs's work, especially "Somebody's Children," as it has history and discussion of both transracial intranational and transracial international adoptions
(2) For a psychologist's perspective, Rich Lee's "The Transracial Adoption Paradox"
(3) For a postcolonialist's perspective: Tobias Hubinette's writings
(4) For Korean adoptees specifically: Eleana Kim's "Adopted Territory"
I also noticed the original account also exclusively posts incredibly racist things. It doesn't feel like responding to this question will be in good faith, but I hope other readers might stop for a moment and think about the issue.