Should I accept the offer? - /r9k/ (#81527218) [Archived: 1002 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:58:49 AM No.81527218
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Moms side of my family joke (but semi serious) about setting up an arranged marriage to a Peruvian girl.

At first I brushed it off cause I was not looking for that stuff yet but every day the lonelyness creeps in a little more and more.

I am white btw. I'm also have irrational fear of my potential children being Dark-skinned. I am a biracial child and some how ended up white. Am i genetically capable of rolling those dice like my dad? Also Peruvians are some of the shortest people on the planet. I am 5'6 just from being half Peruvian alone. I can't imagine if I have a kid they will be even more doomed than me. I'll probably put weights on their legs or something if she lets me.
This is all hypothetical
I don't know what she would look like but I do believe my mother's family is more than capable of pulling this arrangement off of it ever gets serious. Thoughts?
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:00:49 AM No.81527239
>>81527218 (OP)
Anon this is your only shot at a girlfriend
Don't let your autism fuck it up
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:01:07 AM No.81527240
>>81527218 (OP)
Try casually dating her first and see what happens.
If you don't like each other so be it.
If you hop into a marriage and she ends up disliking you(unfortunately likely) you're fucked
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:02:59 AM No.81527257
Yeah, you should go for it. I wish my parents would arrange me a marriage. It's gotta be so much easier when everything is picked out for you and all you gotta do is make it work. There's no wondering about her intentions either. No insecurities about not being the exciting boyfriend and being the stable one who gives her the life she wants but not the relationship she wants. You and her are in the same circumstance relationally.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:05:02 AM No.81527271
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>>81527218 (OP)
Arranged marriages are typically happier by the way since you pair bond better.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:05:53 AM No.81527277
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>>81527218 (OP)
As far as genetics goes, your children would likely be darker than you working off of the assumption that the mother is darker. You can do a simple punnett square to estimate heritable traits. Same goes for height too desu.

I'm fully white(burgerland). I wish my parents could set up an arranged marriage for me with another white family. Some people just get all the breaks.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:07:16 AM No.81527288
How old are you

Try to get a few dates with the girl instead of just an instant marriage

See if she's onboard or bitchy about it
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:08:37 AM No.81527301
>>81527218 (OP)
what is picrel tho weird alien creature.uclaim it's "peruvian" ok papi
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:09:40 AM No.81527310
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32XNJCYTxSc
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:17:56 AM No.81527416
>>81527218 (OP)
They're literally offering you a gf, dummy.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:55:28 AM No.81527727
>>81527218 (OP)
>if I have a kid they will be even more doomed than me.
Just set him up with another Peruvian, they're not running out
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 4:58:16 AM No.81527757
>>81527727

Then they'll just get shorter and blacker and shorter and blacker.

Maybe she might be Light-Skinned. Also there are mixed Asian/latinas there