>>81532671i mean because like i ask people a bunch oif questions and research everything they tell me and put effort into talking with them about everything they know which comes off as clingy to other people and theyve pruposefully used it against me to mani9pulate me. i had this one person on discord who threatened to unadd me after we had talked for a while i guess because they picked up on my bpdish tendencies (as they appear anyway) and had done a bunch of other stufff that was like testing whether or not i would accept them acting like mean or threatening to me