>Be me
>Meet girl (female) online through World of Warcraft
>She's actually clever and fun to talk to
>We eventually exchange pics and chat with cams on
>She's a 7.5/10 qt
>Lives abroad though
>We spend the next 5 or so years always hanging out
>Got to the point where we could start talking to each other in the morning and only end at like 4 A.M
>The first real connection I've felt to another human being in years
>Eventually she says she's joining the military
>The navy, specifically
>Understandably this means she won't as much free time
>But she promises to try and keep in touch as much as possible
>And she does, and even sending me a few physical, hand-written letters
>But as the months and years go by they slow down until any attempt to contact me stop completely
>Haven't had any sort of contact with her for an entire year
>Our last conversation was about how she feels "we didn't have much in common anymore"
>This last Christmas I finally manned up enough to write her out of my life, deleting her from any friends' lists I might've had her on and throwing away the letters she sent me that I had kept for years
>It stung like a bitch at first, but it dulled as the months went on
>Got a message from her last week saying her ship was near a city in my country, complete with pictures to prove it
>I ignored it since the last time she said her ship was gonna be docked in that same city she always flaked out anytime I suggested we should meet up
>Got another message from her this morning saying how it was a pretty cool city with nice bars and that "we should've met up but w/e" and telling me to "enjoy being petty"
>Respond by telling her off on her bullshit
>She answers that she "didn't realize that falling out of closer friendships lost you some common manners" and finished with "Enjoy life"
>Blocked me on Discord there and then
>Suddenly these last few months of healing were ruined in the span of a day

Did I do the right thing by trying to cut her out of my life, bros?

>>81533459 (OP)
pic is me when someone calls my french house set gay

>>81533459 (OP)
Why do you type as if you did anything? sounds like she was making all the effort and got tired of your inaction.

>>81533459 (OP)
You stood your ground against women's retarded games and that alone is commendable

You're such a massive retard and sabotaged yourself over literally nothing

>Did I do the right thing by trying to cut her out of my life, bros?
I didn't read any of your greentext, lol, and even I know the answer is yes.

>>81533459 (OP)
I think you're really gonna regret throwing away all those letters in a few years from now. But srsly fuck her for ghosting you, you're better off without her after she did that

My guess is that she has avoidant attachment issues. I can see the push & pull shenanigans. When you didn't respond, she went back to trying to get you "back". Chances are now that she's blocked you, she is suffering. There's also a chance albeit low, that she'll try to add up back. Use this time to figure out what you want out of this and what to say.

>>81533459 (OP)
it's one of those situations where you both fucked up but you fucked up more than her. you acted more like a woman than her, i get that you fell hard since it was one of the few real connections you had with another human being but you acted like she was your girlfriend and you've been together for 11 years but you were just friends, long distance friends to be precise. she went ahead and did something with her life, probably made new friends and new experiences while in the navy you can't seriously expect someone that's actually busy with life to mantain contact with someone she met on a videogame.
the fact she still remembered you and tried to meet up irl says a lot about how much she still cared for you. i think you need to realize you're not the main character in everyone else's lives, go do something with your life like she did, meet new people, new women and stop taking everything so personally, she could also just be a manipulative bpd whore but in the end it doesn't matter and you wouldn't feel this sad by the whole situation if you actually had something going on in your life.