>bf is experienced with sex
>im terrified of sex and total virgin
>he tells me its fine
>i ask my friends how i should go about getting over this fear
>they call me prudish and childish
>doesnt help they have more experience than me
>they talk about their sexual encounters
>I feel alienated
Feels bad man

>>81533782 (OP)
that's why i will only date virgin men who can wait

>>81533782 (OP)
This is why my bf is a virgin.
Stay safe out there !!
Scary stuff

Real talk: Your friends are whores and they're envious of your virginity which is why they are shaming you for it.

Aside from that, I don't suggest having sex with someone you don't intend to marry or haven't known for a long time.

>>81533782 (OP)
communicate the best u can with ur bf, trust ur gut feeling than relying on others validation of what to do, or not to do.
build up the trust and faith with the bf if things aren't feeling up to par for you there are many other things you guys can do together that will reinforce and build up that loving companionship, this isnt something to be rushed or feel urgent to do, to keep a relationship healthy and thriving,

>>81533820
to add
if you feel like sexual activity resonates with your spiritual alignment or personal values, then you have the birthright to defend that in any way you see fit, God be with you Anon, and peace and health between you and your bf

>>81533782 (OP)
Being afraid of sex is directly related to some sort of child abuse

>>81533890
I mean yeah, and im scared of looking like a retard when I do it.

>>81533782 (OP)
Women on 4chan don't exist. Stop larping as one faggot

>>81533907
Ask your parents how to not look like a retard while getting piped down. Come back and give us a full report. You do have good parent who will talk to you about these types of things right???

>>81533890
My mom's boyfriend tried to rape me multiple times as a child and she keeps asking why I'm 26 with no boyfriend when my brain associates sex with violence

>>81533946
My mother (adoptive) is an absolute prude. When I was 15 and asked her about sex she told me to ask our family doctor.

>>81533928
Anon vs black nona. Whose winning

>>81533782 (OP)
>guys I act really childish and entitled
>but when I tell my friends how I feel, they call me childish and entitled!
>this is so unfair..

>>81533987
You didn't tell your empathetic mother that her bf tried to rape you?
>>81533992
Why would you empathetic mother do such a thing?

>>81534007
Why should I rush into something I am unsure about. How is that childish

>>81534086
It's childish to be unsure
Your boyfriend loves you and you won't even have sex with him? What is wrong with you?

>>81534014
Shes the least empathetic person I know.

>>81534092
Because I think sex is scary and a sacred thing that should be handled with care. Too many people now of days rush into it without thinking.

>>81534097
Did society lie to me when they said women were the empathetic gender??.
Anyways do you think you will look back in twenty years and give a shit who you lost your virginity to?

>>81534135
Id rather be shamed for being a sexless woman than a slut in this day and age.

>>81534158
The only ppl shaming sluts are incels

>>81534135
>Anyways do you think you will look back in twenty years and give a shit who you lost your virginity to?
I look back 10 years and think about who I have my first kiss so yes, DUH retard. Not op obviously but you probably wouldn't notice kek.

>>81534114
>sex is scary
extremely childish attitude
>sex is sacred
and your boyfriend is not sacred and therefore doesn't deserve it. If that's how you feel, you ought to break up with him and save him the heartbreak.

>>81534174
Well he said it was fine so I dont see the issue. I am just terrified of the pain that comes with sex.

>>81534173
Who? Your stepdad?

>>81534187
you're very selfish and should probably die

>>81534205
I am divinely protected and love by many. Get well soon anon

Get new friends nigger

whats up with all the DUMB threads on this board

>>81534262
>post an excellent thread
>dies with zero responses
>post bait
>get a billion (You)s
it's all so tiresome

>>81534211
You're unwilling to fulfill your one purpose in life, you shouldn't be alive

>>81534272
And here you are responding to these dumb threads anon. What now

>>81534272
its incredible. its like these faggots think this bitch will come out of the screen and suck their dusty cock

>>81534203
>immediate homosexual projection
Lmao

>>81534293
Well? Was it?