Thread 81535784 - /r9k/ [Archived: 1044 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:42:34 PM No.81535784
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Looking at porn has completely fucked up my brain. It made me think that the only way women can be satisfied in a relationship is when they're being fucked hard by tall, muscular dudes with big dicks. Basically, men who are the total opposite of me. I literally can't imagine a woman having sex with me and being happy about it. The worst part is that I still get horny and need to cum, so I am pretty much forced to cuck myself in my imagination just to get off. I love seeing women enjoying sex, but I hate thinking that they can only enjoy it with guys who aren't me.

I try to cope and tell myself that this is something that only happens in porn and that it's not realistic, but every once in a while I see something from normalfags talking about their sex lives that makes me think it might be true. Logically it makes sense, from a biological perspective. Any argument I try to think of just sounds like more cope.

Moral of the story: never look at porn. Not even hentai.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:44:17 PM No.81535801
>>81535784 (OP)
Your true realisation is that women can NEVER be satisfied. Ever. They are incapable of it. The ancients knew this. Women can be wed to the most powerful, handsome man in the world, and cheat on him with a lowly slave.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:45:45 PM No.81535816
>>81535784 (OP)
Female sexuality is borderline beastiality, they want men whop are animals as lovers and can fetter their loins like no other. Females bearing the receptive coital organs means they are nothing but rag doll or plushies for men to have their way with and that's the truth.

You shouldn't feel bad OP, I wish I was a woman so I could be fucked like a dog.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:46:28 PM No.81535821
>>81535784 (OP)
I think that's what got me into it too, I know I will never make a girl feel good like that so it just make sense someone better than me will.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:47:54 PM No.81535832
>>81535801
Maybe this is true in a broad sense, saying they aren't satisfied with their lives as a whole. I was thinking more like in-the-moment sexual satisfaction. After you're done fucking a girl, if she feels good about it or not.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:52:27 PM No.81535861
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>>81535821
I just hate how much sense it makes. It feels evil but I can't refute it.
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 11:57:58 PM No.81535907
>>81535816
If this is what women are really like then I have no idea why you would want that. It sounds horrible.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:02:03 AM No.81535949
>>81535784 (OP)
>It made me think that the only way women can be satisfied in a relationship is when they're being fucked hard by tall, muscular dudes with big dicks
Somebody tell him?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:13:51 AM No.81536048
>>81535949
Tell what?
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:20:19 AM No.81536110
honestly i feel the same way. i cannot imagine a girl being sincerely attracted to me. perhaps it's a self fulfilling prophecy that i'm a khhv with a mindset like this. surely sex could only lead to humiliation, snickering, gossip, secret comparisons, my last bit of privacy invaded and judged like the rest of me.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:21:48 AM No.81536123
>>81536110
fuck you put it better than I can
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:24:56 AM No.81536155
>>81536110
I dislike it when people call it a mindset. They try to make you think all your problems are in your head and not real. It's gaslighting.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:29:06 AM No.81536184
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>>81535784 (OP)
>>81536110
I believe I'm like this too, except I refused to give in to idea of being a cuck. Becoming gay is the more dignified answer to this problem, because cute boys are unrealistically rare and thus it's easier to believe they'd give me a chance at sex
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:31:49 AM No.81536204
The problem is that sex is mostly about dominating women, but you can't dominate them with a small cock. You won't be taken seriously if they can barely feel your dick or be intimidated by it.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:33:16 AM No.81536215
Right? Sex is all mental, but how can you tickle their mental when you don't have the assets to do so? I guess that's where the other guy in the hentai comes in
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:33:38 AM No.81536220
>>81536204
This is true. And if you ever try to act rough or forceful , it comes across as overcompensating, or that you're acting violent out of frustration over not being able to fuck her properly.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:34:24 AM No.81536226
women want your fingers inside them more than your dick
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:36:36 AM No.81536242
>>81536184
I'm not an expert on gay sex but wouldn't being ugly, weak, and having a small penis also make you less desirable to gay men?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:37:12 AM No.81536248
>>81535784 (OP)
>unrealistic porn gave me unrealistic expectations of sex
no shit, just stop using porn. jerk off with your imagination or to pictures of solo women, and only jerk off when you're already horny. it'll take time but with discipline you'll get back to normal
>it's easier to believe they'd give me a chance at sex
if only, the mythical femboy unicorn is more stuckup than a woman because he knows he's a rarity. you can easily bang vaguely androgynous twinks
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:37:50 AM No.81536249
>>81536215
The mental aspect is the killing blow since it means that any attempt to make up for your inadequecies with tricks will fall flat. I often see people recommend foreplay techniques, or sex toys, but mentally she will remember what you are like and be turned off.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:39:09 AM No.81536261
>>81536226
What is that based on though? Isn't it more likely that men with small dicks are told this by women, because the women aren't happy with their dicks? Would a woman tell a man with a big dick that she prefers fingers?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:40:51 AM No.81536279
>>81536242
I'm weak and can't even arrange a meetup because I'm too anxious to finish getting my license.
However, I'm happy being skinny and apparently I look good and have a nick cock, so I still think of myself as desirable. (When I actually try to improve my life or meet someone it doesn't work out so I'll most likely never have sex anyway)
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:41:37 AM No.81536287
>>81536261
they masturbate using their fingers, yours are bigger, thicker, and masculine
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:42:38 AM No.81536295
>>81536287
>tfw you you have a small penis and thin delicate piano fingers
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:43:03 AM No.81536298
>>81536287
They masturbate with their fingers in the abscense of a cock, if the cock was there they choose it over the fingers.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:43:38 AM No.81536308
>>81536261
Even if there was a woman who prefers being fingered to sex, she'd still wanna get fingered by a guy with a big penis.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:44:04 AM No.81536314
>>81535784 (OP)
I listen to audio porn and when she starts going on about how big I am I just laugh.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:44:30 AM No.81536319
>>81536298
>>81536295
>>81536287
>>81536261

I should specify, your penis is not prehensile and double jointed, you only have one, and its pretty bad at doing the things that actually induce orgasm
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:46:39 AM No.81536340
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>>81536248
>>unrealistic porn gave me unrealistic expectations of sex
Its not that its unrealistic, its just not something that most men can replicate, but intense sex with dominate big dick men isn't a fairy tale. Its something most women at least want to try it before settling with a dicklet and having mediocre sex for the rest of their life.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:46:55 AM No.81536341
>>81536319
>and its pretty bad at doing the things that actually induce orgasm
Yeah but there are guys out there with bigger and better penises that CAN induce orgasms and women prefer those over our fingers, that's what the thread is about
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:48:13 AM No.81536356
>>81536248
Once you open pandora's box you can't put it back. If I had never learned about women's true nature from porn then maybe I would be happier (ignorance is bliss) but following your advice won't help me un-learn it.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:49:26 AM No.81536369
>>81536314
This is why I can't listen to that stuff. It's too immersion breaking. It might as well be cuck RP audio where I'm listening from the corner.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:49:38 AM No.81536373
>>81536298
Fingering themselves is just masturbation, it doesn't match the experience of being with a well endowed dominate man that is fucking the shit out of them.

Its really such a retarded cope, like saying men masturbate with our hand, therefore women add nothing to the experience of sex.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:50:28 AM No.81536381
>>81536340
>Its not that its unrealistic, its just not something that most men can replicate,
That's what unrealistic means, dipshit. There are 6'2 foot tall women with giant tiddies smooth tummies and fat asses but it's unrealistic for me to expect one. Some people win 100 million dollars in a lottery but it's unrealistic for me to expect that. Unrealistic doesn't mean impossible.
>>81536356
Cope from someone unwilling to put in the effort to fix their problems.
>If I had never learned about women's true nature from porn
kek
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:51:05 AM No.81536390
>>81536373
>like saying men masturbate with our hand, therefore women add nothing to the experience of sex.
Exactly.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:52:07 AM No.81536403
>>81535801
First reply best reply
They really can't be satisfied, only kept in a state of constant longing if you play your cards right.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:52:27 AM No.81536406
>>81536381
>That's what unrealistic means, dipshit.
So you're agreeing with the OP. It's unrealistic for you to imagine pleasing a woman, not that it's unrealistic for girls to need big penises.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:53:09 AM No.81536412
>>81536373
them being chadsexual doesn't have anything to do with them also preferring chad's fingers to chad's dick, you having to finger girls isn't compensation for your small dick, you being bad at it is worse than having a small dick, you'll notice that its trannies and gay men who ram themselves deep with 10 inch dildos, women collect vibrators to rub their clits at hypersonic speeds

women want men to grab them with their hyper-masculine sexualized in their minds big veiny muscly hands, manipulate and touch their bodies, and make them cum the same way they make themselves but better, they do not really want them using their bodies to pump their floppy noodle into as much
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:53:55 AM No.81536417
>>81536381
There is no effort that can fix having a small penis.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:54:52 AM No.81536427
>>81536406
>every woman is already mindbroken by giant chad cock
You're creating imagined hardships as an excuse for not trying. I hope you quit doing that.
>>81536417
If you'd cultivated any type of skill or method of contribution you'd be able to make up for it. Good luck.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:55:46 AM No.81536433
>>81536412
I don't think this is true. Sounds like an incel's fantasy.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:56:13 AM No.81536435
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>>81536381
>There are 6'2 foot tall women with giant tiddies smooth tummies and fat asses but it's unrealistic for me to expect one
Yeah, unrealistic for you! Most women have relatively easy access to high tier men with insane genetic advantages, and will have years to experience it many different forms before settling down with a beta.

Also this webm says it all. The look on her face, she is completely overwhelmed by this dick, like she knows he could put her in the hospital if he went all out. If you understand women's ooga boga lizard brain and the need to be abused and dominated, you can see why they prefer this over beta small dick sex.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:58:06 AM No.81536457
>>81536435
you might notice him rubbing her clit with his thumb
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:58:49 AM No.81536463
>>81536412
>you having to finger girls isn't compensation for your small dick
It literally is. The number one advice that men with small dicks receive is the finger/eat pussy. You are compensating. I'm not saying girls don't appreciate those skillsets, but at some point penis goes into the vagina, then what? You're not able to match the dominance and sensations that well endowed men are capable of.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:59:12 AM No.81536469
Some men just win in life
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:01:38 AM No.81536491
>>81536427
It has nothing to do with being mindbroken. It's instinct. They are born that way
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:03:32 AM No.81536510
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>>81536457
Yes, while she is whimpering and being damn near impaled by his big ass dick. I don't know why you guys act like big dick men can't utilize these other sex techniques while also having the big dick advantage. They eat pussy, finger and rub clit too, while having a big dick.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:04:32 AM No.81536517
>>81536469
They deserve to lose. Violently.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:08:59 AM No.81536555
>>81536517
Yeah I know, they do.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:11:07 AM No.81536566
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>>81536469
People have a hard time accepting that being good at something is often times based on things out of our control, like genetics. That's why normies will always claim its the things we can control that are most important.

>Looks don't matter, personality does
>Dick size don't matter, eat pussy
>Race has nothing to do with IQ

It all comes down to not being able to accept this simple truth about life, some people just have advantages that others don't. I don't even cope about this shit anymore, I just look at porn like its sports. You're watching the genetically gifted do things you can't, so enjoy the show.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:12:21 AM No.81536575
>>81536184
bottoms and women share the same sexual desires so that wouldn't work
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:17:14 AM No.81536619
>>81536575
Yes, it is only a dream, a forever unfulfilled desire. The thing is that I feel better to fantasize about having sex with a bottom than to fap to cuck shit
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:24:18 AM No.81536665
>>81536619
well that bottom you are fantasizing with would also prefer a well endowed man to rail his ass and hit spots you would never be able to hit with your dick
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:25:20 AM No.81536673
>>81536566
>so enjoy the show.
Yeah I enjoy it but doesn't mean I *enjoy* this in general
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:27:13 AM No.81536689
>>81535784 (OP)
just look at lesbian porn instead and become AGP, it'd be an improvement at this point.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:28:56 AM No.81536699
>>81536689
That sounds like the worst case scenario bad ending
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:35:45 AM No.81536750
>>81536699
Is it really worse than either
>being a cuck who works hard on getting a real relationship BECAUSE he wants to lose it
>being a prison gay fag who hooks up to get fucked by random men, getting a blown out asshole, AIDS and other nasty problems because of it
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:41:13 AM No.81536789
>>81536699
it'll make you more flexible; instead of fixating on one thing you can never be you'll get your choice of at least two. that'll help you distance yourself until you can appreciate the value of what you do offer and can get over it. you don't have to physically be anything in particular to be cocky and violating like a chad or seductive like a dyke or channel the energy of people who know how to fuck. your body matters but your behavior and leverage over them is ultimately what women respond to
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:50:22 AM No.81536854
>>81535784 (OP)
you are right but they dont have to be muscular. fat hairy guys also get sex. women like aggressive masculinity, its not about being attractive so much.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:53:17 AM No.81536880
i am attracted to women myself but i know that i am not attractive to them. i have a pale skinny body and a high voice and a little dick. fucking me would be like being a lesbian, i have no qualities that are attractive to the female gaze, big hands, body hair, strength and weight, the ability to engulf them or throw them around like a ragdoll. most men CAN do this and its not about being chad in the slightest. im just a gay skinny twink and should probably fuck men myself
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:04:32 AM No.81536966
>>81536689
I actually purposefully shifted my degeneracy from being a cuck to being a sissy.
It's honestly been an improvement. While being a sissy is degenerate pussy repellent at least I can picture myself actually getting fucked.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:13:52 AM No.81537030
>>81536966
great, now be a bi bratty dommy sissy and you might be able to get more than just casual sex.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:15:30 AM No.81537037
>>81535907
I'm having a hard time with exactly this. Once women fall of the pedestal, it's hard to put them back on it.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:21:15 AM No.81537077
>>81535784 (OP)
Your ideas aren't wrong. There's a reason alpha fucks beta bucks exists. They want to get fucked like a dog in heat, and they know you can't give them what they want, so they spend their 20s getting fucked before settling for you.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:22:53 AM No.81537092
>>81535784 (OP)
skill issue, u brainwashed urself into believing this and your tryna blame the porn that u picked urself to consume, instead of just using material to jerk off
u mentally cucked urself, this happens to alot of people, you can heal, stay strong and carry on, brother
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:38:22 AM No.81537188
>>81536463
Different anon responding to this, but also chads get even more experience than non-chads, meaning they get both the big dick advantage and more practice fingering, eating girls out, clit rubbing, etc.
Women love getting fingered because its a specific type of orgasm from the G spot about 2-3 inches into the vagina. There is another erogenous zone called the A spot about 6 inches deep in the vagina (depends on the woman, obviously) that when hit, creates a much more intense orgasm. Dicklets, myself included, that make women cum usually do it by hitting the G spot at the right angle. Dudes with big dicks can hit the A spot (much more diffiicult) AND also hit the G spot AND finger girls the same just like the rest of us.
Having a small dick is a downgrade, short and simple
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:41:22 AM No.81537202
>being so weak you let porn fuck you up
you guys are real funny.

>t. coomer