I'm an autist but I think I'd make a good boyfriend if I could just get past the initial talking stage. I've had really fulfilling conversations with girls through text before. Getting a girlfriend just seems unnavigable for a guy like me and it shouldn't be.

>>81535968 (OP)
I can't wait to get a girlfriend and send her daily Sakura gifs like the one you just posted. Very fulfilling.

>>81535968 (OP)
As an another autist, I feel the same way. I've had neat conversations with women at times, but my inability to detect intentions and indirect meanings (which I've gotten better at over the years) have left me with minimal connections (and no relationships). Those interactions were all in highschool, but nowadays as an adult I have practically no chances of even interacting with women so I doubt I'll be able to tackle any remaining hurdles wrt conversation. I never initiate conversation (such as with all my friends who are male) and as such very few people even want to talk to me at all. What few people I do "know" rarely seem to want to talk to me, even if only once per month.

It is all very distressing but I've gotten better at being alone these past few years as I approach my mid 20s.

>>81537150
Late twenties here and that pretty much mirrors my experience. I would only consider dating a girl on the younger side but people, whose business it is not, keep telling me I should find a girl nearer to my own age. What a joke!

>>81537924
>late 20s [&] nearer my age
I feel that I am mentally 5-6 years behind my peers. If I were to strictly limit my dating options within a small age range, then I'd end up with people who not only have sky-high expectations from years of experience that I lack, but also years more of mental development that I do not have. The relationship would be dead on arrival, assuming we could even find a way to connect to begin with (which I've realized seldom works for any relationship (romantic or platonic) that I try to establish).

As I said originally though I'm handling isolation a bit better as time passes, so it is at least managable. I hope it is bearable for you too, anon.

>keep telling me
To hell with them! You will wake up in 30 years (assuming you don't end it) with a miserable experience and nothing good to show for it if you listen to naysayers. It is better to tell those people to fuck off and stop being jealous of what you will have.

>>81535968 (OP)
Anon you don't stop having to talk to each other when you fuck.
You still need to be able to carry a conversation.
Or just do what I did and find an autist girl as bad at conversations as you are. But even then there's a lot of 'I want to talk to her but I don't know what to say.'