Thread 81538565 - /r9k/ [Archived: 974 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:20:10 AM No.81538565
4chann
4chann
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Always choose Chad over your looksmatch.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:22:42 AM No.81538582
>>81538565 (OP)
Your loooksmatch can turn into chad. Sweaty
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:22:49 AM No.81538583
>>81538565 (OP)
a lot of incels develop horrible personalities as a result of resentment of society and just arent good at socializing due to a lack of it, chad always wins
Replies: >>81538593 >>81541220 >>81542125 >>81542932
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:23:38 AM No.81538588
>>81538565 (OP)
not even my looksmatch wants me and you think chad does kek
Replies: >>81538594 >>81538771 >>81541559
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:25:22 AM No.81538593
>>81538583
Chad does always win. it's really no wonder the girls all want him, like I don't blame them
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:25:24 AM No.81538594
>>81538588
>not even my looksmatch wants me
Nothing to lose sleep over. You didn't want him to begin with.
Replies: >>81538610
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:26:35 AM No.81538599
>>81538565 (OP)
i won't give up on finding an autistic incel bf
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:28:11 AM No.81538610
>>81538594
i am fine with him beggars can't be choosers
Replies: >>81538631
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:31:11 AM No.81538631
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>>81538610
>beggers can't be choosers
Not if you are a woman.
Replies: >>81538674 >>81541638
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:33:30 AM No.81538655
if you are having problems with men the first questions that come to mind should always be:

1.) do you fuck him enough? are his balls empty?
2.) do you cook for him? if not have you tried learning to cok? is his stomach full?
3.) do you do little things to show him that you are into him and want to live in his world?

if you fail on all 3 you don't deserve a relationship, if you fail on 1 or 2 you have work to do
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:35:40 AM No.81538672
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>>81538582
This is your average femcels looksmatch
Replies: >>81538686
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:35:51 AM No.81538674
>>81538631
in my case yes i am worse than picrel i think
Replies: >>81541559
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:37:34 AM No.81538686
>>81538672
I look like that and fembots owe me sex
Replies: >>81538696
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:38:42 AM No.81538696
>>81538686
are you a virgin and are you looking for marriage
Replies: >>81538707
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:40:39 AM No.81538707
>>81538696
>are you a virgin
Yes, but I've deceived you. I'm young, not overweight, and have full long hair
Replies: >>81538719
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:42:30 AM No.81538719
>>81538707
ugh get out of here i just want my looksmatch
Replies: >>81538733
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:44:02 AM No.81538733
>>81538719
I'm skinnyfat and pale with acne scarring. Is that enough for you
Replies: >>81538738
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:44:09 AM No.81538735
Chads are unironically the nicest guys you can meet, are chill, are very loving and make great boyfriends. That's always in contract to the guys on here.
Replies: >>81538757 >>81538771 >>81538905 >>81540185 >>81542932
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:44:52 AM No.81538738
>>81538733
no you arent my looksmatch stop it
Replies: >>81538749
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:46:54 AM No.81538749
>>81538738
ok sorry. early balding runs in my family. I'll come back to you in 5 years
Replies: >>81538762
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:47:28 AM No.81538757
>>81538735
Makes sense, their life has primarily consisted of positive experiences, so theyre less jaded
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:48:20 AM No.81538762
>>81538749
either get obese or leave
Replies: >>81541572
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:49:29 AM No.81538771
>>81538735
Which is why women should never date their looksmatch.
>>81538588
Replies: >>81538781
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:50:45 AM No.81538781
>>81538771
what part of no one wants me do you not understand
Replies: >>81538795
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:52:16 AM No.81538795
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>>81538781
>what part of no one wants me do you not understand
Lmao
Replies: >>81538798
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:53:48 AM No.81538798
>>81538795
she looks better than me dumbass
Replies: >>81538815
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:55:53 AM No.81538815
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>>81538798
>she looks better than me dumbass
Literally create a tinder account. How lazy are you? Lmao.
Replies: >>81538822 >>81539297
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:55:54 AM No.81538816
I agree based on my own circumstances. I gave people like /r9k/ a chance out of pity, and it always turns out to be classic projection. They say they are nice guys, but always turns out to be the very same thing they accuse "Chad" of: abusive assholes who pump and dump. A Chad asked me out, and he was very dateable, despite that I was nowhere his looksmax. He's treats me like a princess and is very nice and respectful. We've been dating for a year.
Replies: >>81538849 >>81542461
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:56:28 AM No.81538822
>>81538815
i want a genuine relationship not hookups
Replies: >>81538849
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:59:40 AM No.81538849
>>81538816
>They say they are nice guys, but always turns out to be the very same thing they accuse "Chad" of: abusive assholes who pump and dump
Why do women keep giving their looksmatch a chance? Why don't women understand that all men are the same? At least chad is hot.
>Chad asked me out, and he was very dateable, despite that I was nowhere his looksmax
In what way? Congrats btw. Never settle for less.
>>81538822
Look at the comment above. Everything's possible.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:01:28 AM No.81538869
>>81538849
i can also write some made up story and it doesn't mean it will actually happen irl
Replies: >>81538899
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:02:23 AM No.81538882
>>81538565 (OP)
LMAO I GOT POSTED
Replies: >>81538904
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:04:40 AM No.81538899
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>>81538869
>shows ugly woman with Chad
I'm uglier than her
>shows even uglier woman with Chad
Ummmm she's still prettier tehee
>shows literal mutant pig spawn on tinder reeling in guys
bUt I DoNt lIkE dAtInG sItEs >:(
>some ugly femcel posts her story if dating Chad
ITs mAdE uP tHoUgH.
Replies: >>81538910
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:06:25 AM No.81538904
>>81538882
Your post was so blackpilling that I couldn't resist.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:06:29 AM No.81538905
>>81538735
Sophistry.

The modern fe-male's whole idea of a bad relationship is when their partner does not provide and coddle her while being an emotionally stoic high social status keeper at the same time.

aka their pseudo-incestuous father figure provider fantasy being obstructed by self-respecting men. They often use double-speak to obfuscate this abominable trait such as "I don't feel supported"

That's their idea of "support". Parasiting off of a person who is arbitrarily more powerful and "dominant" than them. This is their lowly unevolved subhuman idea of "love". Womanhood, without the rose tinted glasses, just amounts to feeding off of people more "powerful" then them.

It's no surprise that the creatures that are purely an amalgamation of unconscious habits are just unconsciously projecting 24/7
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:06:43 AM No.81538907
>>81538565 (OP)
I treat my wife with love and affection
don't treat your gf like shit, anon (if you're lurking)
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:06:48 AM No.81538910
>>81538899
>picrel
so if you think it's a problem what's your issue with me just wanting my looksmatch
Replies: >>81538960
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:12:56 AM No.81538960
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>>81538910
>so if you think it's a problem
I don't think it's a problem. It's just a meme. Just showing you that men aren't as shallow as you think they are. There's no incentive for women to settle for their looksmatch.
Replies: >>81538985 >>81538995
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:15:24 AM No.81538985
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>>81538960
Just be a sub 5 woman theory.
Replies: >>81539007 >>81539009
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:16:41 AM No.81538995
>>81538960
they only aren't shallow because they can't afford to be. if they dated who they really wanted they would be with cute girls. i don't want to be with someone who's only dating me as a last resort
Replies: >>81539007 >>81539146
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:18:24 AM No.81539007
>>81538995
>excuses excuses excuses excuses excuses
See pic related. You have zero incentive to go for your looksmatch. Men aren't shallow like women. You are just extremely lazy.
>>81538985
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:18:35 AM No.81539009
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>>81538985
Literally cant do this anymore bros
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:37:44 AM No.81539146
>>81538995
Look at how sweetly you accepted that I'm right. So cute.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:40:51 AM No.81539164
My looksmatch is probably too good for me lol.
I'm actually attractive + tall but low self esteem.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:41:47 AM No.81539172
>>81539146
no i'm just tired of arguing
Replies: >>81539188
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:43:33 AM No.81539188
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ruby-ruby-hoshino (1)
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>>81539172
I was getting tired of your retarded semantics as well. Good girl :)
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:47:28 AM No.81539216
>>81538565 (OP)
When reading this just remember that women mistake looks and status with personality.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:47:35 AM No.81539217
>>81539146
Why do u talk like that
Replies: >>81539226
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:48:38 AM No.81539226
>>81539217
Because I like talking down at you, and I think it's cute how you finally stop arguing.
Replies: >>81539272
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:55:08 AM No.81539272
>>81539226
that wasn't me

also clearly you're not that tired since you keep making the same threads
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:59:47 AM No.81539297
>>81538815
>all semites in the inbox
They literally fuck farm animals so pig woman is technically an upgrade.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:04:36 AM No.81539337
>>81538565 (OP)
Just say you don't want anyone but Chad. Why do foids go through so many moralistic gymnastics to excuse their shallow behavior? Obviously there are shitty men that are ugly, and there are shitty men that are good looking.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:11:45 AM No.81539398
>>81538565 (OP)
Literally no woman will love me, what's the point anymore?
Replies: >>81539452
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:18:34 AM No.81539452
>>81539398
i will love u chud
Replies: >>81539460
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:19:29 AM No.81539460
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>>81539452
don't listen to this siren, she is trying to steal your wizard powers
Replies: >>81539506
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:25:30 AM No.81539506
>>81539460
let me find a robot bf in peace
Replies: >>81541566 >>81541580
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:34:46 AM No.81540185
>>81538735
why would they settle down with you when they have plenty of options? at best you'll be the his designated toilet, only good for rimjobs
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:40:15 PM No.81541124
People on 4chan aren't nice, they are petty and mean.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:43:19 PM No.81541139
My bf is the hottest guy I've dated and also treats me the best out of any man I've dated, giving sexually financially and emotionally. The fattest cheated and the ugliest ghosted me
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:50:49 PM No.81541179
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>>81538565 (OP)
always choose virgins over jaded used up whores
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:56:29 PM No.81541207
This thread, along with /r9k/, just proves that ugly men are not ugly just on the outside, but on the inside as well.
Replies: >>81541426 >>81542932
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:58:40 PM No.81541220
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>>81538583
you could .. just choose to not do this
in all honesty the concept of looksmatching is unbelievably retarded , it saddens me that we have reached this level of superficiality

what about personalitymatching

what about moralmatching
Replies: >>81541285
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:10:56 PM No.81541285
>>81541220
>you could .. just choose to not do this
apart from genetic predispositions, a persons upbringing through to adulthood determines their personality and outlook on life. do you think a girl that was raped from a young age repeatedly by men is going to feel safe around them? would you say this is that girls fault that she feels this way? no she is just responding to stimuli in her environment. a man that has gone through the most important years of their life devoid of crucial social development and romance is inevitably (very likely at least) going to end up bitter and resentful. you cant just "choose" not to do this, you are feeling a certain way that you never chose to feel.

>in all honesty the concept of looksmatching is unbelievably retarded , it saddens me that we have reached this level of superficiality
it is not superficial at all, physical attraction is literally how almost every other species determines an ideal mate, the fact that it is a humans basic instinct makes it the most real attraction there is. humans can tell in a split second whether they are physically attracted to a person or not, that is a powerful innate skill we have.

>what about personalitymatching, moralmatching
relationships will not last without physical attraction unless the partners are asexual, or together for reasons other than "love". physical attraction has always and will always be the strongest driver behind love.
Replies: >>81541297
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:13:14 PM No.81541297
>>81541285
>a man that has gone through the most important years of their life devoid of crucial social development and romance
Always by choice. He always goes after Stacy and Becky, then his resentment is projected onto every woman because Stacy and Becky doesn't want to date him.
Replies: >>81541309
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:14:57 PM No.81541309
>>81541297
you're a retarded nigger for this take, i and plenty of other men that have actually been in this situation unlike you would tell you otherwise
Replies: >>81541331
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:18:42 PM No.81541331
>>81541309
>actually been in this situation
You haven't. You were and always will be Stacysexual and Beckysexual. They will always reject you since you are hideous and have a shitty personality. You become ostracized because you try to go way above and feel you are entitled to it. You become resentful and project that onto all women. Then you come on the echo chamber known as /r9k/ to spouse your stupid views and project your hatred towards women--all because you couldn't date down to your level.
Replies: >>81541341 >>81541353
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:20:51 PM No.81541341
>>81541331
nigger what i can tell you right now i would much rather be with a quiet girl that is my looksmatch or even a little below, i dont even want to be with a stacy due to the lives they tend to lead
Replies: >>81541412
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:21:06 PM No.81541343
>>81538565 (OP)
Theres way more normie nonChads than 4chan aspies so this is bullshit. Fembots ignore normie nonChads for Chad then whine about being lonely.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:22:29 PM No.81541353
>>81541331
Becky means average female you dumb slut
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:31:32 PM No.81541412
>>81541341
>i-i-i just want the quiet girl and my or below looksmaxx!
Said no one ever.
Replies: >>81541430
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:32:37 PM No.81541426
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>>81541207
As an ugly man, yes.
Replies: >>81541459
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:33:13 PM No.81541430
>>81541412
are you baiting or can you actually not comprehend that not every male is hypergamous, either way you should be raped
Replies: >>81541459
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:37:43 PM No.81541459
>>81541426
No, you don't. That's just you virtue signaling.

>>81541430
Every man needs to be hypergamous, but most are unable to. Most just don't want to admit to it.
Replies: >>81541477 >>81541515 >>81541676
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:40:44 PM No.81541477
>>81541459
what? completely nonsensical garbage, you're not even trying to prove a point here this has literally nothing to do with anything. why does every man "need to be hypergamous", majority of men are completely fine with settling for their looksmatch.
Replies: >>81541499
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:45:07 PM No.81541499
>>81541477
It's only nonsensical garbage to you because you are coping with denial. The majority of men do not want to admit that they have the need to have sex with every Stacy and Becky in existence, but all share that thought and drive to do so. Instead, they suppress it as coping and settling.
Replies: >>81541521
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:47:29 PM No.81541515
>>81541459
Virtue signaling what exactly, that I'm a piece of shit? Are you retarded?
Replies: >>81541557
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:48:02 PM No.81541521
>>81541499
males in majority of species are horny creatures with a desire to further propagate the species through as much breeding as possible. people in general are also more attracted to more attractive people. im not coping with denial about anything? i have seen to have hit a feedback loop with you or you are just baiting, either way im not responding anymore
Replies: >>81541557
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:49:38 PM No.81541527
Chad here. Where is my fembot that I can treat like a princess?
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:54:18 PM No.81541557
>>81541515
Virtue signaling that you are a good person who will date at or below your looksmax, when it is not true.

>>81541521
So you finally admit that males have that drive to be hypergamous. Ofc, that is always towards Stacy and Becky, but never below them. Saying you would go below them is nothing but a cope.
Replies: >>81541603
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:54:28 PM No.81541559
>>81538588
>>81538565 (OP)
Chad will treat women better because the world treats him better. He's able to "be himself" and feel less stressed in any situation.
I've come to realize this with myself. I generally try to treat my gfs good but I'm not a very upbeat person and that seems to drag a lot of people down. I can't go through life being happy and lifting people up when I'm constantly being dragged down by the average person, including my own family. Maybe one day I'll find someone that actually cares and who I can get along with.
>>81538674
I somehow doubt that. Every single girl I've seen off here that thinks she's ugly actually looks fairly nice, whereas every cocky woman I've met is some ugly fatass (less than a handful so that's not a big sample)
Replies: >>81542134
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:55:26 PM No.81541566
>>81539506
I need some hopefuel. It's wall to wall demoralization online or offline, from dating to jobs to human nature. So many people want most of us to fail.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:56:15 PM No.81541572
>>81538762
How obsese are we talking?
And what race are you?
Replies: >>81542134
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 1:57:30 PM No.81541580
>>81539506
Define 'robot ' cause you're probably thinking of a meme description right now
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:01:00 PM No.81541603
>>81541557
Man I think you have me mixed up with another anon. I've dated one (1) fatty before but that's about it, I definitely do not date below looksmatch. I'm an ugly man that's a piece of shit about things.
Replies: >>81541636
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:06:52 PM No.81541636
>>81541603
You were just settling for her because of your virtue signaling and your anger for not getting Stacy and Becky.
Replies: >>81541653 >>81541710
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:07:00 PM No.81541638
>>81538631
Can't blame him, I'd keep a harem of brown Asians.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:09:57 PM No.81541653
>>81541636
Why think that someone couldn't love you despite being fat?
I'm not into fat women but if I get to know someone and they're willing to work on their health I would give it a shot
Replies: >>81541695
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:12:49 PM No.81541676
>>81541459
>Every man needs to be hypergamous, but most are unable to. Most just don't want to admit to it.
That's retarded woman cope, most men want a single wife to shower with love.
Replies: >>81541695
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:14:25 PM No.81541689
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Chad is just as likely to be abusive as any other man (if not more likely since he never gets punished for being a prick), it's just that women put up with his shit for the most part because he's hot and they don't want to lose their catch. And once he gets so bad that they can no longer deal with it, they leave and insist he manipulated her and was "very good at hiding his abusive nature".
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:15:24 PM No.81541695
>>81541653
You are not into fat women because your preference is Stacy and Becky. You are just settling for the fat girl and trying to force her to change to fit the mold you want her to be. Every man is this way. If they cannot get Stacy or Becky, they will settle for below his looksmaxx. Now, you just made me realize that you all will also forcibly pressure for whoever you settle for and try to mold her into a Becky and Stacy due to your own inadequacy.

>>81541676
No, they all want a harem of Stacies and Beckies.
Replies: >>81541738 >>81541759
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:18:18 PM No.81541710
>>81541636
I dated her because I wanted love and I wanted sex. I didn't find love. You might say that it's because I want Stacy or Becky, but I've had them too. I'm just an unhappy, bitter person to my core and I thrive and find happiness best alone, because I am a really corrosive person and destroy/wear down people that get close to me. Love evades me and when I love the most, I end up taking away the other person's essence. It sucks and it's no one's fault but my own. It's not so shallow as you're trying to paint it, but it's not exactly deep either.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:23:27 PM No.81541738
>>81541695
>Forcing her to change to fit the mold!
Yeah I wouldn't date someone who chooses to be the size of a minivan, but from my understanding most women who get fat are insecure and depressed over it.
I don't care if she becomes thin, I just don't want my partner suffering serious health complications later on in life.
>Cannot get Stacy or Becky
I dated a girl I thought was a Becky and later on realized that her "love" was fake. I'm sure she did love me at one point but I eventually got tired of her shit.
I had the option to stay in that relationship and use her for sex, which she wanted, but chose not to. Are you still going to accuse every man of being the same? Because I'd rather be with someone who loves me than some good looking vapid slut who's only around for a good time.

This is your own insecurity talking
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:28:39 PM No.81541759
>>81541710
You sound extremely similar to me >>81541738
I highly doubt that it's because you're a "corrosive person" but rather that women today aren't expected to take any real responsibility for their actions, especially in interpersonal relationships, despite earning as much as men do among younger generations. They want you to be happy and entertain them constantly, and to have no issues and not "argue" with them.
You can't talk to women the way you would most men, because that's not how they talk to each other. Their interactions are shallow and performative. There's nothing wrong with you other than the fact that you take women too seriously, at least that's what I think about myself at this point after everything.

You cannot reason with women like >>81541695 because reason doesn't work on them. They believe what they want and you have to put on an act and play their dumb games in order to get along with them
I unironically want a woman I can call my equal but that's not what women want, despite claiming that's what they want. Tl;dr stop listening to women they don't know what the fuck they're talking about.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:32:24 PM No.81541777
>>81541710
So you admit that it's always been about sex for you, and you wanted love as a bonus. That's terrible.

>>81541738
Acceptance is a part of relationships. It's about taking the minuses along with the pluses. You are not in love with her at all. If you were, you'd accept her as she is. Now if she wanted to change later, that is okay for the reasons you described (e.g. if she was insecure about herself.) You would be a very good person to support her in your goals. But that is not what you are doing: you just want to change her to make her into a Stacy or Becky.

You are no different from any other man.

>>81541759
>I unironically want a woman I can call my equal
Actions speak louder than words. You all always go after Stacy and Becky. All men do.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:37:47 PM No.81541815
>>81541777
Are you listening to anything I said?

Like I was telling the other guy, it seems like women are just impossible to reason with these days.
>You'd accept her as she is
If accept what, that my partner is at a much higher risk for a heart attack or stroke and might die way before me? Yeah you're right I don't want that.
>You just want Becky!
I fucking had one and got sick of her personality. If I played along with her sex shit I'd still have a hot slut to use but that. Isn't. What. I. Want.

You are demented and self hating. I would unironically give a girl who looked like ton a chance whatever you look like (I doubt you'd give me a chance based on looks, since you seem to focus on looks this much) but I desu I'd go insane trying to reason out with you over the smallest things.

I was talking to another girl like this and every small "argument" we had made me want to rip my hair out cause there was no way to get through to her. The best part is that she also thought she was ugly and constantly whined about moids this moids that.

Youre ruining your relationship prospects in your own hands, but like i said women can't take responsibility for shit - so your response will be "you don't love me for who I am!!!"

And my response to that is yes, but it's not because you're not Becky or Stacy, it's because you're a psycho bitch
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:39:19 PM No.81541823
>>81541777
Also he clearly stated love before sex, and that he didn't find love. It was the exact same with the 'becky' I dated, she wanted to be used and there was no love present when we met irl. But you're going to keep flipping this on its head because you are extremely insecure
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:45:01 PM No.81541863
>>81541815
Yes, I did listen to you. The problem is you are lying. You continue to project what you want onto us. You want a Stacy or Becky. You'll even go as far as break up with the one you supposedly "love" because she won't give into your demands of becoming a Stacy or Becky. That isn't love. If you loved her, you'd accept her as she is. If she wanted to chance, that would be great. However, it is always for herself, not because her abusive boyfriend have her change so he can have the Stacy or Becky he is unable to normally get.

>>81541823
You didn't date a Becky. That's clearly a lie. She considered you hideous and repulsive. You settled for something far less than you and mentally convinced yourself she was a Becky.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:47:08 PM No.81541878
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>>81541759
>There's nothing wrong with you other than the fact that you take women too seriously, at least that's what I think about myself at this point after everything.
Yeah man, I mean I had a pretty restrictive childhood and have not really had any space to myself throughout my life until recently when I moved alone, it's been very eye opening. No influence from other people within my home has given me the nuts to stand up to bullshit the women throw at you. I've always bought too hard into their shit tests, basically been manipulated but then realise that and in turn retaliate. Which is childish, we don't need to be doing that, but I just never really had the space to grow a spine. Shame it's taken this long.

>>81541777
>So you admit that it's always been about sex for you, and you wanted love as a bonus. That's terrible.
I just want to be in love with someone without it being unhealthy for either me or the other person in any way for any reason. She wasn't stable for other reasons, chronic bong demon, driving without a licence, unemployed, rick and morty fan. We lacked a deeper connection. We didn't like the same music. I've genuinely tried to find love in so many fucking corners of womendom and I haven't found it yet. I am the common denominator. I just take the Ls where they stand. I'm ugly cos I've lived a hard life which has also in turn hardened my core in a not so charming way. Ugly within, ugly without.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:51:13 PM No.81541910
>>81541863
Once again, I fucking broke up with a good looking girl who wanted to fuck because I didn't feel like we had a future and I couldn't stand how valid vapid she was becoming.
And once again, no I don't want to accept being with a person that's okay being obese and is okay potentially dying of a heart attack young. If I'm not going to waste another year of my life with a woman that actively wants to fuck me, why would I waste time with a woman that thinks 'reeee you're evil you want to change me!' when I'm concerned about her health? I don't care about either of those people, that isn't a relationship.

You need to cut this "don't expect any changes from me or it means you don't love me as I am!" Shit. It's childish and immature, and you know it because you certainly wouldn't put up with a fraction of this behavior from a man. Once again, you don't want equality and refuse to take responsibility for anything
>>81541863
>You didn't date a Becky. That's clearly a lie. She considered you hideous and repulsive. You settled for something far less than you and mentally convinced yourself she was a Becky.
What the hell are you talking about? I dated a really cute girl that turned out to only want to fuck around despite what she said. At no point did I mention what she thought of my looks
Once again, this is some strange projection on your part
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:54:34 PM No.81541936
>>81541878
>No influence from other people within my home has given me the nuts to stand up to bullshit the women throw at you.
That's good. I'm not sure how I snapped out of it given that I currently stay at home and have to deal with my parents bullshit over the smallest things. Funny enough my mother only straightened the fuck up once I straight up began telling her that she has no idea what she's talking about in most situations. Every time I've tried to be nice and polite to her it ends up in her yelling and being extremely rude and judgemental over the most minor things.

Women only respect strength. Theyll fuck you but they won't actually respect you otherwise. Just look at the foid in this thread constantly turning shit on its head, claiming that men want stacy. The reality is she knows she wants Chad but is too insecure to pursue him, hence this entire cope thread in the first place
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:55:53 PM No.81541945
>>81541878
And lol "Rick and Morty fan" truly the reddest of flags (sarcasm/joke in case the resident foid doesn't get that)
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:00:09 PM No.81541969
>>81541863
Re-reading your comment about "she clearly found you repulsive" and it's an obvious tell that you wouldn't love a man you didn't think was attractive despite you claiming you'd be happy with your looks match, who's supposedly really ugly.

No the fact is she found me decently attractive. You don't know her. Her pattern in all her future relationships was the same. She turned out to be a slut that wants to experience new men, and I'm telling you that's not what I want. You're going to keep repeating the same bullshit however and claim that I want Stacy.

I don't want Stacy. I also don't want a retard that immediately goes "U WANT ME TO CHANGE YOU DON'T LOVE ME!!" because that's not a way to discuss anything or to have a conversation. It's a deflection and a shield and you aren't mature. Goodbye.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:01:40 PM No.81541978
>>81541910
You broke up with her because she refused to bow down to your demands to change because you wanted a Stacy or a Becky. She's not your play toy to mold her into the image you want because you could not get a Stacy and Becky.

No, I love my bf for who he is, and he loves me for who I am. We accept each other: pluses and minuses. It's a proper relationship. We do not forcibly change just because of the other. We don't break up because of it. I'd love for him to be fitter, but it's up to him. I don't try to change him. He doesn't try to change me to eat more crappy food since I like being fit and healthy, and to have very long hair because he really likes it. That's unlike you who wants to change a girl to be the image of a girl he wants: a Stacy and a Becky.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:04:53 PM No.81542002
>>81541969
Okay, cool. Enjoy your seething. It won't help you get a Stacy or Becky.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:05:13 PM No.81542005
>>81541978
>actually! I'm so happy in my relationship
>that's why I'm so angry about relationship dynamics, I'm happy!
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:06:43 PM No.81542017
>>81542005
I am happy in my relationship. You obviously are not since you break up with girls because they don't want to submit to your demands due to your failure to get a Stacy or Becky.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:06:52 PM No.81542018
>>81542002
Not him but my girlfriend is a becky :). She used to bully ugly little girls like you.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:08:40 PM No.81542032
>>81542018
Your gf is not a Becky. She is someone below your looksmax you settled for because you could not get a Stacy or Becky.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:11:20 PM No.81542052
>>81542032
It's called looksmatch you femtard and to me she is becky. I love how angry you are! It actually satisfies me.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:13:11 PM No.81542065
>>81542052
Just because she is a Becky to you doesn't mean she actually a Becky.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:14:00 PM No.81542072
>>81542065
You must be absolutely hideous for thinking that dating a becky is a big deal. Most women are beckies.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:18:22 PM No.81542101
>>81542072
You must be delusional to think the girl you are dating is a Becky.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:21:30 PM No.81542120
d7c326bd43776f1e0df6f63956230eb4 (2)
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>>81542101
>more femcel cope
There there, ugly girls like you deserve love too. Don't worry. One day someone will love you almost as much as I love my girlfriend.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:22:02 PM No.81542125
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md5: f2d8471197e081f384d2d4387021c0dc🔍
>>81538583
It's quite vicious because a good majority of people here never really got to make any social mistakes in their life since their childhoods were spent being bullied or outcasted while their peers got to socialize, got to hurt people, get hurt themselves, make bonds, break bonds etc.
Therefore all the fuckups that you would've made in your childhood have to be made in adulthood instead which are way more damaging to you and way less forgivable.
I managed to slightly unfuck my situation in highschool by taking advantage of freshman grace periods where everyone's mostly on equal social footing but It still all ended the same because they had social EXP and I didn't, they got to make friends after learning from their mistakes in elementary and middle school, I had to fuck up and accidentally hurt people, but also get hurt while not knowing what I did wrong, and only finding out in hindsight.
The voidpill is that your ability to socialize is the most important thing out there, looks obviously matter too but if you're a social tard then people know better than to try to save you, and you'll wind up unintentionally hurting the ones who don't know better.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:23:16 PM No.81542134
>>81541559
no i am an ugly fatass actually
>>81541572
close to morbidly obese and i'm a mutt
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:24:47 PM No.81542142
>>81542120
>more male cope
I already have a bf. I love him and he loves me. He doesn't try to force me to be someone I'm not and vice versa. That's unlike you who desperately wants a Becky so he forces her to change because of it.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:29:02 PM No.81542173
>>81542142
>I already have a bf
Poor guy. Having to live with you has to be a nightmare.
>He doesn't try to force me to be someone I'm not
Probably because he feels like he is walking on eggshells. Do you let him have female friends? Or is that off limits?
>That's unlike you who desperately wants a Becky so he forces her to change because of it.
I don't need to. I loved my gf the Day I laid my eyes on her. She's perfect.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:36:58 PM No.81542211
>>81542173
No, if I was a nightmare, he would've broke up with me a long time ago.

Yes, I do. However, he doesn't have anymore female friends since the last one moved away, and the other got married to her husband. We were friends prior to dating. Thanks for projecting onto me.

You don't love her, you settled for her because you were desperate. If you loved her, you wouldn't try to force her to be a Becky due to your failures in attracting one or a Stacy.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:42:01 PM No.81542241
>>81542211
>No, if I was a nightmare, he would've broke up with me a long time ago
He is probably afraid lmfao.
>Yes, I do. However, he doesn't have anymore female friends
I wonder why.
>since the last one moved away,
"Moved away" what did you do to her?
>and the other got married to her husband
Who else is she gonna get married to? Just say that she got married. I can figure out myself that she got married to her husband, duh.
>You don't love her, you settled for her because you were desperate.
I worship her.
>If you loved her, you wouldn't try to force her to be a Becky due to your failures in attracting one or a Stacy.
I don't need nor want to force her to do anything. She's not an uggo like you.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:14:01 PM No.81542461
>>81538816
Are you obese by any chance? How tall is your bf
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:15:21 PM No.81542468
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was this my looksmatch?
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:29:09 PM No.81542932
>>81538583
>>81538735
>>81541207
>making women's insane standards even higher
Lmao I hate you guys
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:36:37 PM No.81542987
>>81542932
I will keep making their standards higher.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:39:39 PM No.81543958
>>81541978
>You broke up with a slut because she refused to change!
Again yes but not in the way you keep claiming. I broke up because she wanted to do whore shit and rolled her eyes at the idea of talking about our issues seriously (Csuse it bored her)

This "ur trying to change me!" Shit seems like a convenient excuse all women use.
Btw she was almost anorexic and kept getting worse, I tried encouraging her to stop puking. You can argue that I wanted to "turn her into Becky" and I can give you all the proof that I didn't want this, but instead you're going to go right back around to claiming I didn't love her for who she was. There is no winning with you.

Is asking your gf to STOP LOSING WEIGHT because you're concerned about her physical and mental health also somehow "wanting to turn her into a Becky?" You're fucking crazy.
>>81542134
Oh it's you again. Why are you insane? Are you the same femanons describing yourself as obese that has the purple discord profile?
If so why do you whine about all this shit on here? I added a girl like you over a week ago now. All she did was talk about stuff casually for a few days and then esexted me and got real nasty before just completely ghosting when I actually wanted to know her more. This is proof most of you are crazy
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:49:34 PM No.81544022
>>81543958
no that wasn't me i don't do esex
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:53:39 PM No.81544048
>femanon can't think of something better than tall and white
he won
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:57:25 PM No.81544082
>>81542142
No you want his appearance to stimukqte dopamine hes just a drug
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 9:58:19 PM No.81545193
Looksmatch is when you use that camera filter to give you a wig, it's not a real thing

Chad is not a real thing either, is a homosexual myth