Why Men Want Virgins - /r9k/ (#81540599) [Archived: 984 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:49:27 AM No.81540599
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>virgin girl during sex
>"oh my god this is it"
>"he chose me... I'm finally enough"
>"I hope he likes me without makeup"
>"does he feel how fast my heart's beating?"
>"this hurts but I don't want him to stop"
>"maybe this means he'll love me forever"
>"please don't leave me after this"
>tfw you can hear her soul attaching itself to yours

>non-virgin girl during sex
>"ugh he's taking forever"
>"I wonder if Chad ever thinks about me"
>"this guy's worse than the one from that Tinder date"
>"I hope he doesn't think this means anything"
>"should I block him after or just ghost?"
>"I need to remember to fake moan this time"
>"did I leave my vibrator on the charger?"
>tfw she's comparing you to 6 other guys mid-thrust and ranking you 5th

And women wonder why men want a virgin wife...
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:53:46 AM No.81540618
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true, true.

Though i'm not a virgin-absolutist, practiced chastity is an objective good. Promiscuous women can't be good soulmates / marriage material because they are inherently desensitized to romance and pair bonding.

When you trivialize sexual intimacy, you trivialize yourself. That's why you're objectified (by yourself).

You willingly make yourself lust material and not soul-mate material. There is no in between.

naive cuckmonkey "providers" fall for the trap of settling with them. (those marriages end at the behest of the woman)

Men want a special and transcendent TIL DEATH bond not something transactional & going through the motions. The modern female SSRI ridden whore can not comprehend this.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:56:52 AM No.81540630
>>81540618
>Men want a special and transcendent TIL DEATH bond not something transactional & going through the motions.
Hmm I would say the average man is just looking for any kind of sex
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:58:20 AM No.81540644
>>81540599 (OP)
Correct, but it has to be stated that if after
>"maybe this means he'll love me forever"
>"please don't leave me after this"
>tfw you can hear her soul attaching itself to yours
you proceed to leave her, or let her break up with you without doing the outmost to save the relationship, you are a scumbag of the highest order and deserve to be alone for the rest of your life AT THE VERY LEAST. That goes both ways of course.
Also do this while being a virgin yourself, don't fumble your one chance.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:59:57 AM No.81540652
>>81540644
Most men who are virgins in adulthood would be happy to marry the woman they lost their virginity with. Girls nowadays just give it up too easily to the first asshole they meet.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:00:00 AM No.81540653
>>81540599 (OP)
firstlovepill
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:00:23 AM No.81540656
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>>81540599 (OP)
it's literally true.
i fucked a non-virgin girl once, you can just feel how non-special it is for her. for her it's another checkbox in a long checklist you gotta complete. 'oh just another fuck, let's see what this guy can do'
so unemotional, so dead, so fake.

daily reminder to NEVER EVER date a girl who is non-virgin or has an ex
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:04:38 AM No.81540680
>>81540653
In love, if you're not first you're last.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:39:39 AM No.81540854
>non virgins wanting virgins
kek
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:50:26 AM No.81540892
I fucked a virgin once and she did not care at all. I think she was some sort of psychopath though (Hymen was intact)
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:04:25 PM No.81540959
>>81540854
Most of the men here are virgins anon
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:36:18 PM No.81541094
>>81540959
I am laughing specifically at the non virgins ITT wanting virgins, of which they are several self admitted, if you can be botheted to read the posts in this thread.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 12:37:52 PM No.81541103
>>81541094
There was only one guy like that in the thread and it wasn't even clear whether or not he was not a virgin
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:03:38 PM No.81541991
>>81540599 (OP)
This isn't always the case. A lot of girls get some pushy asshole to get them drunk in high school and take their virginity. I'd say this only applies to whores.
>>81540618
The worst part is that it's not even just about sex, it's about all the firsts. The first time you reach for her hand, the first time you kiss, the first time you say you love them etc. All those become more meaningless the more you do them. Unless you married your high school love, finding a woman that has never known love is impossible.
>>81540630
Yes, but women overall are more addicted to sex than men are. Men have had centuries to learn the difference between lust and love, women are only recently able to make that choice and most of them are choosing the hedonistic lifestyle.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:39:35 PM No.81542230
The true reason men want virgins:
>be a virgin
>need a virgin because I'm terrible in bed and I don't want her to know it since it's her first time
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:48:46 PM No.81542275
>>81542230
Love is not a skill anon.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:56:50 PM No.81542332
>>81542230
What makes you assume I worry about what a woman of that sort thinks of my performance in bed?
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 3:59:17 PM No.81542352
>>81540599 (OP)
I had sex with a virgin and she basically became obsessed with me since i was her first. girls who have had sex before either dont care or compare you to their previous partner. And if you have a smaller dick or are worse in bed they dislike you
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:00:36 PM No.81542364
>>81540599 (OP)
I want a 40 year old woman with way more sexual experience than me to settle down with me, spoil me with money and fuck me shitless.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:03:10 PM No.81542383
>>81540599 (OP)
you should probably just love someone who is right to you, virgin or non-virgin
both have potential to be more scheming and sinful than the other, but for some reason, non-virgins tend to be seen more in the negative light, when virgins aren't always pure in heart and mind as well as, potential as having impure love and misguided views of relationships, peace be with u all
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:04:19 PM No.81542394
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>>81542364
This af
40 yr old hag to drain my cum or same age/onee san virgin to explore our bodies there is no in between for me i constantly drift between these two extremes
Duality of man
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:06:31 PM No.81542408
>>81542230
Is that somehow unreasonable to you? If women were expected to put any effort into sex they would feel the same way.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:18:17 PM No.81542480
>>81542394
Does it actually exist bro? Please give me some copium that there's a hag out there who would love me.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:30:30 PM No.81542538
>>81542480
Anectodal but i have a story of a situation like this i kinda fumbled, i also have decent stats and don't identify as a-cel
Ok, i got an airbnb in my home town being run by this 40something black milf.
She was really into buddhism and kept trying to sell me on it.
Man her ass was fat man.....
Anyway i kinda put the moves on her and tried to get close to her but at some point i noticed a picture of her and a guy who i assumed was her husband idk
I think she was a widow i never asked
I still regret not going full mask off and just figuring out a way to fuck the shit out of her.
Anyway i've gotten decent attention from mostly older ladies throughout my lifetime i think if you present yourself as a clean cut guy with polite manners they will fetishize you and chase your dick like its crack so give it a try.
I have way to many mental blocks in my brain because i want to find the love of my life i guess?
Next time? im just gonna dive in......
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:35:37 PM No.81542574
>>81542538
Thanks so much bro I have hope once again, copium tank is full.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:40:03 PM No.81542596
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Marrying your childhood sweetheart is one of the only things in the world that is truly beautiful and life-affirming. Dating as an adult is pointless because everyone is bitter, stressed, and overstimulated.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:43:00 PM No.81542606
>>81542596
>Marrying your childhood sweetheart is one of the only things in the world that is truly beautiful and life-affirming. Dating as an adult is pointless because everyone is bitter, stressed, and overstimulated.
Unironically this. The strongest relationships I've seen IRL are people who meet in school and grew up together. The worst ones are people who met halfway through their stressful adult lives or Tinder
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:48:15 PM No.81542634
>>81542596
It's almost like we should live in communities that facilitate this lol
clown world strikes again.
>>81542574
Idk how i keep running into these women or where to find them again but good hunting my fellow pre-hagmaxxed anon give em hell i'm sure you got that dangler on ya too
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:53:08 PM No.81542672
>>81542634
>It's almost like we should live in communities that facilitate this lol
You did, it's called school. I guess you missed out.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:54:19 PM No.81542685
>>81542230
like girls dont want virgins too
i think it would be really wholesome and endearing if it was both of our first times and it was a bit awkward
that kind of bonding experience is just part of the process
stop being so bitter
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 4:56:06 PM No.81542703
>>81541094
>>81541103

I am 45 and a virgin as a male, though I am probably an extreme outlier. I will never be with a woman who is not a virgin, and i want mariage for life. Will i find a woman like this? probably not. Most women are perfidious whores.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:01:43 PM No.81542746
>>81540599 (OP)
This is not a thing, it's your (possibly incel) fantasy.
The reason is simply likelihood of mate security.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:09:10 PM No.81542788
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>>81542596
>Draws him over a head taller than her on toes
I hope every woman gets abused by their "height difference they deserve"
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:15:49 PM No.81542834
>>81542788
A man drew that
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:26:04 PM No.81542908
>>81542834
Its a Korean fujo who also draws BL
Replies: >>81542919
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 5:27:28 PM No.81542919
>>81542908
No. Look on their account, they have a separate YouTube where they do asmr and it's a male voice. On their instagram they have a male name also
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:04:56 PM No.81543175
>>81540599 (OP)
OP, why is the entire second paragraph to your post cuck-coded.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:06:56 PM No.81543191
>>81543175
To have sex with a non-virgin woman is to be indirectly cucked
Replies: >>81543223
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:10:45 PM No.81543223
>>81543191
dude no bullshit, if a beautiful, naked, big-tittied, woman, virgin-or-not was in front of me, I'd be thinking how I wanna fuck her, not if other men have and how they did it. that's straight up cuck mentality.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:06:50 PM No.81543702
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>>81542596
>tfw never had a female childhood best friend
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:42:10 PM No.81543977
>>81542672
School aint enough dumbass its only part of it because a schools primary purpose is education not getting a gf, a genuine homestyle community, i genuinely believe guys like you that say dumb shit like this should be lobotomized
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:54:55 PM No.81544060
>>81542672
shcool is a demo version of a prison: a mandatory social jungle with shitty/useless authority above it
little good can come out of it
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:17:39 PM No.81544254
Both are entirely just your delulu fiction.
Get checked for schizophrenia if you can't separate fiction from reality
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:12:20 PM No.81545331
>>81542230
50% that, 50% them being pedos
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:13:16 PM No.81545339
>fucks a girl
>his mind is busy thinking about Chad
>>>/lgbt/
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:46:26 PM No.81545604
>>81542703
Im a virgin woman waiting for marriage but I would never let someone like you touch me. You would probably cum before making it in and pass out due to old age. Untouched women exist but we are turned off by perfidious men like you.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:48:14 PM No.81545619
>>81545604
:sob: nahhh whyd you do unc like that bruh :skull:
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:49:01 PM No.81545629
>>81540599 (OP)
Damn this thread sure triggered a lot of foids-
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:56:24 PM No.81545696
>>81544254
>Coping roastie trying to rationalize her being unable to pairbond anymore
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:03:15 PM No.81545759
>>81542746
Even if that was true virgins are tighter
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:13:19 PM No.81545852
>>81542746
Shut the fuck up faggot, get the fuck off this board
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:25:22 PM No.81545992
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>>81540599 (OP)
this is CRINGE
because it doesn't get the point across well
The point being, that it's more special when you experience something new with someone
When what is special for you is just another friday for the other person it takes away from that experience
And it doesn't just apply to sex of course

>>81542230
that's is also true in some way
and there's nothing shameful in admitting to that
Being afraid of new things and feeling unsure about them is a completely normal reaction
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:26:57 PM No.81546009
>>81545992
It gets the point across perfectly you dumb fucking foid/tranny
Replies: >>81546065
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:31:20 PM No.81546052
>>81540599 (OP)
I just want a real, true connection.
My partner being a virgin would mean that she chose me out of a bunch of dudes, that I am special and that I actually have value.

No whore is going to give me that kind of life-fuel, it means nothing to be the 23rd dude who puts his meat inside her.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 11:32:27 PM No.81546065
>>81546009
not a foid, nor a tranny
>gets the point across
no
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 12:16:07 AM No.81546468
>>81542596
This is the ideal, but life is full of compromises and you are a manchild that couldn't grow out of it if you still care about this.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:36:01 AM No.81547295
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>>81540599 (OP)
if you are older than 20 you are pretty much out of luck with getting a virgin wife. Don't miss out, kids
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:53:18 AM No.81547863
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had that but it hurt too much so we didn't. and then next time same thing. then next time same thing. then suddenly I was avoiding it as hard as possible because every time I didn't fuck her she cried. truly a magical experience
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 3:20:53 AM No.81548047
>>81540599 (OP)
both non-virgins and virgins will leave you for someone better if they had the chance
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 4:27:05 AM No.81548526
>>81542275
Yeah it is. Everything is a skill
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:35:35 AM No.81549620
>>81544254
Your line between fiction and reality is arbitrary. It can't hold up when half the human population can just sit back and receive their little fantasies in some way from cuckslave men.

It can't go on any longer. Fantasy shall be prioritized before "real womanhood" and reality will be subverted to accommodate The Will
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:44:00 AM No.81550402
>>81548526
that's right. you can grow in everything
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:54:55 AM No.81550799
>>81547295
I am 27 and have a 22 year old virgin gf, they exist but you will never find them on tinder or something-
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 11:36:49 AM No.81551345
>>81548526
>learning sexual skills together with my virgin gf
>learning sexual skills from my experienced gf
Simple choice.