>18
>work at a record store that does shows for bands too
>it's a cool job
>the owner owns the bar next door
>have always been into one of the bartenders
>she's really nice to me and she'll hang out with me after or before she works sometimes
>I asked her out even though she's 29
>she was really nice about it and said that she was into girls
>makes sense she's not really into make up and kindof dresses like it
>I move for college in a couple months and I've made it a goal to pull off anything with her before then
>it's hopeless but she's my one
>last night an old regular that I haven't seen in months shows up
>he's a really cool guy he seems a little weird like autistic but he's one of the only actual adults that treated me like I wasn't just a kid
>at around 9:30 I watch him and the bartender walk from the bar into his car and fuck
man

>>81542544 (OP)
two of your favorite people be together anon, you should be happy for them

>>81542544 (OP)
Did it hurt your feelings?

this post made me really sad

>>81542544 (OP)
Did you watch them?

>>81542581
yeah that part is nice I guess but it it would be different if I wasn't into this girl for like two years

>>81542597
yes I feel like she lied to me about being a lesbian and also I think it's gross that they had sex in his car like that

>>81542544 (OP)
don't hang out with her anymore, she is willing to lie to you over something that matters that much

>>81542615
>yes I feel like she lied to me about being a lesbian
Yeah, seems like she isn't into such age gap and wanted exscuse out.

>>81542544 (OP)
>said that she was into girls
You should have known that she was lying because lesbians aren't real desu

>>81542544 (OP)
she's way older than you. And our generations are very different, more different than other generational gaps. also, getting older, i realized that men don't have good dating options until they're 25-30 and their gf is like 5y younger.

Anon, I'll be honest with you about it. She's 29. That's almost 30. It's a different type of adult at that age. You might be physically grown, you might have all of the best intentions for you and her, but you're a child. Legally, yes, you're an adult, physically, yes, you're an adult; but compared to her you're a child. She's a grown woman with bills and needs. He's a grown man with bills and needs. It's different. What is she going to do for you? Waste the last few years of her prime on a teenager far away at college? Sit around waiting for you to come back? You'll understand eventually, but you're living in a different world than she is. Even if she does talk to you and enjoy spending time with you, you two aren't living the same lives. It was never going to happen.
Plus, it's great that she burst your heartbreak cherry before you got to college. Now you can go and develop like a normal man instead of holding on to hope for a woman that was never going to be with you in the first place. Women thinks almost the same way we do. Yeah they're a little more emotionally driven, a little less logical, but they think and want like we do. They aren't pure or perfect. In fact, you'll find most of them are probably morally corrupt compared to you. It's good that she taught you this lesson. It hurts but you will be better for it. At least it wasn't someone that you had a legitimate shot at.

>>81542673
well if I were op I'd be angry because she could at least have fun with it but oh well, the lesson is that older women are all stuck up bitches who exclusively talk to provider chads

>>81542544 (OP)
>>I move for college in a couple months and I've made it a goal to pull off anything with her before then
must be nice being this vain

this kind of rejection is an important experience to have
it's up to you to decide where you go from here
good luck my guy

>>81542812
Now this is a meme I haven't seen for over 10 years, still kekd

Bit shitty of her to lie to you like that, should have just tell you you're a kid.

>>81542544 (OP)
why didnt you knock on the car's window and turn on your phones flash to fuck with them