>Not popular with girls in highschool
>Graduate around the start of r/incels in 2016-17
>Start getting blackpilled start believing only chads get pussy
>Refuse to even attempt at dating a woman until I looksmax hard
>fast forward 8 years I've done nothing to improve except go to gym
>think fuck it and use a dating app to see if I get matches
>to my surprise I get matches with many girls
>join a local weeb club and many girls seem to be attracted to me after talking
>realize it really was my personality and being an awkward teen
>mfw I wasted 8 of my prime years because of an Incel psyop
Don't waste your youth guys, go out there and at least give it a try. Don't be like me.

>>81556295 (OP)
>r/incels
hahahhahahahahah

>>81556295 (OP)
TLDNR but I would loooove to rape the girl in your pic

>bro just do this it worked for me what do you mean

I was pretty mute during highschool and was almost the most adored by girls due to being the tallest and in class . was a bit unkept especially when it came to my hair. Popular dudes always invited me to be with them etc.

I approached 550 women around 2010 and I'm still a virgin.

>>81556330
I'm not saying it will work 100% but you should at least give it a try is what I'm saying. Many guys like me just gave up at an early age.

>>81556346
>I approached 550 women in a single year
No you didn't.

>>81556346
Yes, but I'm not talking about cold approach. Could you not have joined a club or something?

>yet another humblebragging fag tells us to just bee urself

>>81556295 (OP)
wtf is a local weeb club?

>>81556364
That's why I said "around"
It was when PUA was popular, I went to a club 1-2 times per week and approached at least 5 women per night, then I also approached some women on the street. I stopped counting at 550, it was actually even a bit more.

>>81556379
It's like a place where they talk about anime and japanese culture

>>81556346
Yeah same here. around 2008-2012 I used to approach girls every single weekend at bars and clubs. never even got a positive response.
Being short is a death sentence.

>>81556375
Many men look perfectly fine but take themselves out of the race because they get blackpilled

>>81556373
I joined a Karate dojo. My problem isn't "meeting" women, I had several female friends, they just didn't find me attractive.

>>81556399
For adults, outside of a college?

>>81556295 (OP)
dumb bitch couldn't even do it right

>>81556426
Yeah my city has a place like that

>>81556295 (OP)
Unfortunately for me I have real social anxiety and awkwardness, it's not my imagination.

>>81556415
Kyokushin?

>>81556444
I think you could train it though

>>81556295 (OP)
I was on tinder when it came out and I never got any attention on any dating app even when I improved myself. You were just an idiot anon. Most of us can't get anything

>>81556394
approach women in different social settings, where they are less of a stranger to you

>>81556295 (OP)
Im an incel because I hate people and have no interest in doing stupid club type shit with normies.
The blackpill is just a side thought.

>>81556493
My point is that there are potentially millions of young men who are just giving up nowadays because they believe this shit

>>81556479
It was Shotokan at the time, I prefer Kyokushin now.

>>81556539
Whats the difference? I like the way Kyokushin looks because i like the physicality i'm a Thai KBer/Boxer so i like that aspect more

>>81556517
It doesn't matter, I also went to school and uni, there were literally hundreds of women.
But some of you should probably try because maybe you aren't as ugly as you think but for me it's over. I approached more women irl than 99.9% of men on this planet, and of course I also did dating apps. At some point you have enough evidence to know it won't work.

>>81556563
The physicality is basically it, Shotokan is usually much softer.

>>81556592
Yeah i'm trying to fight for real, no funny business.
I missed out on amateur martial arts as a kid/teen so i'm making up for lost time by doing as many tournaments as i can

>>81556580
What would you say about your appearance makes you unattractive? Are you short? Balding? Etc

>>81556482
Not really. If I'm around people I've gotten to know it's fine but getting to know anyone new is something I have a hard time with.

>>81556616
Yes, but couldn't you train it by just like asking women the time for instance. I used to be super anxious around women and that helped me talk to them.

>>81556295 (OP)
>spend 8 year looksmaxxing
>suddenly gets dates
>wtf it was my personality all along
based retard

>>81556639
If you read the post you'll see that I didn't do any real looksmaxing. All I did was go to the gym as a natty, I lost some weight and got a broader frame, but I don't look muscular.

>>81556608
I have a big and crooked nose and very big ears that I was bullied for as a kid. I'm slightly balding, have gyno and scoliosis. Even before balding I had a very big forehead.

>>81556679
Can you not get a nose job and maybe some treatment for your hair?

>>81556695
I probably could, I wasted a lot of time thinking that my looks weren't the main problem and now I'm already 36. But I'm thinking about some surgeries.

>>81556295 (OP)
t. Another fag telling telling us that actually it's very easy to get a girlfriend.

Otherwise,we'd might realize it's hard. And we'd might realize it's pointlessly hard. And we might start blaming women for that. And women might start getting held accountable. And we can't have that, can we.

>>81556869
Bro I was into this shit from when it basically started, I'm not saying looks don't matter or that it's not hard, but that many men who would have otherwise had fine lives are ruining their prime years by subscribing to blackpill bs that only applies to truly ugly men.

>>81556904
probability of OP being a women: 92%

>>81556904
The problem is a lot of you are just failed normalfaggots raised on screens that never tried and expected a fun life to just be handed to you like your tv shows ("le awkward teen dorks"). You could have been some bitch's oofy doofy at any time if you put in the effort and chased holes. For men that are actually ugly/messed up or men that don't want to be a servant/jester/wallet the blackpill is very real. If you give up without ever trying to have a life don't blame the blackpill for men speaking the truth. Two things can be true at the same time. The world isn't black and white.

>>81556580
my hit rate with women is over 50% because I always approach in favorable scenarios. i am ugly and avg height. i would say you probably just didn't talentmaxx in something relevant (100% in your control) like an instrument or dancing and built a community around that

>>81556869
>it's very easy to get a girlfriend.
it indeed is. pump and dump are dime a dozen. getting a woman worth marrying ... completely different story.

anti black pill propaganda on /r9k/? it's a lost war. The blackpill is way too redeicalized in here.
I love to see it anyway

>>81557143
>talentmaxx in something relevant (100% in your control) like an instrument or dancing
that's all genetics though fuck you musichad

>>81557203
no one is holding a gun to your head preventing you from honing a skill

>>81556295 (OP)
I am ugly af. I havent talked to a girl since college.
>weeb club
Inm dont even know in which fairyland you live, weeb clubs here are men only

>>81557143
True, I didn't do that. I decided to spend the last few years focussing on my career, but turns out women don't care much about money.

the blackpill is nothing to the power of Yahweh. Totally ruined lives and world. Blackpill is just a pseudo science cult basically.

>>81557214
Noone gives a shit if you have an activity you enjoy unless youre extremely good at it
>building a community
I did but its all men. Women dont do outdoor sports

>>81557143
>just didn't talentmaxx in something relevant (100% in your control)
Idk wtf you mean. If you get dates youre not ugly. I never got date.
>inb4 get hobbies
I camp, hike, fish and play guitar, all of which are completely useless and unattractive to women unless youre a suoer attractive guy who can olay extremely well

>>81557238
i got laid from piano when i was mediocre
>Idk wtf you mean. If you get dates youre not ugly. I never got date.
i am by many metrics, conventionally ugly
>I camp, hike, fish and play guitar, all of which are completely useless and unattractive to women unless youre a suoer attractive guy who can olay extremely well
probably don't play guitar well and have normie taste in music (cowboy chords, power chords, shit any retard can play). that's where i differ from you

>>81557277
>humblebragging this hard
Is this some kind of raid? People going on here to brag about random shit.
Yeah if you got a date youre attractive
>probably don't play guitar well
Duh. I am not good at it having played regularly for a couple of years same with all of my hobbies. I enjoy doing them but i am shit at all of what i do, job included + women despise by hobbies
>inb4 just be talented bro
Talent is something you receive at birth

>>81557349
>Duh, I am not good
so get good and stop complaining it's unattractive to women. obviously being shit at guitar is useless, the fuck?

>>81557422
>just be talented bro
Been trying for 3 years, nothing, been hiking and camping weekly for 8/9 years now.
Whats youre next advice just become rich? Just become attractive?

>>81557468
perhaps you never got good at anything in life, otherwise you would have the skills to analyze failures and try new approaches. just make that choice, figure out what isn't working and work on that. chances are you're just doin the same shit getting nowhere like most people, the lazy way. well now I told you how to get there, so it's on you if you don't. no excuse for not knowing now

>>81557485
>just become good at eveything you do bro
Ive never been good or talented at anything despite practicing and chabging my approach, using different methods etc.
Just admit some people just arent talented at anything.
Also doing muh hobbies wont allow you to have a gf if
>your hobbies arent the ones girl likes
>you dont meet girls to begin with (inb4 muh hobby clubs, i am a founding member of one, those are men only)

I want to kill myself when I think about all the girls I passed up on who were into me in uni because I was blackpilled. Fuck my retarded nigger existence.

>>81557510
you're not talentless, you're impatient and probably expecting returns way too fast. most people suck at stuff for a long time before you make real progress. not weeks, years
>tried different methods
cool. did you master any of them? or just hop between approaches once frustration kicked in?

It wasn't your personality, you just weren't good looking enough to consider. Once you got into a place with like minds and that conversing over a period of time is normal they didn't immediately file you under the rejected pile unlike other situations. Women are scared of me. They often told me at work that it looks like I'm always angry or that I'm a serial killer. Then when they talk to me they realize I'm nice.

You either aren't as bad looking as you thought you were or you improved your looks during your autist years. Then you were in situations in which your grade of looks were acceptable enough for the social activity with women to consider you. If you were to try to cold approach in a different situation you wouldn't have the success you have in another situation because you simply don't look good enough.

>>81557618
>you're not talentless
I am. A lot of people are.
>you're impatient and probably expecting returns way too fast
Didnt know 9 years was too fast, but hey maybe i can become less shit once i turn 60. Maybe then i can... oh wait i cant because women dont like ugly men and people with boring hobbies
> did you master any of them?
Nope. Cant master anything. Its been like this my entire life.
>hop between approaches once frustration kicked in?
No. I switch approach every 2 to 3 years
No result
No date
Not a single girl interested or just not disgusted in me in my entire life

>>81557650
>Didn't know 9 years was too fast
>Been trying for 3 years,
lol
>No. I switch approach every 2 to 3 years
you need to pivot much sooner.
>can't master anything
you just don't have evidence that you can. i can sympathize with that. it gets easier to keep getting wins when you get your first. don't end up like everyone else who didn't actually try

>>81557747
>lol
As i said been playing guitars for 3 years, been hiking /camping weekly for 9. Then i had a bunch of other stuff i went really into during my vacations (mostly sea related since i live far away from the sea).
>need to pivot much sooner.
The result wouldnt have changed. If youre shit at something youll be mediocre at best after years if practice.
>gets easier to keep getting wins when you get your first
Some people never win
>don't end up like everyone else who didn't actually try
Welp i guess i havent been trying enough. Spending whatever few free time i have left doing all of that hobby shit is not enough kek
>inb4 muh you have shit hobbies pick better ones
Such as? List what hobbies are accepteable?
Also
>how tf is that supposed to help you get a gf if you dont meet any and youre ugly af
Even dancing classes have zero girls. Ly dancing club had to cancel classes almost since september because noone would show up and thats the largest one where i live

>>81557813
i don't feel like talking to you anymore. i've seen people like you in real life, sabotaging what they do have control over. I could watch a video of your typical week and know exactly why you are where you are

I don't want to micro optimize all my hobbies just for women.

>>81557843
Translation:
>i ran out of bait and chatgpt tier answers to give and will quietly escape the bait thread i created to gaslight others and spam 5 new ones instead of recognizing im spewing bs

>>81556904
Nah. I raised my standards too.
I know I can get a woman to fuck me if I really try.
But I don't want anything other than a virgin that will stay loyal. And who actually likes me. No women alive fill that criteria.

>>81556295 (OP)
it's one thing to be a failed normie, but it's a whole other can of worms to be a failed chad and think about how you basically lost a decade of your life that you could have had and will never get back. your formative years were spent playing video games and getting manipulated by 4channers instead of going out and living life to the fullest, and now you're playing catchup with people who are a decade of experience ahead of you
>extreme autism kept me from getting pussy until age 25
>extreme autism had me too scared to seek a job until age 25
>extreme autism had me too scared to make friends until age 25

>>81557852
stop giving a fuck about what others think of you.

>>81556295 (OP)
i've come to the conclusion that i simply don't desire women at all. they're fucking annoying and constantly have all these chips on their shoulders. dysfunctional no matter what stage, class, or age they're in.
but i don't resent them or envy some imaginary "chad". i focus my time and energy on larger ambitions than getting some pussy. i direct my affection and caretaking toward my siblings.
maybe it's a psyop but really women ain't shit lmao.

>>81557852
in a sense you have to at least give that some consideration if you ever value having a family and intimate experiences

>>81557921
What hobbies do women like then?

>>81556295 (OP)
I'm a blackpilled incel who frequently posts on here and I'm honestly of the same mindset. I need go spend the next couple months improving and maybe I just need to put myself out there more, although I've been shot down each time so far. Hypergamy is real and women are evil but maybe I can find a girl who truly loved me

Post more of the OP whore or tell me who she is so I can google myself. Thanks.

>>81558016
the answer is that women love every hobby, just varying degrees of representation in each niche. you can find women in any hobby if you look hard enough. also, don't be that guy who takes what I say and turns "playing music" into "how does playing guitar to nobody in my bedroom get girls".you should have the imagination to imagine how you could be social with these hobbies. it is implied, but if I don't type this some retard will completely miss the point. anyway
>playing (good) music (well) - #1
>dancing / sports - #2
that's all I got. that's what worked for me tremendously. there are other options but these are broad enough to easily cover most women

>>81558050
not until you reply to my thread

>>81556295 (OP)
Based I also met my gf at an anime club. Just dont be a either a sperg, retard or a pussy and ur golden. There are a lot of decent guys that psyop themselves into pussying out

>>81556295 (OP)
I can't stand how attracted I am to girls like that, to average 19 year old e-girls.
I am a man of 32 years, too old to want to dick them down as savagely as I want to.

>>81556636
You don't get it and I'm not sure how to explain it. Some people have a fear of heights, some have a fear of talking to people. It's embarrassing to talk to someone when you're giving off vibes of being afraid of them.

>>81558297
You think most 30-year-old men don't want to plap sexy little zoomettes?

>just go to the gym for a decade and women will like you

>>81556651
You leaned out to the point your face wasn't nerfed by your shitty facial fat. You got a broader frame which is the equivalent of wide hips on a woman that make us men go AWOOOGA. You stupid midwit, you just proved the blackpill, don't believe me? Gain all that fat back, don't eat protein so you waste away your muscle gains to lose the broad frame. Then come back and update how you lost all your weeb bops to someone who didn't go full retard.

>>81559701
Actual blackpillers would say not even the gym is enough to make them hot

>>81559460
At least this poster recognizes that it's not impossible, just pointlessly hard

>>81556295 (OP)
>>to my surprise I get matches with many girls
I've have more success in real life than online

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