I have no other wants in life or things that bring me joy than getting a qt pale bf with blue eyes

i read a thread on here a while ago about foids being unable to self-actualize and needing someone (usually a man) to "complete" their life and i swear every foid post i see here only confirms this theory. you guys are not full human beings and i cannot be convinced otherwise at this point

>>81560037 (OP)
keep searching man, gotta find 'em eventually

i would be your qt pale bf with blue eyes but i'm fat so you wouldn't give me a chance, but if you encouraged me i would go to the gym and lose 40 lbs to make you happy.

>>81560053
You are ugly and male but thanks for the bump

>>81560037 (OP)
i only date skinny white girls who are younger than 25, sorry

>qt pale blue eyes
this is why women can't be incels. they have retarded standards then try to claim incel status

>>81560070
I know and I have had some success it is just that you know character and chemistry also
>>81560093
How old are you
>>81560097
My standards are based and I didn't claim incelhood. Btw you have standards too so you are also volceling

>>81560086
What is your BMI and age

>>81560090
>ugly
you wish
>male
thank god

>>81560230
32 for both. probably too old and too fat

>>81560037 (OP)
fuck off you wont find anyone here and this thread is going to get deleted soon anyways

>>81560288
I mean I guess we can meet again on this board when you get to 25 bmi

>>81560322
my offer was to work on losing 40 lbs to make a girl who wants to date me happy, not to work on losing 40 lbs for a girl who doesn't want to know me until i do.

I have unusually pale skin and blue eyes and have seen maybe one other man who looks like me in my life (south carolina, USA), and just as few women probably. We are dying out femanon, sad to say. Try the Baltic states I guess. Or maybe Wisconsin.

Females should stop being so picky and chadsexual. Also race shouldnt matter (speaking as an extremely pale white myself)

>>81560500
I don't think you are dying out as a euro woman
>>81560388
See I get that but I don't think I can wait that long since 32 will take a while to get to normal

>>81560524
You are 19 and autistic therefore I don't care about your opinion

>>81560650
or you could see me as a person and not a health condition, and we can start bonding as a couple right away

>>81560037 (OP)
i would stop being ugly and fat if i got a bf but he doesn't have to be pale or have blues eyes

>>81560706
cool, we could lose weight together. team effort!

>>81560712
yes that is actually my ideal fantasy

we are both fat and ugly and we think nobody will ever love us but then we love one another despite everything, and because it's something we thought would never we cherish each other even more and want to be better for the other person, so then we both get fit and better and effectively fix each other. isn't it perfect ??????!!!!!

>>81560751
** something we thought would never happen

>>81560751
I'm pretty sure I could fix myself, but having someone to think about doing it for and share the daily wins would be a big help. I don't think I'm that ugly though, maybe need to take care to present myself better, and the weight doesn't help. Fellow American? What region?

>>81560780
i'm not american, no

>>81560817
oof, that's really the hardest circumstance to improve on here.

>>81560839
yeah i know
it's more than anything just a fantasy anyway

>>81560037 (OP)
Can someone explain to me why women care so much about superficial shit like eye color? Is this an evolutionary thing or is it just cultural retardation?

>>81560914
Shut up male I just like how it looks you have preferences too you subhuman retard

>>81560124
>(You)
>My standards are based and I didn't claim incelhood. Btw you have standards too so you are also volceling
get off my board then you sex haver :|

>>81560037 (OP)
depression can't be fixed, it's genetic. expecting someone else to do so would be demanding the impossible.

>>81560977
Can I atleast feel a little nicer for once
>>81560969
I need a boyfriend first ( don't have non relationship sex)

>>81560037 (OP)
Getting a boyfriend just made my depressuon and anxiety issues worse

>>81561120
Can you explain how please

>>81561131
Well for starters he won't respond for 10+ hours in a day because he's "busy" lol

>>81561154
Did you tell him that or how long you let him act like that. I left my ex two months in cause of the way he acted

>>81561179
I don't know, I feel like he's doing it on purpose because we met here. That's good, I'm still being delusional about it

>>81561330
does he have a job? I am mostly unavailable for chatting when i'm at work.

>>81561339
No, we're both neets. Yeah, I'd understsnd if he worked

>>81561363
nta, your situation sounds just like mine with my ex, i'm sorry nona but it's probably not going to get better

>>81561154
as a guy who does this, most of the time its because it takes a lot of effort to talk to other people and i do not care enough at the time to interact with them. i dont hate them and im not busy cheating or something. most of the time im just doomscrolling or playing video games.

>>81561363
i can't really imagine being a neet, but i would think if i were, i would still want some me time apart from my girlfriend. I worked a shitty seasonal winter minimum wage job, and there was an older guy there who owned a construction company that only ran in the warm season. He made enough money from his business to not have to work this shitty minimum wage job, but he did it so he wouldn't be cooped up at home with his wife all day every day. I dunno the particulars of your relationship, but you should at least be aware that it's possible to have a solid and healthy relationship where your guy doesn't want to be around you every free minute of his life.

>>81561330
Bro wdym tell him off

>brow hair, blue eyes, ugly
Im sorry for the Unforgivable crime of being not a perfect Aryan

>>81561584
Wdym I can do brown hair blue eyes as long as the pubes are qt

>it's possible to have a solid and healthy relationship where your guy doesn't want to be around you every free minute of his life.
most foids cannot seem to understand this

>>81561846
not wanting to be around you every minute of his life does not mean straight up ignoring someone, especially your girlfriend. if you need space you should say it

>>81561857
i agree with you, but most foids think "i need space" = "i hate you" or "im talking with another woman," when it often just means "some alone time would be nice"Clingy
women are often like puppies when they find a guy they like and will smother the man to the point of resentment and then get butthurt if the man wants some space

>>81560670
You are a fat fuck who doesn't deserve love KEK

I want a bf this is gay

>>81561805
What about green eyes (bweh) I am sorry

i know some people have already mentioned this a bit but as a girl with depression and a boyfriend of one year, let me tell you, it does not fucking fix anything. in some ways, a relationship will worsen your depression, at least if you have the same issues i do (insecurity, horribly low self-esteem, anxious attachment). honestly i am at the lowest point in my life right now, even with a partner. i had the same mindset as you until i started dating my boyfriend and realized that treatment/getting better doesn't come from external factors; it comes from within. you need to work on yourself and nobody else can or will do it for you

>>81561986
how old are you? because, respectfully, this is stuff most guys learn early into their teenage years through experience. If you're over the age of, idk, 18 and are just now realizing this, im afraid the posts about women being coddled are true

>>81561986
Want to echo this and add that in some cases it's not necessarily something you "fix" rather than learn to manage or mitigate by cultivating self compassion and patience.
Personally when it comes to self esteem issues I think what helped me the most was setting small realistic goals towards something and following through as well as investing in my well being and health over time.
Hope you feel better soon.

>>81562005
i don't disagree with you. i am 18 and have felt like i've matured slower than others. this really is something i've only realized recently, although i think it has something to do with the fact that my mental health plummeted not too long ago, around the time i got with my boyfriend; also, before we began dating i was extremely attached to him (so i thought winning him over would make me happy in all aspects of my life). hopefully i didn't share too much information that you don't care about. thank you for being respectful
>>81562086
thank you for the advice.. i appreciate it very much

Boyfren need bump

>>81562477
Get a girlfriend instead.

>>81562495
No I love males

I am so lonnn

i'm ghostly. i have long blonde hair and blue eyes. i hate women thoughbeit.

>>81563317
lame scrotioid

>>81560037 (OP)
NOOOOOOO WHY DO YOU LIKE WHITE MEN NOOOOO I'M GOING TO FUCKING KILL MYSELF ADN CRY YOU'RE SO HECKIN RAYCISS NOOOOO!!!

>>81563330
What your race desyo

>>81560037 (OP)
>be white and pale
>have green eyes
Guess it was over before it began for another reason I wasn't even considering.

>>81563339
I'm latinx but I was just joking, I pray that you find a bf who loves you very very much OP

hes me fr but im less handsome but more muscular, my hairs longer though

>>81563347
Thank you so much! I am sure you find one too just keep posting/texting that is what worked for me

>>81563358
Tbf I kinda prefer shorter "emo" length hair but you sound cute

mine are two different shades of green

RIP pelle

>>81563372
Its to the top of my lumbar, dont think I want it any longer, kinda like bill steer from carcass but I had layering and mines thicker and wavier. Eyes are A60 on the eye colour chart. Long hair is a pain though.

>>81563373
Why are your eyes neon?