>>81560731 (OP)I'm 6'3, 230lbs and 15 percent body fat, I have an autistic skincare routine, do steroids, dress reasonably well. I earn an above average salary and own a house. I'm decently social, not risk averse, not addicted to anything and have different hobbies (I make alcohol, enjoy drafting/CAD and I'm in a political party)
All I learned by looks/lifemaxxing is that everyone is in their own head on what they feel like they're entitled to. I'm now considered an option by women, when before I was treated politely but coldly. My actual success is less than it was before, but I do get treated way better in life generally