Thread 81564839 - /r9k/ [Archived: 942 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:36:59 PM No.81564839
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Anyone else a clueless freak when it comes to dating? Like I wouldn't even know where to meet women to approach them..
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:37:50 PM No.81564844
Nope, it's just you. We're all dating pros around here.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:40:55 PM No.81564863
>>81564839 (OP)
Does it have a pennis?
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:41:47 PM No.81564869
>>81564839 (OP)
What type of women are you trying meet? The location will vary depending on this.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:47:29 PM No.81564903
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What's it called when a woman draws a ski ramp off the side of their eye? Femanons, do you actually do this?
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:00:46 PM No.81565001
>>81564903
It's called cat-eye, and it's one of the few makeup styles that I find attractive.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:01:46 PM No.81565008
>>81565001
You also see it called an eyeliner wing.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:02:04 PM No.81565012
>>81564839 (OP)
If they're not naturally coming to you then it's not worth the effort.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:34:10 PM No.81565859
>>81564903
Know it as eyeliner too like >>81565008
It draws attention to the eyes, that's why they do it. It's a clever trick because eyes are the most interesting part of your face.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:40:32 PM No.81565923
>>81564839 (OP)
Yea I only really go to work, grocery stores and out to movies/bowling with two other permavirgins.
>Like I wouldn't even know where to meet women to approach them..
Could approach women from a different department at work but I'm never not going to be scared to do an IRL approach. The risks massively outweigh the benefits.
I've also thought about what I'd even do if I approached a woman and she said yes. Like...where do I go from there? I have no social media. I guess I'd give her my phone number? Then I'd probably end up being too scared to call her. But if I do call her and she agrees to a date, I have no car (I don't want to drive) so it would either be walking or a taxi/Uber to get her. Even I realize that's already weird for most women in my country, as stupid as it is (cities are walkable here, you don't need a car to do anything).
If I get her to go on a date with me...what do I even talk about? My porn collection? My love for some video games? Computers/tech? Living with my mom at 30 because I'm building wealth to retire early? How I never want kids or marriage? You get the idea, it's very hopeless so I'd rather not even bother. It would end up some sort of humiliation ritual at any given one of those steps.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:40:36 PM No.81565924
oh my God every time I see a fucking woman I get a little angrier
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:56:28 PM No.81566079
>>81564839 (OP)
I really don't seek out women to approach when I'm in public, especially at places like bars or clubs. On the rare occasions that one of them approaches me I fold completely. It's like I'm being tossed the easiest little softballs and I strike out anyway
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 7:57:49 PM No.81566088
>>81564903
I call them wings or cutie marks because they are cute
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:34:45 PM No.81566365
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>>81564903
I call it incredibly stupid because it is incredibly stupid
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:47:54 PM No.81566508
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>>81564839 (OP)
Nobody approaches anon. Ppl meet through social circles or through proximity like work or school. Dating just happens for most ppl they dont need a plan or a strategy like you do. This is why most normie advice is to just be your best self or whatever the fuck. They dont even need to try.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:52:43 PM No.81566562
>>81566508
>dating just happens for most people
this is true but not because they're normies, it's because they realized that dating has to happen during school/uni
if you missed out during your school years you missed out forever
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:57:06 PM No.81566606
>>81564839 (OP)
I've never approached women. But I've been approached a few times in my life. I've been called a chadlite but I'm a total sperg with 0 confidence.
The handful of times I've gone out with my normalfag friends I've had women smile and wave at me and my friends would try and get me to go and talk to them. But at that moment my brain shuts down, my legs go numb and my heart starts going 1000 beats per second
It sucks to know that you could maybe get a gf if you tried, but you lack everything to pull that off.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:06:03 PM No.81566710
>>81566606
based sperg
getting nervous is normal anon, you need to overcome the nerves enough to walk over at some point, you can't stay a robot forever
if you stay a robot with chadlite genes just because it's comfortable you're a disgrace to everyone here
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:07:10 PM No.81566727
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>>81564839 (OP)
This is the system working as intended. If you can't figure it out, it's not for you.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:09:53 PM No.81566760
>>81566710
My situation is a bit more complicated than that. I don't know if it's internalised cope or if I truly feel that way, but I feel like a relationship would be too hard and consuming for me. I'm a loner by nature and spending too much time with other people can get bothersome for me.
>you can't stay a robot forever
I can, even my parents have accepted it. It's just my extended family and friends who are holding out hope.
>you're a disgrace to everyone here
I'm a disgrace to everyone, I've realised this a long time ago.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:10:25 PM No.81566765
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>>81566727
This. Natural selection at work. You fags really need to get you're genetic dead ends and alone and clueless for a reason. If you went through public school and college having no idea how to have friends and a girlfriend you're not supposed to.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:19:47 PM No.81566876
>>81564839 (OP)
Seems the more of a feminine oversocialized fag you are the better you date. Women call it "masculine" bc masculine is when you act like a woman now
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:28:57 PM No.81566982
>>81566765
This anon is a faggot who doesn't know rape was invented out or moral reasons.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:31:54 PM No.81567021
Tinder is the standard option. Met around 50-70 girls from there.