Can you ever truly love a woman knowing she is not a virgin?

>>81564856 (OP)
yeah you just have to love her for her and not her virginity

>>81564856 (OP)
yes because a woman my age being a virgin is a red flag

>>81564856 (OP)
No
My woman is exclusively mine. Idk why such simple concept makes simps and roasties seethe

>>81564856 (OP)
Women are to have children and a family with. In order for her to love you, you have to forgo loving her

why is cody rhodes here

>>81564879
This is a lie, and will never be a red flag to a man

>>81564856 (OP)
Yes. Love is desiring to be with someone in spite of their flaws, which isn't always a good thing, but it definitely shows a stronger commitment into loving someone. I find it hard to believe that anyone here hasn't gotten that simpish over someone subconsciously.

>>81566505
>anyone here hasn't gotten that simpish over someone subconsciously.
I've twice, both of them were virgins. I can ignore many flaws, be it physical or mental, but I never felt anything besides disgust towards nonvirgins

>>81564856 (OP)
I love my mom, my aunts, my grandmas.
So - obviously yes.

>>81564856 (OP)
No, you just accept that you're the oofy doofy who pays for her lifestyle. But in your mind you know deep down that she's always going to be thinking when you're fucking her, how much she enjoyed Chad and Tyrone's big cock.

>>81564856 (OP)
You can still love a women whos had a small number of partners but it would never be as pure as an actual virgin.

>>81564856 (OP)
Of course you can't.
She didn't love you enough to wait for you. She had been warned growing up that if she gave it up before meeting the one that she'd be less valuable goods. She did it anyway.
She's garbage. You should dump her because you can absolutely do better.
... and if you don't want to despite what I've said, you have your answer.

>>81566566
>me when I purposely feign retardation

Yeah, it's not a big deal unless they're mega sluts which would mean there's some other stuff going on.

>>81564889
She thinks of those other men fucking her btw, women value bodycount and your kids will be partially these forever unknown to you.

>>81566566
Love is an ample word. You should love your daughter, but you shouldn't fuck her like you fuck your wife

>>81564856 (OP)
I like my virgin sisters infinitely more than my whore sisters.

>>81564856 (OP)
Honestly, you can but it is likely going to take a toll on your mental health.
You have to make an effort to bury the thought that some other guy had anal sex with your now girlfriend, that he ejaculated on her face, spanked her ass, made her choke on his dick.
And women com claim that this is insecurity on the boyfriend's part, that just shows how vile they are. Like if they were well meaning they would acknowledge how disgusting it might feel and just try to compensate for that by being the best girlfriend they can, but instead they want to convince the boyfriend that he is the problem, not herself.

>>81567310
women who* claim

Imagine >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>loving

>>81567310
Pretty much the case. It doesn't end well.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1jyq1z3/my_25f_fiance_29m_became_upset_when_he_heard_that/

>>81564856 (OP)
Can you ever truly love a man knowing he masturbates to women being sex trafficked, raped, beaten? And that he thinks women are inferior and need to be put under his control?

>>81567354
Fairly fucked up story. "John" dodged a bullet.

>>81567357
In a relationship, the man is meant to be the leader and the woman is meant to follow, this is just how it is.
But when you take things to this extreme, it tells me you had a bad father figure, and that your mother made terrible choices in her life.

>>81567589
explain how Freudian memeology makes a man masturbate to those things

Can a woman truly love a man if he's not virgin?

>>81567588
I wonder what all those virtue-signalling commenters are trying to say. Obviously he would have a problem with it. I don't know if the issue was handled well, but the relationship was doomed.

>>81567698
Exactly.
It wasn't that he lacked respect for her or wanted to degrade her.
It's that she allowed 8 other guys to do it, the thing that was "too dirty" to do with him.
There was no coming back from that. The fact that she just thought he wanted to do it and that was solution shows how little of a clue she lacked.
I feel terrible for the guy.

>>81567354
>This was by far the best relationship I ever had and I am still struggling to figure out how it just kind of crumbled so suddenly.
I wonder how many women have and will end like this.

>>81567688
The sex traffic part does not need any explanation. It is for the same reason you buy clothes and mobile phones made with slave labor.

The beating part, if you are talking about actual beating, like punching a girl's ribs of something like that, you should definitely avoid those types of people.

The rape part, I believe that is rooted in the lust for power and dominance that is part of male nature. Like Oscar Wilde's quite "Everything in life is about sex, except sex which is about power". The problem is not that instinct itself, it is not having the virtues to regulate those instincts. So, you should look for guys who have those virtues.

>>81567784
It's sad.
She literally doesn't get it and is mentally incapable of ever getting it.

If you're pushing 30 and still expect a virgin girl, you're pathetic

>>81567983
>t. 4chan foid

>>81567357
>>81567691
It doesn't matter since women aren't capable of loving anyway

>>81567354
jesus the amount of seething roasties in the comments is insane, they're so fucking livid he did the only thing he could to nurse his ego before calling it off

>>81568102
It's pretty depressing.
That's the absolute state of foids in this day and age.

>>81567354
This is so fucking funny it's actually going to kill me the best part is she STILL GIVES HIM ANAL YOU STUPID BITCH THAT'S NOT THE POINT
>had another talk with John and said that if he wanted for us to incorporate anal sex into our sex life I would be willing to give it a try and he agreed, but not with as much enthusiasm as I expect. To be honest I was very uncomfortable with the idea for reasons I explained in my previous post, but thought I could get over it for the sake of salvaging our relationship. The experience was awful. I thought I was ok with it, but felt this strange sadness that John was doing this to me. In the past John had been very romantic and caring, but this time he was almost robotic, when he must have seen I was feeling distressed. After he finished I went to shower and then just cried.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I should browse r.ddit hahahaha

>>81568368
>>81568102
Misogyny at it's finest

>>81568736
How is that misogyny?

>>81568679
That's my favorite part of the thread.
The redditors in the other threads talked her into doing it. So she did it. Then the redditors in this thread shame the guy and those redditors and claim they sexually coerced her.
You can't make this shit up kek.

>>81566957
He implied she is a virgin tho..

The thought that the girl I love has been touched by another man is so viscerally disgusting that it makes me tear up in pure seething anger. A man should only have a woman that is a pure virgin. But this was before industrial revolution and urban hellscapes when families were clans and clans traded youth to breed as means of uniting.

>>81568736
Not sure I follow.

>>81568736
How do you reason that is misogyny

>>81569164
This. Feel like it's a natural emotion for anyone who's not a buckbroken cuck.
The same visceral disgust women feel for a male virgin, men feel towards a used woman.

>>81569864
Somehow they manged to convince guys that this is unnatural and that there is something wrong with them if they feel that way.
It was one hell of a psyop when you think about it.

>>81564856 (OP)
yeah lol lmao, rofl even

>>81564856 (OP)
Of course. I love my mom.

>>81566980
>but you shouldn't fuck her like you fuck your wife
How should you fuck her then?

>>81569931
They weaponized men's fear of being labelled as losers/undesirable to silence men into being quiet about this.
>oh you don't like the idea of your wife having been fucked in all her holes by other men before you? you're just an insecure incel!
But it's definitely a weak spot for them, and this is why foids go apoplectic with rage when you tell them you just don't want a used woman. Exactly the same as how they treat virginity for a man, or actually worse since a man can always lose his virginity, a woman can never undo being a whore.

>>81570065
Truth nvvke right here

I dated two very promiscuous women and I can tell from experience, being a whore ruined their ability to form a healthy emotional bond and have functional relationship.
Both of them would tell me that they loved me, and I believe that they did, but there were simply too many mental/psychological issues for love alone to be enough.
So, it is true when they say that being a whore destroys a woman's ability to pair bond. It is not that they don't feel love for the guy, it is more that it makes them extremely emotionally unstable, they have these emotional highs and lows because that's now their natural state after being fucked by so many guys, and that puts the relationship under constant stress until it eventually breaks.

>>81566933
>uses a broad term without qualification
>thinks other people are dumb
lol

>>81570326
This is so depressing to read. Is pair bonding actually true

>>81569864
>they hated him for he spoke the truth
orimanlal

>>81570326
this
there's a huge drop in relationship stability after a woman has had just one other cock
used goods are no good

I've always struggled to understand why this matters. is the concern that because she has experienced other dick that she won't appreciate your lack of ability to please her? Or is it more of an arbitrary feelies thing.

>>81564856 (OP)
Yes because I'm who taking all the virginity here

>>81564856 (OP)
no you can't. that's why for chads, women are purely status symbols

>>81573206
pair bonding is real, if she has been with other men before you she will constantly compare your actions to theirs, the more men she has been with the more standards you have to live up to

>>81573314
I cant see how pairbonding is real. As a man who is 33 and have had 4 relationships in my life. I still desire to fuck other women when I'm in a relationship. I imagine women also desire to fuck other men. The only thing stopping us is societal expectations.

>>81573337
Desires aren't inherently good and societal expectations aren't inherently bad
You do whatever you want, but everything has consequences. If you want to smoke weed go ahead but don't say it's healthy since it's factually wrong

>>81573337
Men can still pair bond despite multiple previous partners. This is borne out by divorce and divorce initiation stats

>>81574659
They still are affected by casual sex, just not as much as women

>>81574748
What would you say the ratio is?