Thread 81571317 - /r9k/ [Archived: 920 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:43:36 AM No.81571317
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Is there any benefit in going to a bar alone?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:46:57 AM No.81571347
Depends on the country I guess. Here I know there isn't, people go in groups so chances of talking with people and not being awkward aren't great, and they're aimed at dancing so get loud or at sports watching which it's mild fun but whatever you chat about ends when the match ends lol
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:49:02 AM No.81571359
>>81571317 (OP)
As if OP could afford it
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:49:08 AM No.81571361
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>>81571317 (OP)
depends, are you hot? not trying to be a downer but ive hung with a crowd of girls before and it's customary to take the piss of literally anyone by themselves in a bar unless they're attractive
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:50:33 AM No.81571369
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You get to act all mysterious and brooding sipping on your drink and pulling serious faces.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:54:02 AM No.81571391
>>81571317 (OP)
I go to bars alone all the time. I've chatted up a lot of boomers, and very seldomly a girl will get flirty. Think I've even had swinger couples get flirty with me, but nothing came of it.

mostly I have a few drinks, eat some food, and then drive home (probably just pushing up against the legal limit lol)
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:57:23 AM No.81571413
>>81571317 (OP)
Only if you're attractive and don't want to use dating apps for some reason.
Otherwise you're listening to shitty music while drinking overpriced watered down booze alone.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:57:48 AM No.81571419
>>81571347
Definitely not in the U.S. I wonder if Canada's better in that aspect? Anyway, I've done it before and no one talks to you!!! I fucking hate being alive sometimes.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:58:25 AM No.81571423
>>81571391
>I've even had swinger couples get flirty with me, but nothing came of it.
How are you supposed to do the wife swapping thing if you don't have a wife?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:01:28 AM No.81571453
>>81571423
idk, but seemed like the woman was very touchy/feely on me while the man seemed very happy about it.
Maybe just cuck or guy looking for a guy to spitroast his woman with.

happened two times and the second time, after they left, the bartender suggested that he thinks the guy was pimping out his gf. (was an middle aged white guy with a somewhat younger asian woman, they both looked like they might use drugs from time to time but not full blown junkies)
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:03:16 AM No.81571463
>>81571453
>two times
I should say two different times, was more of a normal looking couple the first time.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:35:05 AM No.81572218
bumping because this thread was already on catalogue but some frog faggot copied it.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:15:13 AM No.81572725
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>>81571369
I do this and talk to nobody and before i know it its 3 hours later and im drunk and out $60 so i drive home drunk and still very alone
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:25:12 AM No.81572777
>>81571317 (OP)
i've rarely been to a bar that's just a bar, but there's other kinds i like going to alone, even when i could go another time with a friend

some are vintage/pinball arcades or music venues, and some are just gay. punk shows at worker co-op cafes are more my kind of gay though. i don't drink.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 11:18:12 AM No.81573594
>>81571317 (OP)
you can do a lot of stuff alone without going to a bar.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 11:21:16 AM No.81573606
its nice going to a bar thats not particuarly busy, having a drink and relaxing particuarly if its post work and a hot day or something.
i duno if i'd want to go on a busy social night
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:28:00 PM No.81574166
>>81571317 (OP)
I've done this a lot but obviously I'm me and you're you so I can't tell what's going to happen.
Go in with low expectation, if you're fine with just being someone else's novelty for the night then why not.
You sort of get out what you put in, be open and honest without spilling too much spaghetti and leave room for others to do the same, curteously bow out when there is no interest.
Might have fun, if not then what have you really lost other than your time.
That said, might want to think over why you're considering this and if it's really likely to be the best course towards that goal.

Drink responsibly.