I am 20F (never had a boyfriend,considered the "ugly weird girl" by society.) I'm losing hope at finding someone with the current mindset that we have today and I don't blame men for losing hope too.
I've seen the most destructive and toxic shit online, those obnoxious,rage inducing interviews where whores are asked "what you find attractive in a guy?" And the answers are all the same superficial shit, height, looking like some sort of plastic Ken and being insanely rich, it is almost impossible to find a sane girl that doesn't look at superficial shit.

In my teens I was friends with this guy that every girl called "ugly antisocial loser" just because he wasn't physically attractive enough for them. In my eyes he was not ugly at all, he was the sweetest guy I ever had in my life and we bonded immediately (both history nerds). When our friendship got deeper, he actually opened up to me,confessed his troubles and that shit broke my heart. Probably because I am very empathetic, it was easy for me to empathize with him,to understand his problems, comfort him. I truly fear that I might have been the only girl that actually listened and comforted him which is extremely sad.
Men's mental health awareness it's not a problem that only appears in june. It's always there if no one does something about it. For the men who are reading this, no you are not alone, it seems like it but you are not, there will always be someone next to you even if you think you are completely alone. Please don't do anything stupid, you are worthy and important even if you think otherwise. You matter dude, don't let anybody make you believe otherwise.

>>81575209 (OP)
i think social media have been ruining everyones mental health at this point, wholesome post though

>>81575209 (OP)
Thank you for caring, but you didn't fuck that dude so it didn't solve anything long-term.

>>81575209 (OP)
Just date Chad lol.
>In my teens I was friends with this guy that every girl called "ugly antisocial loser" just because he wasn't physically attractive enough for them. In my eyes he was not ugly at all
Chances are he was an incel or is one now lol.

What's stopping you from dating Chad?

>>81575209 (OP)
who asked?
https://youtu.be/wIFXe-usVO8

>>81575209 (OP)
>I am 20F
Nigga don't worry too much you still have a bunch of time, and you are a girl. Maybe work on what makes you ugly (i.e. if you are fat lose weight, it really does make a huge difference for women). Most importantly get outside, do things with other people to improve your social skills. If you enjoy something's that's male dominated join a club for that, you'll be picked up as a wife in no time. Also depending on what you mean by weird, it can add to your cuteness, weird girls are cute (as long as it's not the "eat my own snot" disgusting type of weird).

>>81575250
Sorry I don't like superficial guys that only care about getting bitches and stuff like that. I don't even find those guys attractive, in my eyes those are the unattractive ones, they don't bring nothing to the table.
Maybe i am a sentiment person and actually care to look inside a person instead of their exterior. THIS should be the standard but unfortunately it's not.

>>81575209 (OP)
>Didn't get married with the nice and amazing childhood friend
And you complain about not having a boyfriend. Truth is, all hormonally healthy men care about is - woman, food, combat. Friends exist only to help meet a woman. All the emotional bullshit gets solved once there is a female to be with.

>>81575360
>Sorry I don't like superficial guys that only care about getting bitches and stuff like that
Not all attractive men are like that.
>Maybe i am a sentiment person and actually care to look inside a person instead of their exterior
This is peak pickme behavior. Why didn't you date your ugly male friend? Because he ugly lmfao
>THIS should be the standard but unfortunately it's not.
Luckily it is the standard because ugly men are dysgenic.

>>81575209 (OP)
uuuh, what kind of a pussy are u ? Oh wait, you're a woman. Nevermind.
Nobody needs help, miserable incels always existed and always will exist. Nature is nature and nature is cruel.
Either you shut the fuck up, stop complaining and work hard on being happy and having dignity or you die an old pathetic depressed incel or you commit suicide to preserve at least some dignity.
The younger you are, the more you should work on yourself. If you still didnt make it and you already feel old, just end it all.
Simple as.

>>81575209 (OP)
Bait post, not reading all this. Expect this thread to get a hundred replies, most of them being dudes trying to get in contact with you. I'd throw my hat in too but I know better than to try with women who will easily look in places like these.

And sure you care about men's mental health but that should make it easier for you to find a bf so I'm not sure why you don't try

>>81575317
Probably the thing that makes me ugly is that I am thin as two chopsticks taped together, no curves and flat chested. For the weird part it's because I enjoy things that are usually liked by men like history that involves ww2, weapons like guns or hunting and especially very dark edgy humor that most females find offensive (which i had trouble in the past communicating with them,lost hope desu), I was always more comfortable around men than women and this labeled me by others as "the weird girl", it's not that insulting but it isolates you from the majority. Also thank you for the kind advice, truly, I am trying to socialize more and the idea of joining a male dominated club doesn't sound bad at all.

so why didn't you make him your boyfriend, OP? is it because you don't want to date ugly men, yet empathize with them?

>>81575446
He unfortunately moved in another town years ago, much away from where I live, we lost contact. we were still young, I was too shy to confess anything (probably fear of rejection or something) but I should have do it. Probably it's the thing I regret the most.

>>81575446
>is it because you don't want to date ugly men
It's because she hates ugly men.

>>81575407
She ignored me because she knows I'm right lmfao.

>>81575209 (OP)
I love you, femanon. I wish more women (actually more people in general) were like you. Everybody talks a big game about empathy but nobody actually follows through.


>>81575230
Men are quick to become pornsick and women are easily brainwashed by agitprop on social media. It's a really sad world.

>>81575244
lmao shutup, dude

>>81575437
I used to like women like you but you're mostly very disagreeable. As for you being thin, a lot of guys on here seem to want that
What do you look for in a guy anyway?

>>81575407
>Not all attractive men are like that.
I am not implying that all attractive men are superficial but we cannot deny that some are and this also applies to women, some attractive women are superficial and some don't.
>This is peak peakme behavior. Why didn't you date your ugly male friend? Because he is ugly lmfao.
Nah Idgaf about that pickme shit, I ain't desperate like that, why anyone would want to get in a relationship with someone that looks perfect but is shitty inside? Nobody. My male friend moved years ago when we were still very young and unfortunately we lost contact plus I am that person that doesn't have socials so.
>Luckily it is the standard because ugly men are dysgenic.
It clearly shows that you care only about the exterior of a person if you pulled out this bullshit. Probably all these people that are labeled as ugly are not even ugly, it is just these retarded beauty standards that are infecting everybody.

>>81575209 (OP)
Thank you! And please leave this board, there will only be more joo demoralization and shitty vibes from here on. Remember, weird guys and girls use other social media sites now. Such as xitter, but anything in general goes nowadays, ever since maybe 2022, 2023... not sure when it was.

>>81575209 (OP)
It's always nice to hear a woman say this. I've heard a lot of women say something similar in my life, that they can empathize, that I matter, that I should have more confidence, etc. The fundamental problem is that, even though your empathy is very nice and heartwarming, I'm still very unattractive and neither you nor any woman I know is interested in me romantically. You're okay with being a friend, but not a lover. Women will always pity me, sure, but they will never really love me. Such is my fate for being born with the wrong genes.

>>81575609
Thank you dude truly, you are literally saying the same things I always think. It is sad that in today's world in order to be loved or even acknowledged you have to sexualize yourself. the majority of the media is bombarded with this bullshit mentality (for example many female rappers make songs that only talk about them sucking dick or some shit, if they think this is female empowering, they are hella wrong.)

>>81575640
Just to be clear op I'm not attacking you specially. I mean that women with these interests are often very picky and judgemental

>>81575704
It's true. The pity party can feel nice if you're not used to any human warmth, it can't replace genuinely being desired and admired though. It feels now like this only really happens through circumstance these days, male accomplishment borders on meaningless. It's so rare I've met a sexually successful guy who's an admirable person, usually it's complete chance and it fosters an enormous sense of entitlement and why wouldn't it, it's not like you had to earn or do anything.

>>81575209 (OP)
>I am 20F
stopped reading, hope you suffer

>>81575640
It might be hella shocking but I truly don't look the exterior and everytime I say this, people think I am trolling or some shit, nah I am not. Probably the closest to a "type" that i have are those scrawny guys with glasses and a big nose but honestly appearance is the last thing i look, he can even be fat that i don't care.

>>81575209 (OP)
No some people are just lost. All this love copeposting is well, just cope.
Just look at some people here meeting for years with sickness of some sort.
If your only problem is being ugly consider yourself lucky because you will find someone sooner or later.
You are only 20 after all.

>>81575209 (OP)
Best cure isn't your empathetic ear or presence it's your body, if you don't give sex then go fuck yourself because sex is the best cure for a men's mental health

>>81575609
Why would you give a shit about empathy man? I spend years talking to mys faggot female friends and they were all having "empathy" it's useless.
If you want empathy go to church.

>>81575704
I am so sorry dude that women in your life were mean to you, many guys like you don't deserve it at all and as a girl it truly saddens me that the sweetest always get fucking ignored. Mine isn't pity because I also hate when others pity me, I completely understand that feeling and let me tell you that I know it's frustrating. I have the same problem that you have, it might be shocking but yes most guys ignore me and I got used to it,I am not angry about it,maybe a bit sad but I don't have much resentment. Perhaps because I have this stupid hope that someday I truly find my bf, I know pretty stupid naive thought to have but it is this that kept me going, kept me determined to not lose hope completely and you shouldn't lose it too dude. I know that maybe you don't see any hope in your situation but as a girl, trust me that we like sweet guys,no matter how they look.

>>81575933
>they were all having "empathy"
that's my point, it's a word that gets so overused it's become trite and meaningless.
Seeing a woman who actually seems to empathize with men's struggles is very refreshing and she deserves a big hug.

>>81575838
Nah I can believe that. I think people have just become too polarized since smartphones and social media became truly widespread anyone could access the internet. People have become isolated in their own little bubbles, they're fed ads that are relevant to them and recommended content that they'd want to watch. Noone has to deal with anyone they truly disagree with and can form little online cliques or just get lost in a fantasy world entirely online, whether it's a game, community, or some other activity.

This might seem like random rambling but I really do think this is having some sort of deeper effect on how people conduct their lives and relate to each other. Couples now just don't seem to want to try to make things work, everyone's quick to ditch each other. Everyone wants perfection in their partner and gets fed bullshit messages on all sides about how to deal with their relationship instead of just turning to their partner first and foremost.

>>81575948
Yeah but how does this change your life lol? It doesn't. These are just pixels on your screen mate.

>>81575747
Yeah trust me I know, fortunately I was never picky nor judgmental to the extreme.

>>81576008
Just trying to reward good behavior. Not even trying to simp, just wish more women weren't cold and calloused cunts.

Not that men are much better, either. Usually not nearly as frigid as your average woman but definitely shallow in their own male oriented way.

>>81576018
Well good for whoever ends up dating you then. I'd offer to talk but I've had my fill of trying to talk to people from this shithole plus I'm a bit too old for you.

How do you plan on trying to meet someone? Honestly I think your best bet might be at a university given all the stuff you've said. A lot of larger universities just let in anyone. You could easily just hang around a campus, maybe even look in the library.

You know what got me?
The realization that Toby Maguire's Spider-Man isn't even considered muscular anymore. This is "average." There are tons of dudes who have what was considered a superhero's physique in the 2000's who would be considered scrawny or "beta" by today's insane standards, and they are insecure as hell over it.

>>81576082
Even back then, it was Fight Club that set the standard

>>81575942
Thanks, I hope you find what you're looking for. I don't really have any hope left, but at least I'm in good health and my life is fairly comfortable. Being alone isn't all that bad... I got used to it.

>>81576002
It is truly refreshing seeing someone like you actually, I thought I was the only one or at least the few that had these type of thoughts, i agree with you 100%. Today's relationships are the thing that worry me the most,like you said they are fast at cheating or ditching the other, they don't even work to make the thing work but leave the person for the smallest of things and are extremely fast at picking a new partner. They keep searching for the thrill constantly and I personally don't find it appealing.
For example the whole thing with some girls when they get the "ick" thing. Personally that shit infuriates me, "I left him because he gave me too many icks" it's a phrase that I heard too many times and not even for serious stuff just because the guy was being himself. no shit men close themselves from the world, become bitter and don't want anything to do with the romanticism because trust me if I was a man, I would have done it the same.

I don't truly believe they can love me and I would rather be myself alone than waste my limited time on earth vainly and exhaustingly pantomiming something that they can pretend to love

>>81576050
Yeah I also thought that, perhaps who knows maybe someone truly will appear in my life, I still have a bit of hope left. Thank you for the advice dude.

>>81575209 (OP)
Thank you for the hope core sigma woman the boys here really need this i am also trying to find a nerd GF that will understand My autism I pray we both get what we want or die trying

>>81576141
Noones ever directly used the word "ick" (that would unironically be an "ick" for me lmao) but I've had exes that just rolled their eyes and act like I'm being boring or "ugh" for wanting to talk seriously. I shit you not, they'd rather have just flirted and done sexual shit in the moment (they've actually asked for this) rather than talk a bunch about our issues and actually use their words. Mind you this was about 8 months into a relationship. Idk why I'm going on about this but it just feels impossible to find someone who both wants to be intimate but also serious. Obviously you want to enjoy yourself in a relationship but 24/7 fun and flirting just feels fake and shallow at some point
>It's truly refreshing seeing someone like you actually
Well thanks, I'm half awake after staying up all night but that made me smile either way. Hope you find something proper, you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders

>>81575209 (OP)
I'm also interested in history. We can be friends give me your discord. Or should I give mine?

>>81576082
I swear it's also the same comparison I do, it is insane how standards changed. The fact that this body is considered below muscular it's insane to me.

Today's standards are just insane to even chase, it is impossible. Nowadays the majority sees the "perfect ken" & "perfect barbie" as the ideal, the whole "a man has to be muscular to the extreme in order to be a 10" or whatever bullshit they are propagating.

I will always be against these type of bs especially when it is extremely toxic and dangerous. Nobody,in my opinion, as to chase any fucking standard, you will ruin your mental health and life with that shit. I don't say that you have to neglect your physical appearance but there's an healthy way of caring about it, to looks presentable without fucking killing yourself for it. people are choosing the destructive route and all this perfectionism it's making many narcissistic and superficial.

>>81576234
Imma give you some sort of metal for surviving that shit, I can already imagine myself with someone like this, that cares about those stuff only but refuses completely to actually sit down and have a talk. I didn't have any bfs but friends like this, in my case they just wanted to have fun but refused to acknowledge their behavior or problems in our friendship, so I can already imagine in a romantic relationship, fucking 10 times worst...dear God.

I don't get why some girls behave like this, it's your boyfriend goddammit show him a bit of love, TRUE LOVE not that stuff. Yes sex is good but if it is meaningless then what you have? Just a buddy to fuck and that's it.

I understand your frustration dude trust me, I hope you find a gf that actually listens to you and STAYS there when you want to talk seriously, comforts you and doesn't mock you nor dismisses you. You seem a pretty sweet guy and I bet some equally sweet girl will come to you.

>>81576235
Yeah! We can be history buddies.

Give me yours dude, imma add u

>>81576233
Yeah my guy that's the spirit.
Truly hope you find your ideal nerdy girl dude.

>>81576416
Sure add me let's have a chat
My discord: nowheretobefound2

>>81575209 (OP)
When a heart speaks with compassion, it becomes a lantern in a world dimmed by judgment. The wise do not chase the shallow admiration of many, but a quiet bond where understanding souls meet. Don't lose hope, for those who feel deeply are often the ones who help others to heal, even as they seek healing themselves.

>>81576586
Oh my God, this is the sweetest thing I read today. You truly made my night man, thank you so much.

>>81575209 (OP)
>you're so nice anon
>you're such a good listener
>do you think this looks good on me anon?
>[entire sobbing, traumatic life story]
>i'm so nervous anon, I'd really like your input on this
>maybe you should be sleeping in my bed, instead
>you seem like you need a hug :)
>I really like sensitive guys like you, you're really my type
>you're like a saint anon, so pure
>hey, could you maybe check out my private insta? i know you don't use social media, but i really want you to see it
>what's your ideal first date?
>i hope I'm not bothering you, but I really like speaking with you
>you deserve to be happy anon

>I hope you find someone

The kinds of things said to a celibate nice guy. Who gives a shit. Might as well kms once the whisky money dries up.

>>81575209 (OP)
>Men's mental health
A bit off topic, but the military draft baiting is probably hell on their already vulnerable mental health and it's going to drive them absolutely insane.

>>81575209 (OP)
Your words don't mean anything unless you're actively dating a robot(me), and it's really that simple.

There were, are and always will be bad part of society. Today's is everything becaming "fast" which includes ideas, people getting shoved down their throat thousands of believe and standards before they can think of own. Yet after thousands of years we stand, and this is why we need to continue this. Your fight can be small, but it still here. Living honest life and sharing that ideas, is already fight against our fate.

>>81575209 (OP)
Are you aware that sympathy and empathy are two different things?

>>81577624
Yes I am aware of that and mine ain't sympathy nor pity. If others can't see that than it's their problem man.

>>81575209 (OP)
this is nice post. i like this thread and i am sorry you have to go through this. you matter too op so i hope you dont do anything stupid

>>81577882
Thank you so much dude, this made me smile truly. I'm happy that I made some people happy in here.

>>81575209 (OP)
>For the men who are reading this, no you are not alone, it seems like it but you are not, there will always be someone next to you even if you think you are completely alone
What does this even mean? Why do normalfags say this? These are just empty words

>>81577915
i was talking about this with my mom, pretty privilege is real. it is real for both genders, attractive people have way easier lives. my mom herself, she was pretty, and always says that "people were never mean to her".
i cant help but think about the ugly people that never get a chance to show how they truly are in the inside. it's sad. you having weird interests or being plain looking doesn't make of you any less of a human being. if anything, being empathetic makes you infinitely better. everyone claims to be empathetic, but all people do is projecting.

>>81575437
>I am thin as two chopsticks taped together
first time I've recommended this for a women on this board, but eat more. Being very underweight is really u healthy too. And the holocaust victim look isn't in right now.
>I enjoy things that are usually liked by men like history that involves ww2, weapons like guns or hunting and especially very dark edgy humor that most females find offensive
this is very cute and I'm sure you'll find a history enjoying bf who will love you very much.

>men who are reading this, no you are not alone
I appreciate the sentiment, but thats as far as it goes. We are a social species, each of us should be part of multi generational communities. I am utterly alone, I have no immediate family or community. If I died in my sleep, the only person raising the alarm would be my manager at work.
My issue has never been getting a girlfriend, it is being unable to keep one - though I have gotten better at overwhelming partners with my emotional needs, it will always be a heartbreaking challenge to control myself. My only emotional outlet is the romantic, and so I am alone.

>>81578055
Nah don't worry dude I ain't anorexic, in fact I eat like a pig, genetics at this point.
And thank you man, I hope I find him too.

>>81578010
Yeah I know it exists and unfortunately I wasn't blessed with being attractive so people in the past were actually mean to me especially back in my teens but currently now that I am much older, it doesn't really bother me, like offend me and stuff. I don't get insulted like I used to but neither acknowledged, kinda live as a background character desu,invisible and stuff.

I actually get what ugly people are going through, being treated differently than others because hell, I still have this problem even today but I fortunately I learned to not let that upset me.

>>81578154
>him
You mean her. I aint no faggot.

>>81578090
I am truly sorry and no I am not pitying you or anything. It saddens me that some are truly alone because of problems ranging from not being attractive enough to unable to keep a partner because of certain circumstances (mental health and so on). No one deserves a life of total emotional and romantic isolation, I hope you find happiness one day dude, everybody deserves that.

>>81575209 (OP)
You never had a bf, but you also never fucked the guy who you thought was the best guy ever or whatever bs you tell us? Total hypocrite.

>>81578288
well, it isn't like you are that old yet. there's a long time left for you to experience nice things. how did you manage to stop caring about the things people think about you? i struggle with those things, my self esteem is very low
and, i dont know... i think you sound very nice and you deserve nice things, maybe you arent anorexic and all but if you think about yourself as a chopstick then maybe you have some sort of absorption problem? i had a friend who couldnt properly store fat, he got better after a chicken diet and some pills

>>81575209 (OP)
>For the men who are reading this, no you are not alone
Lie lie lie lie, I am alone where is my gf who will comfort me when I am sad? Right she doesn't exist because women would rather go for abuse chad instead of the lonely virgin guy. Why making such bs threads.

>>81578401
I already responded to this, we both were young,so you really think I was interested in fucking? Wow I had a stroke at reading this.

I had a crush and didn't even know how to act around him let alone confess without the fear of rejection, don't expect too much from dumb young teens that get crushes dude. Probably if I could go back in time I would actually have confessed but I ain't a fucking time traveler.

>>81578372
I appreciate your kindness. Nobody deserves it no, but it happens nontheless. I think I may find something approaching happiness, but I will never be fulfilled. When you grow up without parental love, there is a persistent void where that love should have been, and unfortunately nothing and no one can fill it.

>>81578498
It's not like you had any self control in the situation. Had he been Chad, you would have dropped your panties immediately due to instinct. Instead, your primitive brain just wanted the attention from this nice guy who was probably too good for you anyways.

>>81578487
You actually didn't read it deeply,didn't you? I specifically called out this behavior, I said that it is extremely toxic and just fucking disgusting, we cannot unfortunately do nothing if some type of women prefer the asshole over a normal fucking guy and at this point I ain't even defending those individuals. If they decided to stay with the abusive dickhead then let them be, it already shows what kind of individuals they are.

Trust me that some women actually prefer the normal guy over the dickhead,personally i don't find appealing nor attractive the abusive asshole chads, so yes we exist.

>>81578579
I did but the word of women mean nothing. They say things and then do something completely different. You personally can do something and date a guy who never had a gf but like all women you don't want to, you want someone who has many options. All women are like this. No you don't exist it is all a lie. The oh so sweet nice guy is probably all alone now never having felt the touch of a woman. You are just writing all of this bs because chad never wanted you. All of the simps ITT eat your shit up but not me.

>>81578408
When I was younger I actually cared A LOT about what people said to me and saw that with this mentality (being paranoid about what others think of me ect) was destroying me mentally and personally I didn't wanted to live a life of total misery.

I learned to not give a fuck through time, for me personally what others say about me (especially physically) I don't find it even important, not even in the slightest and I am not gonna letting them affect me. I may have now the "dgaf" attitude but it is better than bottling up shit and letting it destroy you.

Sadly some are not like me and can't ignore this stuff which it saddens me, I have friends like this and always say to them that they shouldn't give words so much weight, they are just stupid ass words at the end of the day, irrelevant opinions of others that don't serve an actual purpose.

>maybe you aren't anorexic and all but if you think about yourself as a chopstick then maybe you have some sort of absorption problem?

I actually think I might, I don't know man. I eat a lot,like constant eating and even eating when I am bored, surprisingly never got weight, I always stay the same despite the massive quantities I eat. Maybe it's a diet thing? I don't know actually.

>>81578549
I am not even attracted to those type of men, for me personally are superficial especially if they only have sex or other stuff related to that in mind. If you think you are talking to one of those whores here then you are hella wrong mate.

Already from this I can tell you are as superficial as the guys who talk shit, you ain't better than them trust me dude. With this retarded mindset you ain't going no where.

Perhaps maybe there are actually girls that want a fucking normal guy that is not a dickhead Chad? But I dunno I guess we are mystical creatures, too good to be true right?

>>81578703
>I learned to not give a fuck through time, for me personally what others say about me
well you're a bunch of years younger than me and you're evidently way more mature than me. i don't know, opinions don't really serve a purpose, but it's hard to not let comments like "you look autistic", "you look weird and mean" affect you. i wish i had your attitude.
>Maybe it's a diet thing? I don't know actually.
i think so! thats why i am telling you this. i am concerned about your health more than anything else. the consequences of bad absorption are not really that noticeable until you turn 30 and your joints start hurting

>>81578621
Nah ain't interested in dumb chads that have nothing meaningful to serve on the table. And no dude, surprisingly not all women are like this trust me, might be rare I dunno but me and other girls do not have this whore mentality.

I get why you are bitter and shit but generalizing is a dumb move and shows that you don't know what are you talking about. We are not some fantasy beings you find in books, we exist, perhaps in this society is not very common to find a woman that actually cares about her boyfriend and doesn't treat him like some sort of goofy social status (with all that wave of dogshit I am seeing in these years about the hard core feminists) but we exist.

>>81578795
>I don't know, opinions don't really serve a purpose, but it's hard to not let the comments like "you look autistic", "you look weird and mean" affect you.

I know man, trust me that self acceptance stuff is hard when everybody treats you like shit. I get and empathize with others that were treated or still treated like shit (ignored ect.) because insecure and honestly, pathetic individuals only look at the most banal things on this planet. I cannot even take these people seriously let alone let them hurt me. It might be hard to some eith the whole confidence stuff but if you work on your self acceptance,like surprisingly seems a bit better.

>the consequences of bad absorption are not really that noticeable until you turn 30 and your joints starts hurting.

yeah man I think in the future imma have that checked out. I never had any worrisome problem related to my health which thank God, but it might be nice to actually get a bit of weight.

>>81575209 (OP)
>female
>don't have bf
Woman is lying as sokn, as she's opening her mouth lol

>>81578977
thank you for talking to me anon, you are very nice and i hope i meet a lot of people like you in my life
please get your health checked out!! :)

>>81575209 (OP)
being understood and listened to doesn't do much anymore because it's not hard to understand others when you try. your minds can feel like they were made for each other, but it doesn't matter when one party isn't attracted to the other, or the attraction is half-hearted. watch how the woman you thought you were connecting with reacts to men she is naturally attracted to, even if it's their first time meeting. experience that enough and you realize it was never meant to be for you.

>>81579207
Well sure this is a disappointing answer, i am not even angered let alone offended, I am looking at this like a mother disappointed at her son for saying "fuck".

At least have some actual good points to contribute in a logical conversation instead of dropping the same reused boring nonsensical slop. If this was some sort of "gotcha" moment then if failed miserably.

>>81578862
Interesting points you bring up. There's kind of mutually reinforcing spiral of devaluing the other gender as people right now, which leaves no good qualities to recognize except the superficial. Maybe it's just the cultural moment but it's hard to break through this, guys are seen as status objects, girls as sex objects, and our core humanity gets left off the table. There's people who get lost in the gender war and can't apply a bit of irony and perspective to their misery, and of course if you can't rise above anything it's hard to imagine anyone else can either. Who knows. It's strange times we live in, I just hope I can find my way to some kind of peace and understanding. I've already lived most of my younger life without many happy memories. It's the challenge of a lifetime not to become bitter or self-pitying, and for sure, there's not a lot of positive messaging out there in most online places where people grapple with their fate.

>>81575209 (OP)
What the fuck is this? Where's the ragebait?

>>81575209 (OP)
>You matter dude, don't let anybody make you believe otherwise.
No I don't and nobody here does. But that is ok. Realizing that you don't matter is kind of the first step to get over being a loser. Thinking that you matter will keep you in the constant spiral of being sad that you matter but nobody wants you. Toxic positivity of "you matter" "you can do anything if you just try enough" is one of the most disgusting parts of the modern world. Losers would do much better if they acknowledged their limitations and focus on things they can actually do or achieve.

>>81579367
Well, I don't really care about "foid" opinion, ywnbaw and like kys already
Women and refugees have ruined r9k

>>81578010
You seem nice but like a bit of a blessing heart people pleaser. I'm assuming this is op

>>81580789
no, i'm not op. the person replying to me was OP

>>81580805
Makes sense. Meant to say "bleeding heart"

Men's mental health doesn't matter.

>>81580835
i dont know if i am nice, but i am definitely a people pleaser and my heart is bleeding

>>81580851
I've got problems, now everybody on my block's got 'em

>>81575209 (OP)
i was waiting but somehow you never got to the punchline

and no, I'm not falling for it again. Begone, demon

>>81575209 (OP)
people on social media don't seem real to me.
Ofc I understand that they are real, but they are sort of small celebrities, I just don't really care for that life, and it seems very foreign to me.
I don't really give enough of a fuck to be demoralized by that sort of stuff.
People outside look normal, average for the most part.

I do feel very lonely and wish I had a gf though. It's the one thing I crave the most.

>>81575948
Literally all women empathize with men, your arguments against it are silly joke tweets and little else.