anon is sad now - /r9k/ (#81575844) [Archived: 891 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:17:10 PM No.81575844
Tsumiki.Mikan.full.2827070
Tsumiki.Mikan.full.2827070
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>be friends with girl online for couple of months
>compliment her that i liked her hair (she had changed the style)
>she says anon we are just friends okay?
i feel insulted and sad and offended did she think the whole time i had a crush on her why would she tell me this why are females mean why cant the friendships be as linear as male friendships
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:21:49 PM No.81575894
>>81575844 (OP)
Just tell her that you're not attracted to her, you were just complimenting her.

Women like that have a huge ego and being direct and blunt is a good way to knock her down a bit. It's happened to me and sometimes they try to get your attention later on once they learn you aren't attracted to them.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:26:23 PM No.81575935
>>81575894
okay i can try saying this but i dont know how she will take it because she is actually attractive i just never even had romantic desires with her to begin with
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:32:32 PM No.81575985
>>81575935
Saying that won't say she's unattractive, just not attractive to you. If she gets upset, that's her problem. She started this shit, all you wanted was to compliment her.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:04:58 PM No.81576252
>>81575844 (OP)
I sent a complimentary meme to a moid once and he insisted we have a talk afterwards because it made him so uncomfortable. It was mildly flirty at the most extreme interpretation, and he frequently makes gay sex jokes or similar flirting with his guy friends all the time which just tells me he sees me more as an orbiter good for emotionally dumping on and seeking reassurance when convenient than a real friend. Hetero friendships fucking suck.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:08:01 PM No.81576277
>>81576252
Mind your space you creepy ass foid. We don't want uggo bitches hitting on us. Shit unnerves us.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:10:13 PM No.81576297
>>81576277
I'll mind my foot up your ass you stupid virgin
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:11:04 PM No.81576309
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>>81575894
Knew a girl like this, she was a slut so i didnt want her.
She would claim i had a crush on her or talk about how sexy she was and i was thinking, girl you're kinda average thoughbeit.....
Any i was blunt and direct to her about her not really being my type(because she was a slut but i framed it differently not to insult her) and she kept trying to get me to fuck her.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 7:58:29 PM No.81577181
i love mikan