>bf crying to me b/c he's gotten fat and thinks he's ugly now
>desu want him to lose weight but also don't want him to hate himself
wtf do i say lol

>>81576017 (OP)
Lovingly grab his fat stomach and fuck him silly.

>>81576017 (OP)
Assuming you also might need to lose some weight you can suggest making it a journey together.
It doesn't have to be going to the gym together but reminding each other not to over eat and not drink sodas, etc.
Have a cheat day once a month or something where you enjoy each other's company and have something fancy.

Losing weight is mostly about what and how much you eat and eating bad food is harder when you have to look your partner in the eyes when you do it, also don't go for some radical 1000 kcal deficiency.

>>81576017 (OP)
Go to the gym with him.
It might be fun and you see yourself improve.

>>81576017 (OP)
OFFER TO GO TO THE GYM WITH HIM YOU RETARDED PRICK

>>81577277
>>81576118
he moreso just needs to eat less

>Gay relationship
>Wahh he's getting fat
You have bigger problems that weight

>>81576017 (OP)
>"If you're bothered by your weight, let's try eating right together."
Then you can buy him a journal to log his daily calorie intake, then go to a garage sale or thrift store and try to convince him to buy a cheap exercise bike.

Whatever you do, don't frame it as "I think you're fat so you should lose weight" but instead as "if you're so bothered by your weight, let's do something to fix it."

>>81576017 (OP)
cuz he has no competition, flirt with men and make him jealous.

>>81576017 (OP)
I told my bf I loved his body no matter what and he keeps getting fatter and fatter. He just eats so fucking much I don't understand how.

>>81577859
plz don't tell me this is my gf i'm trying i swear c':

>>81576017 (OP)
Say that he's correct and fat people are ugly so stop getting fat.

>>81576017 (OP)
Tell him you'll drain him like Europeans died with h Africa's resources for every 10 pounds he loses.

>>81576017 (OP)
https://youtu.be/r-HYOzJmCXw?si=E53fn70BydR2tkqx

>Konata
>bf
at least post Kagami

>>81576017 (OP)
Tell him to kill himself, that dating a tranny like you is evidence enough that he's ugly.

>>81577866
>gf
Nope don't worry.

>>81576118
>>81577277
That's not how weight loss works, it's mostly diet, changing your eating habits is much harder than just hitting the gym a few times a week.
His fat gay bf would probably just eat more with the justification that he "burned" calories working out.

tell him if he's insecure then he should workout until he's comfortable. no amount of telling someone how pretty and handsome they are will ever remove that insecurity, but getting to the body they want does. my take, at least.

>>81576017 (OP)
Do you guys live together? If you do you guys could begin the morning with a cup of coffee with sugar free syrups if thats your thing with a light splash of milk to make it more bearable. Caffeine helps make you manage appetite.
You guys could also make healthy foods together. Not just chicken and rice though that IS a good option. You guys can enjoy making cheeseburgers and pasta dishes for example with a fun low-calorie alternative to the ingredients. If eating lots of food all the time is the root problem though and he already eats health you guys need to understand there can always be underlying issues here, whether its mental illness such as depression or a physical sickness. If you both have tried everything going to see a doctor is likely past due.

>>81576017 (OP)
have sex with him and tell him you will always find him beautiful even when you get old because you love him