i want to have friends, but its difficult to me to keep a conversation. i added a lot of people here on discord and completely forget to answer them, and now im too ashamed to reply weeks later.
same thing happens in real life, and this is why i never managed to have a long term friendship. whats wrong with me?

Reply to them already

>>81579366
this is what im complaining about, im ashamed :(

>>81579056 (OP)
if you missed socialization in early life you literally have to treat it as a job, read some books on how relationships supposed to work, deduce and write down social contracts and force yourself to talk to them whenever occasion arises and reply within 1 business hour

>>81579620
Brother, you can't teach a chicken how to fly. You're supposed to know those things naturally.

>>81579056 (OP)
i currently have a friend that is not replying to my texts. i don't think it's bad to reply a while later, especially if you're overwhelmed, but please don't ghost. that hurts even more than being ignored for weeks

>>81579773
chicken physically can't fly and all chicken are like that, doing social thing correctly is physically available to any human and most humans successfully do it
and humans don't in fact have it naturally, human who just crawled out of vag or even ones who just learned how to talk are very bad at it, but then they practice it for years and get decent at it by 20s, obv genetic lottery makes some better at it but genes aren't all that matters