why will women tell you you have a "victim complex" if you dare say something is unfair for you
my sister does this to me and it just makes me feel terrible, even when im not talking to her she'll shout it from across the house

Because your problems will not be solved by feeling sorry for yourself. You need to accept it as is and move on.

>>81579714 (OP)
>Why do women use shaming tactics?
Because it's all they have? Women who are able to self-reflect and self-actualise become extremely depressed and nihilistic.

>>81579735
becuse men arent allowed to feel that emotion, women do that all the time but god forbid a man cant shut up and just accept that "it is what it is"

>>81579769
I don't want to hear about women's problems either. Victim complexes are even worse on them.

>>81579966
i think people should talk about their problems
shutting up about them and pretending they don't exist doesnt work

>>81579985
Sure people can talk about it once or twice. But if you're bitching and moaning to the point of a victim complex, then you shut up.

>>81579769
You are generalizing like this to make yourself seem like a victim who has no control over their circumstances. This is why people say you have a victim complex

because said thing isn't happening to them, so instead of "systemic oppression" it's "self-pitying"

>>81579714 (OP)
>imagine having a bad relationship with your sister
pathetic

>>81580020
look, if i write a ton about some hyperspecific situation, no one is going to respond, that's just how it is on this board, especially about some not a big deal situation that doesn't exist to illustrate how [insert group] is [insert thing]
but i guess anons cant really read my mind either
>>81580038
i think she has bad morals, so i dont really try and foster a relationship with her, she basically just complains about men a lot and has some beliefs that are based on nothing that i find really childish, and i hate women who act like children

>>81579714 (OP)
She doesn't respect you and wants you to become a toxic masculine man. The misandrist patriarchy demands you are the tool for women, not the other way around. You are a means, not an end, to her.

She is punishing you for not being the very kind of man feminists would like to blame squarely men for becoming.

>>81580020
Or he still has some control but just is pissed off about stuff being stupid and unfair.

>>81580099
>too pathetic to guide his sister
lmao

>>81579714 (OP)
its an abuser tactic

your sister is dismissing your emotions as a way to dominate you

why indeed anon, a mystery to all of us

>>81580327
im not interested in another pet

>>81580376
meant to reply to >>81580310 sorry anon

>>81580327
i dont think so, she isnt really an abuser she is just confidently wrong sometimes and has a bit of an ego

>>81579714 (OP)
because it's extremely effective

>>81579714 (OP)
First time you've heard therapyspeak? This has been all the rage for about a decade now. It's pretty much the verbal trump card since it's shorthand for "fuck off, retard, for your own good!" that elevates the asshole saying it above you since it makes them sound more compassionate.

>>81582377
i always thought of it as general medicalspeak, like complaining about not having enough serotonin or something
i dont really like it, i think it absolves people of responsibility
in opanons case it does sort of put you in a bind where if you disagree you're just trying to play the victim, if you agree you must concede immediately, and if you say nothing and just leave it's because you're defensive about being "called out" thus confirming the statement
it doesn't really seem fair because it shuts down the conversation/argument immediately regardless of it's truthfulness

>>81580099
That's a weak excuse, what you are doing is victim complex, coming here and posting about your tantrums unprompted in a vague way clearly expecting some head pats or whatever. You need to do better it's that simple. The tantrums never work.

>>81582805
are you just going to assume i had a "tantrum" because i talked about showing emotion? it's retarded to assume im in the wrong or in the right, i think you haven't really read many of my responses and are being quite the faggot and normalfag

>>81582877
If you want to actually fix it instead of throwing yet more useless tantrums go ask your sister what she meant. Maybe that way it gets into your head.

>>81579714 (OP)
From My experience they are either using buzzword they Heard from TikTok or they can't understand your prospective or what you are going through they look at you from the outside and think he can easily fix this if he does this and that but he is doing the opposite so he must be enjoying being a victim or some shit

>>81582877
>why will women tell you you have a victim complex if you dare say something is unfair for you
Because they, like every single other human being on the planet, are the fucking worst.