How do you actually connect with people? Is it possible? I can talk to people, but there is always a wall between us that doesnt seem to exist with other people. I can never relate to someone else and I can never feel as I truly know a person. There is something mentally that I lack that other people have.

>>81580427 (OP)
try to find people of equal autism. im not joking.

>>81580427 (OP)
I dont know

I have this thing called avoident attachment disorder

I have never been able to connect deeply with anyone

I can follow the logical steps to relating to someone. Common interests, empathy, etc etc

but I can never feel "connected" to them

>>81580427 (OP)
l2socialize
Seriously, this shit will fuck your career up the longer you neglect it. The days of escaping to muh brogramming, muh engineering are over since most work nowadays are done in teams which prize communication skills and sociability, especially with the over-socialized marketing department that is higher on the hierarchy than your technical staff. If you don't, AT BEST you're going to be stuck at menial technician tier for the rest of your life, assuming you don't get mobbed out of the office first.

>>81580427 (OP)
its about being actually really fully honest i think instead of putting layers of gay politeness that this FUCKING society wants u to put.
like you just look like this gray faceless blob if all u do is normal talk how ur supposed to.
just my thoughts but im also lonely fuck so maybe im wrong dumb

>>81580451
I dont even know if I can find someone that I can relate to, but I hope. I knew a person that actually had asperger but I dont think we were similar at all. I need a copy of myself
>>81580466
>I have this thing called avoident attachment disorder
What is that?
>I can follow the logical steps to relating to someone. Common interests, empathy, etc etc
>but I can never feel "connected" to them
Same
>>81580513
I wish I could spend my entire life working in isolation honestly.
>>81580517
I have probably just made too many enemies by talking too much. Its often better not to say anything at all.

>>81580557
>I wish I could spend my entire life working in isolation honestly.
What you want is completely irrelevant. You work with the world you have, not the one you wish you had. Git gud or git rekt, SIMPLE AS!

>>81580557
>have probably just made too many enemies by talking too much
what enemies
how did you recognize them as such?
i think that u think that people care way more than they care