It feels like women don't even like men.

>>81581779 (OP)
Yeah women are all into AI monster guys now

they dont but get pushed into engaging with us due to biology

>>81581779 (OP)
just be chad bro!
t. chad who has 3 concubines at any given time

>>81581779 (OP)
i like men but they don't like me back

>>81581779 (OP)
It's all about the mentality.
If you keep that mentality, it will inherintly block you from having good experiences.
You need to keep an open mind if you really want women to like you.

>>81581801
i don't like you yet but i might like you

>>81581779 (OP)
I do like some men, but only those with sweet hearts and kind natures.

>>81581805
*inherently

>>81581828
what are the chances you find someone like that on r9k?

>>81581801
theres probably a good reason for that because our standards are generally quite low

>>81581839
Around a 1% chance I believe. That is why I don't search for a bf on /r9k/ the men here are bitter and talk about women as a collective, often in very demeaning ways. I still believe some of the sweet hearts exist here though.

>>81581864
you dont look for a bf here cuz your standards are too high, classic

>>81581864
1% sounds really low. i have met cool friends on r9k, but for some reason i can never make friends with girls, maybe i'm just too plain and boring

>>81581875
Yeah you are definitely not someone with a sweet heart that would fit my standard.I would be happier alone than with someone like that, as would many mentally stable women.

>>81581828
I think I am a person with a kind nature, but finding a kind girl in a place like this is very unlikely too. :(

>>81581876
It's hard for me to speak to new people too, I think what matters is how your energies connect. Occasionally some people really admire and appreciate me, putting me on a pedestal it feels like and others find me too boring and wish to leave me out of things. You are probably a lovely person to spend time with and just need to find people that connect with you.

>>81581863
yea i'm offputting and weird but not in an interesting way

>>81581779 (OP)
why are anime scientists always portrayed with crazy hairstyles?

>>81581910
i don't think i mind when people are conventionally boring, but i really love when a person is kind and considerate! why do you think other people find you boring?
thank you for calling me lovely :)

>>81581801
>i like men but they don't like me back
Its okay femanon you can learn to be happy alone.

>>81581961
i'm content enough but i'll always wish i was born a guy so i could have grown up with guy friends instead of no friends at all

>>81581779 (OP)
They dont like YOU, overcome it, btw Chad only

>>81582007
not that anon, but what are the things that make you off putting and weird?

>>81581956
>why do you think other people find you boring?
I'm soft spoken and don't speak much in group settings. I've noticed people gravitate to talking to other people in a group vs me which is usually ok since I am happy to listen and just like knowing I am part of something, but sometimes it can feel isolating at times. I am definitely better in one on one settings and people that are sweet who can bring the playful and best sides out of me are so rare but wonderful. I'd love to meet more people like that.

>thank you for calling me lovely
No thanks needed, I can tell that you are just from your kind response to me.

>>81582007
>guy friends instead of no friends at all
Femanon as a guy on r9k i got some bad news for you

>>81581946
Because of electricity making scientist's hair go poof and future depictions being like that.

>>81582040
Also the 'mad scientist' trope that has been used for years...I.e EINSTEIN or 'doc' from back to the future.

>>81582027
>I'm soft spoken and don't speak much in group settings
ah, you might be onto something. people usually prefer hanging out in groups, and people usually get closer to that "funny friend" or the other extroverted people in there.
i'm like that i think, i prefer having one to one conversations too! group settings can be a bit exhausting, as if i had to perform.
and, you sound lovely too!

>>81581940
it must be something else because that would only bother the most normie men

>>81582021
i think my body language is weird and makes people stay away from me
you know that video of greta thunberg in an airplane acting all dissonant and staring off into space? i'm like that all the time
i'm fidgety, uncomfortable, i can't make eye contact, i look at my feet when i walk, i stare at the ceiling and out windows, i don't smile, and when i try to fix it i just become extremely self-conscious and anxious like "am i sitting in a weird way? are people staring at me? where do i put my arms?"
also i dress poorly, like a frumpy librarian
i probably just look mentally ill
and then when i do get the odd opportunity to interact with someone i'm awkward anyway and can't carry a conversation
>>81582029
most anons are filthy friendhavers

they like chads. Back when I used to hang out with my gigachad friend I saw countless women act like horny men towards him. Sometimes they would even hit on me or bully me to get his attention

>>81581779 (OP)
most men dont like women either so whats your point

>>81582114
We hate you so much we let you have rights.

>>81582076
Sounds like we're kindred spirits anon. I hate putting on a 'performance' and don't really do that anymore. I notice a lot of people like playing games with each other but it's off putting for me, I just want to live a cozy life with people that care about each other and we can do mundane stuff like gardening, going to museums/art galleries or travelling together. At least I can dream :)

>>81582130
im a man dumbass. but i can still see that everyone on this board only wants validation or sex from women, and dont actually give a fuck about who they are as people.

>>81582130
You hate us so much you make out like it is a task to give us basic human rights and that we should be thankful to you for it despite you being the dictators that fucked us in the first place
Nobody is going to thank you for treating other human beings like human beings, retard

>>81582162
>but i can still see that everyone on this board only wants validation or sex from women, and dont actually give a fuck about who they are as people.
Ever seen a woman interact with a 4/10 5'5 dude? Its not different just most women dont find most men attractive so you dont see them thirsty

>>81582158
>I notice a lot of people like playing games with each other but it's off putting for me
are you against playing chill games? sometimes i find chill games enjoyable, games where people are not really talking too much but doing fun things together. small groups can be okay too
>I just want to live a cozy life with people that care about each other and we can do mundane stuff like gardening, going to museums/art galleries or travelling together.
i would love so much to spend my days with a person like that, very far away from drama and maybe just enjoying each other's company in a quiet, wholesome fashion. why do these things sound so unattainable? it makes me sad :(

>>81582203
Oh I like game games I promise. Some are wonderful additions to my life!

I mean games in the sense of people playing strange mind games with each other, the whole 'won't text you for an entire day so you miss me' stuff. It feels like a strange lack of authenticity and vulnerability which I really don't appreciate in people.

>why do these things sound so unattainable?
I know right?! I wish life was like it was in stories where we could just enjoy the simple things together.

>>81582259
>Oh I like game games I promise.
haha this sounds silly, i thought you meant like playing video games... what kind of games do you like?
but yeah, it's funny you mention that example. for some reason, i feel like people love playing that "miss me" game with me. but i think i'm done with that, i've given people my undivided attention and it's still not enough... if you want to talk to me, please do! like there's no games needed, i'm very happy whenever someone messages me first
>I know right?!
yeah... i don't want it to be some sort of distant reality i can only watch in anime

>>81581779 (OP)
Nobody likes men, they are shit.
Not even men that passionately want to defend them like them.

>>81581946
It's supposed to make it look like they spend too much time working to comb their hair.

>>81582184
you're either black or underage

>>81582259
i should have asked for your contact. you are nice and i would have liked to talk to you more. now the odds i see you again are close to zero. i'm so dumb

>>81581779 (OP)
women have never liked guys, they like how a very select few guys make them feel

women like men they just dont like you

>>81582089
Would you actually want some guy to approach you irl or are you happy with the effect?
I think most of us wouldn't mind a gf like you in the slightest but I'd be afraid to make you more miserable by starting a conversation.

>>81581779 (OP)
I wish I liked them, but they are so unlikeable as people that it's hard to. Especially Gen Z guys

>>81583619
i would be happy if anybody talked to me or just acknowledged my existence, i go to college so i'm surrounded by people all the time but it genuinely feels like i'm invisible to them (other than getting weird looks at times)

>>81583708
I guess you just drew the short straw and have to make the first move? Could be as simple as just repeated eye contact, even if you can't hold it. Most of us are thick but you might get lucky. Also please be in London, etc.

>>81581779 (OP)
some do, others experience mostly meta-attraction and settle for utility

No, not most. But I do. I fucking hate you scrotes.

>>81583766
i don't want to bother people
and no i'm american unfortunately

>>81581779 (OP)
They like the 5-10%~ of men

>>81581795
No, they will never even love Chad for who he is. The moment he does anything not perceived as masculine or Chad causes her pussy to dry up. He can't ever "turn it off".

>>81582162
>and dont actually give a fuck about who they are as people
you say this but then we're branded as beta or simp when we don't treat them like cumdumpsters

>>81581894
Very catty response. You're just looking for a doormat you can abuse.

>>81583888
Someone has to.

>>81581779 (OP)
women don't like men and men don't like women
this is our finale

>>81581779 (OP)
>It feels like women don't even like men.
They certainly despise non-Chads. This has become very obvious in this past decade.
Plus, they even hate how their bodies make them lust after Chads who pump and dump them.

>>81581805
So youre saying gaslight yourself into thinking that joining the cock carousel is a perfectly acceptable way to exist as a man as long as you, again, gaslight yourself into believing she doesnt think shes settling and you being entirely disposable while she gets to be your world is a healthy foundation to build a relationship with?