Is it possible to find a woman who genuinely believes in the commitment of marriage? I mean one who will really uphold those vows. I might could even deal with a former whore if that was the case but divorce rape is so common it is unreal.

>>81584185 (OP)
Marriage has always been a business transaction and if you're approaching it from some odd religious angle or from Disney-esque fairytail ideals then it'll be doomed. But to answer your question: yes there are women who will be your complete ride or die partner in crime if they love you enough. You have to ask yourself what sort of value you add to a woman's life though. Women need men less than ever before in history so if you aren't bringing anything to the table then you're fucked.

>>81584185 (OP)

Unlikely because monogamy disadvantages women by precluding Chad. Women actually benefit from polygamy because it allows them access to high-status men who would otherwise be completely off the market via marriage unless the woman could seduce and force him to cheat.

>>81584185 (OP)
Only if you provide her with security, respect her boundaries and listen/communicate with her effectively if there is an issue. If you cannot do that, you don't deserve a woman to commit. You must realize women have a lot of men who are willing to romance and sleep with them so you must provide a solid foundation for a comfy life and family if you want her to give up her freedoms, especially if you also expect her to maintain the household/raise children and/or continue to work.

>>81584211
This is the thing that always holds me back. There was a time when I was making decent money, and I thought, wow maybe I could get a gf now, but then I realized I literally only though that because I had dollars next to my name, and if that were ever not the case then I would be nothing to any potential woman again. That made me resentful, looking at the whole world around me for the transactional thing it was, and deciding that love was really all just a cope. It sucks to be alone but it is better than the fake alternative.

>>81584228
Her boundaries consist of taking chads cock daily by the way. Please dont push those boundaries, chud.

>>81584230
Consider acceptance of your environment when flailing against does not yield results. Many a man has been driven mad trying to swim upstream.

>>81584185 (OP)
Ride-or-die women are near impossible to find now, anon.
Even then, one probably wouldn't be Chad enough for her. Feels bad, man.

>>81584185 (OP)
I love marriage because that means he'll have to go through a shit ton of paperwork to ever leave me.