Anonymous
6/24/2025, 1:00:23 AM No.81591328
Am I in the wrong for wanting my husband to get circumcised?
We both agreed not to have sex before marriage for moral reasons and I did not know he was uncut. At the honeymoon I obviously found out and just couldn't. He tried to convince me it wasn't that bad but I was so turned off. Eventually he blew up on me and said I needed to deal with his body but being exactly what I wanted because my body wasn't exactly what he wanted either. I've always been a bigger girl and hearing him say that made me feel horrible.
But the more I thought about it, the more I realized he has a point. I was always okay with my body but I am primarily concerned with my body being attractive to my husband and this is something I could change, so I did!
My brother started taking me to the gym with him and between his coaching and careful dieting, I lost a ton of weight! I never thought I would be truly thin. I changed my body for my husband but he still won't change his for me.
I've been getting a lot of attention from men now that I'm thinner but I want to be with my husband obviously but at this point I'm thinking I'm a virgin and objectively hotter than I was before I got married and I'm wondering if I'm wasting my time and should cut my loses and come to terms with the fact that maybe I married the wrong man and try to find somebody else who I am more sexually compatible with. I really don't think I'm being unreasonable.
We both agreed not to have sex before marriage for moral reasons and I did not know he was uncut. At the honeymoon I obviously found out and just couldn't. He tried to convince me it wasn't that bad but I was so turned off. Eventually he blew up on me and said I needed to deal with his body but being exactly what I wanted because my body wasn't exactly what he wanted either. I've always been a bigger girl and hearing him say that made me feel horrible.
But the more I thought about it, the more I realized he has a point. I was always okay with my body but I am primarily concerned with my body being attractive to my husband and this is something I could change, so I did!
My brother started taking me to the gym with him and between his coaching and careful dieting, I lost a ton of weight! I never thought I would be truly thin. I changed my body for my husband but he still won't change his for me.
I've been getting a lot of attention from men now that I'm thinner but I want to be with my husband obviously but at this point I'm thinking I'm a virgin and objectively hotter than I was before I got married and I'm wondering if I'm wasting my time and should cut my loses and come to terms with the fact that maybe I married the wrong man and try to find somebody else who I am more sexually compatible with. I really don't think I'm being unreasonable.
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