I'm really at a loss here, met a cool girl here on r9k, we talked and vibed for literally hours on end, she even sent me a timestamp, told me i was great and very well estabilished for a 19 year old, called me a literal angel before praising me to high heaven, implied she wanted to make things work and then ghosted me day 3? like, what? why put in so much effort if you're gonna do that?

>>81593158 (OP)
im a guy but i do the same thing, its called lovebombing, it is an easy way to manipulate someone into getting infatuated with you. i do it before i even know if i actually like the person just because it makes everything easier. i obviously dont know if she did it for the same reasons i do however.

>>81593197
Bruh, respectfully you both suck, and to think people told me that growing up honesty and kindness were the norm

>>81593158 (OP)
I've met too many women on here that are like that. Out of curiosity how would you describe this girl physically?

>>81593208
it has always been a dog eat dog world, you have to be in control or else you will be losing

>>81593220
Don't really want to get in specifics since she literally browses here but she was cute to me, not white if that's what you're asking but i didn't care since i'm into highly specific things and she met all that, probably not the type of the average r9ker if i'm being honest but i liked her and the talks

>>81593224
I know it's the smart thing to do and all but eh, i'd be betraying my ideals for possible pussy or smt like that, the world being shitty doesn't mean i need to be shitty, just means i need to better myself enough to be above it

>>81593158 (OP)
I wouldn't keep going after r9k girls, i've actively started filtering all their threads or threads they appear in. I'm gonna travel to somewhere where pussy aint on a pedastal and live out my days or at least some of them there

>>81593268
THAT'S THE THING, SHE APPROACHED ME, i thought it was a fucking scam or something, i was just replying to threads like usual

>>81593273
Oh, yeah never happened to me but idk.
I tried a couple r9k gals and got ignored for the most part.
I probably won't try again thats why i filter/ignore their threads completely so i dont fall for such a trap.
Even fembots know their pussy is on a pedestal here even subconciouslly you can almost hear it in that snarky way they type their replies quite frankly it makes me want to vomit now.
You're 19? From the sound of it you have money too
for the next 4 years prep your money and save and stuff move to another country even if its for vacation or something and get with different girls there.
You'll regret going down the lovey dovey route man.
I'm 24 so i realized this late but not too late i'll lose my virginity to thai girls and pump and dump them when they get too wifey.
Women are energy vampires and it makes me sad i want to romance.
oh well clown world

>>81593158 (OP)
Where the fuck y'all meeting these r9k girls at?

>>81593158 (OP)
DEVALUATION PROCESS
NATURAL DEHUMANIZATION OF MALES

Women see you as a cockroach, they can literally just flick you away like a booger without any remorse whatsoever.

>>81593772
incredibly i'm not into money, i'm not some 6ft tall chad called Maximus Thane, i'm a mildly autistic dude doing his best to set everything up for a decent future, like fuck i don't even approach women, BUT THEY ALWAYS APPROACH ME TO LEAD ME ON OR GHOST ME, it's honestly expected by now, not sure why i fucking hoped, i guess i thought since it was a autistic sperg like it'd be different this time

>>81593786
Do you want to get ghosted too? got approached on a fetish thread believe it or not, use the info as you will i guess
>>81593798
Feels like it, but i don't wanna get bitter just yet, just got out of a very hateful place mentally

>>81593831
Hate is not the opposite of love, push yourself to indifference, become numb.

>>81593158 (OP)
Imagine how a male sociopath works

>>81593863
Already did that, i'm not hurt, just very fucking confused. if i punched a rhino in the face i wouldn't hurt it, but he'd for sure question what the fuck happened. it's my best analogy to what i'm experiencing right now.

>>81593158 (OP)
post her timestamp to make her seethe

>>81593158 (OP)
anyways anon you have been hit with the classic it happens to most people girl seems interested in you lovebomb you then leave dont take it too personal the girls here are a bit cuckoo

>>81593822
you're alright man, just be indifferent it took me a while to realize women are just automatons essentially.
You'll have more fun with them if you think of them that way.
The problem with women is they are overvalued and they know this. Just let it go and find a place where pussy isn't overinflated.
Or fuck fat bitches on whooplus, i can't do it personally

>>81594181
Thanks for the advice, i mean i just wanted someone to settle down and have a family with but honestly with the way things are going it might as well be a childhood dream.

>>81593158 (OP)
>how do women work?
This younger generation doesn't read enough. Familiarize yourself with Arthur Schopenhauer.

>>81594254
Unironically might, thanks anon, this oddly matches with my limited lived experience

>>81594280
he also has a problem with stairs, just fyi...

>>81593786
>y'all

unless you're from below the mason-dixie line, stop saying this, you sound like a fucking faggot. and where the fuck do you think? here and in adjacent discords and other imageboards. what you don't seem to understand is that you don't actually want to meet any of these retarded fucking whores, and on the offchance that you're present for some attention whore in an /r9k/ thread soliciting discord invitations you're going to have to quickly ascertain that it's not some troon trying to hoodwink you (very common).

basically, don't bother, nothing good has ever come of trying to pick up chicks on this website especially from a community like this

>>81594351
>unless you're from below the mason-dixie line, stop saying this, you sound like a fucking faggot
Nice reddit spacing by the way

>>81593158 (OP)
Yeah you zoomers are fucked