Some men have a madonna-whore complex where they can't simultaneously love and be sexually attracted to a woman. I propose that something similar exists for women. The women afflicted cannot feel sexually attracted to men who love them, the niceguys. They can only feel sexually attracted to those men who don't love them, who are aggressive and domineering, the abusechads. I would say that this exists even more in women than the madonna-whore complex exists in men but nobody seems to research it except for some incels online like me.

ive never heard it being put that way. you advanced incel research by 100 years

>>81597537 (OP)
Why do women love to be abused so much? At least Madonna-whore makes sense because you wanna have sex but don't want someone who's fucked the whole neighborhood.
God I hate women so much it's retarded.

>>81597537 (OP)
Yeah, that's correct, and read some Jung if you're interested in this in detail. It's all 1st stage of anima/animus integration - i.e. zero psychological consideration on the matter.

>>81597537 (OP)
Men are sexually attracted to the Madonna all the time though.

>>81597659
>psychobabble
nah not reading that

>>81597839
Then don't write psychobabble in the first place.

>>81597537 (OP)
I wrote something like this on a libre office document a couple months back.

>>81597537 (OP)
Men are shit, they don't know what love is. They don't know a lot of things actually, yet they blab and parrot absolute shit treating it as gospel instead of refuting it by going outside

Or your definition of a nice guy is not a nice guy and the main difference is that one hides their intentions and the other doesnt.

>>81599480
you can be a nice guy who wants to fuck retard. not all men who want to have sex with women want to abuse them, they just want to fuck them. its not the same thing.

>>81600229
Oh but it doesnt have to be that extreme. You can be a niceguy whos tryna fuck but thats only if its your personality. The point is just that its obvious when someone has alterior motives.

I saw improvement when i addressed that and was genuine.

Its really not that hard but you either gonna grow a pair of balls and own up to change it or stay single trying to find something to blame. You are not a nice guy if you do expecting something in return. Push pull works really well too.

>>81597537 (OP)
I should find the links but I read a r.ddit story where the woman had degrading sex with strangers then married a nice guy and he finds out blahblahblah long story short in this one, she had the degrading sex with the nice guy to try keeping him and she explains the complex KEK it must have been imaginably painful to be mentally ill and see this man you've built up as so "nice" you literally cannot cope with him being the same man having degrading sex with her LMAO naturally her marriage ended so she lost the nice guy anyway .