maybe it's not the autism that's holding you back but your fear of being vulnerable and telling a girl you like her.

maybe she would look past all the awkwardness and your kindness and affectionate nature would come out naturally around her.

maybe you've just been telling yourself a woman can't love you this whole time and it wasn't true all along but you've been letting fear stop you.

what if it really is your fault that you're single?

>>81602786 (OP)
>have told more than one woman I have feelings for them
>rejected
Now what?

>>81602786 (OP)
A lot of that is true. It is my fault. But tism didn't help.

>>81602786 (OP)
My issue isn't autism it's that I have nothing to offer, I can't drive her places or always plan nice dates out and stuff. Every relationship is transactional these days.

>>81602786 (OP)
why do you think men have to approach women first?
you cant expect to be treated equally when the guy has to do all work lmao.
im not chasing women like a dog, if she doesnt approach first shes not worth your time, period.

>>81602794
what did you say? i've never told a girl i liked her romantically except for one over the internet.
>>81602865
i have a car and enough spare change to take her out to a restaurant but that gets me nothing.

>>81602786 (OP)
Of course it is my fault, if you believe in free will, though I believe in it less than most people. You don't get to choose what comes naturally to you.

>>81602951
free will covers very little if you aren't born with the ability to connect with others.

>>81603054
That's an ability you develop, nobody is born with it.

buddy life isn't an anime where you confess to your crush then she instantly realizes you've always been the one.
If she likes you she'll give you signals and you can work from there without having to make yourself fully vulnerable and if she doesn't like you she will hate you for making her feel bad about rejecting you

>>81604059
Yeah but not through conscious effort

>>81604654
Yes, through conscious effort. Every single person on the planet can tell you about awkward social moments they had.

nah women hate niggas with autism

>>81602786 (OP)
No, I don't think so. I'm unloveable.

>>81604703
Well, agree to disagree I guess

>>81602786 (OP)
>maybe she would look past all the awkwardness and your kindness and affectionate nature would come out naturally around her.
lol
lmao