If they aren't just crying about incels or red pill or whatever is the big problem on TikTok rn they will say just say something retarded and act smug like they made a real good point or something.
>well virginity doesn't matter ackshually
It does to me.
>well virgin women are the ones that want a committed husband and they won't have sex until marriage and probably want kids too
Is that supposed to scare me off somehow?
>well virgin women are all gonna be weirdos
Good.
>requiring virginity is not socially accepted nowadays/weird/childish etc.
Don't care.
>muh religion is evil
I'm not religious.
>wanting virgins will scare women away from you
So? If they don't like me then I don't want them
>you'll die alone
Not really, without a romantic partner but not alone, at least my life won't be centered around being a slave for a woman who fucked 1000 guys and settled for me as the safe option like most.
>muh r/deadbedrooms
Yeah sure, I'll just go ahead and believe that all these trad couples that were saving it for marriage are all in miserable sexless marriages and posting about it on fucking reddit of all places, surely it's not just troonfiction.
>sexual compatibility
If both people are willing to put effort in to please each other and talk to each other 99% of those problems can be ironed out, it's unlikely that two virgins who waited for marriage would have such vastly differing sexual preferences that it can't be smoothed over, it's possible for sure, but you know what's also possible and much more likely? Your non-virgin partner cheating on you, gets more likely with every body too. We all have to suck it up and take risks in some aspects of life, I think my chances are better then yours in this regard though.

Just some common arguments, but beyond this there's a massive difference between people who are like me and normies that can't be bridged by communication. Whenever I think of marrying my one and only, the one I saved myself for and the one who saved herself for me I get such a profound feeling of happiness, it really can't be compared to anything else, I think normies just never have that feeling so they don't understand the preference.

normies get mad because they know they aren't virgins, and you're rejecting them outright. It's pretty simple. It's like how short guys get mad when they see girls want 6'0+ guys, or the browns get mad when you say you want to date white only.

>>81603854 (OP)
i just dont understand wanting this. you must be limiting your dating pool by 99% for something so arbitrary and meaningless.
also anon are you really a virgin by choice?

>>81603933
>also anon are you really a virgin by choice?
Considering I live in a country with cheap and legal prostitution? Yes.
>for something so arbitrary and meaningless
Arbitrary and meaningless based on what? What standard are you using to judge dating standards exactly? Cause I'm not aware that there is apparently an objective standard out there, I've just been using my own standards and preferences, silly me right?
>you must be limiting your dating pool by 99%
And? I only need to find a single person to stay with forever, I also shrink my dating pool by not being gay is that a problem?

>>81603895
Why would they be mad if they don't want to date me anyways?

>>81603854 (OP)
because your just signalling that your a pedo and because it really doesn't make any difference so you just look like an idiot

>>81604185
just an ego thing. if you asked them to date you and they reject you, they wouldn't feel bad, but they're getting rejected proactively, like they aren't good enough for you. it flips the script in their mind and makes them inadequate instead of you.

>>81603895
>short guys get mad when they see girls want 6'0+ guys
I don't care about that. People have preferences, not need to be dehumanizing about it

>>81604215
>because your just signalling that your a pedo
What? So you just assume all adult women are promiscuous? Typical incel misogynist.
>it really doesn't make any difference
I disagree
>you just look like an idiot
To who? If that makes me and idiot in their eyes, chances are their opinions are worthless in the first place.
>>81604232
Yeah I'm fine with whatever preferences others have, I wouldn't want to force someone to date me if I didn't fit theirs, so you know, live and let live type deal.

Because they know this is you. You don't deserve a virgin.

>>81604739
Relationships are not about deserving things, even if you white knighted all day and did everything someone wanted from you it doesn't mean you deserve a relationship with them, dating is about people freely deciding whho they want to be with, please change your toxic mindset.

>>81603854 (OP)
nah they just look at you weird, lol. none of that shit happens irl

based op, ignore all these fags trying to talk you into fucking the first woman to give you the time of day. if you wanna get with a virgin, do just that. just as I have a preference for weirdo tall women, you can want a virgin.
and if you think otherwise then that's just, like, your opinion, man

>>81604739
Ok but why does that make them angry? Why not indifferent dismissal?

>>81603854 (OP)
They can read between the lines and correctly understand you're just a pedo

>>81606035
t. whore cannot fathom a girl being older than 15 and not sucking dicks

i don't think anyone cares, it's just like any other fetish

>>81605126
This. Fuck normie whores. Theyre braindead sex addicts.

>>81603854 (OP)
I used to want a virgin gf but the older I get and the more I realize I can't seem to connect with anyone I've stopped worrying about it. I'll be lucky if I end up with anyone at all.

>>81603854 (OP)
The true reasons is that normie women can't cope with it because it's something they can't change so they invent all sort of excuses as to why you should accept non virgins like them. They might not even want you but the idea that you are outright rejecting them gets them mad.
The "normie" men who are against it just bow down to what women say so they can get pussy. Keep in mind that most men even the ones who think it's weird to want a virgin don't care that much if other people want virgins only and will mostly tease you on being a bachelor for life since it's almost impossible to find one like that.

Don't ever let formoids (normie foids) shame you for wanting a virgin. Virgin pussy feels amazing.

>>81603854 (OP)
Because women are whores from about 13 and up. If you want a virgin you're a pedo

>>81607441
Kys foid slut

>>81603854 (OP)
>well virgin women are the ones that want a committed husband and they won't have sex until marriage and probably want kids too
This isn't even true. Most women lose their virginity during their teen years to the local highschool chad.

>>81608325
Can you not read or something? What are you blabbing about?

>>81604986
That is true, you might get a tiny bit of pushback but generally people irl don't care, this intense hatred for having standards is mostly an online thing.
>>81606035
Again, you're just assuming every adult woman is promiscuous, stop with your blatant misogyny.
>>81606274
It's not really a fetish thoughever.
>>81607349
Nah, this is a bad mindset to have, it's fine to not stress out about it, but thinking that you're lucky to get settled for is just sad, have some more self respect, being single is better then being with someone you cannot stand.
>>81607441
Misogyny, again.

>>81607441
You want a date a 19 year old? But she's 3 years younger than you? You only like her because she has an underdeveloped brain, i saw on tiktok the brain stops developing at 25. Yes, I think I should vote even though I'm 21. But you like a 19 year old, you're a disgusting pedo who likes the power imbalance
>oh...Chad can hookup with her. That's fine. It's fine for 19 year olds to have hundreds of hookups with guys of whstever age. It'w only wrong if she actually dates a guy 2 years older than her
>also. Let me encourage all 13 year old girls to losw their virginities and become whores. I am not a hypocrite in any way

>>81603854 (OP)
Everyone hates male virgins and wants them dead. I'd be lucky to get a literal prostitute as my gf

>>81609794
I'm a male virgin and I got a female virgin gf by being myself, she did break up with me but I wouldn't say she hates me. I also have a female friend irl who's pretty supportive, it's really a mostly online normie thing.

>>81609818
You forgot to mention you were 13 years old

What ridiculous cope. Nobody gets mad at a basement dwelling incel because he had a virgin fetish. In fact nobody gives a shit about what you think. People just make fun of you.

>>81603854 (OP)
op rn

>>81604739
You practically have to be an asocial weirdo to remain a female virgin in this society anyway, I don't see this as a bad match. Virgin females hate society just as much as schizoposters.

>>81604739
Everyone deserves a virgin.

It immediately signals how much of a loser you are. No one cares about body count anymore, OP.

>>81609871
Nope. Sluts don't deserve a virgin.
Even a deranged asocial neet virgin male is too good for a hard working smart slut.

>>81607441
>>81606035
>>81604215
least obvious projecting samefag

>>81609827
I was 23 and she was 24.
>>81609846
Nah, people online get incredibly mad about it. Nobody in real life has ever made fun of me for it actually.
>>81609988
I do and that's all that really matter tho.

>>81609856
Yeah like 99% of adult virgin women I've talked to were complete shut ins, either living at home with parents and never leaving or only going outside for school/work.
My ex gf was the latter.

>>81611050
Problem is. 99% of these complwte shutins/work-only girls. Are also complete whores.
So even if you somehow meet a girl that was like that. Odds are, she is a whore too.

>>81611212
Eh, I've met a few through online dating and the whores all put themselves super quickly, I had a girl start talking about how shit her home life and how she has no money clearly expecting me to ask how I can help, I just replied with something like "Damn, that sucks bro" and she stopped messaging me, but most of them have genuinely just been socially anxious shut ins who've never even held hands with a man much less fucked them, there was one girl who refused to shower because she didn't like her head being under water for example.

>>81611304
Oh. I agree that all the girls who go out and party and club are whores.

What I'm also saying is that most shut ins are also whores. Thanks to online dating, they get that opportunity. But even before that, if they went out once a month to buy bread. A guy would be there to ask them out; and eventually they'd say yes to one of the guys.
Girls can be complete shut ins who only go out to a motel to fuck Chad, on his dime. And you'd never fucking know about it if they don't tell you. Even if they live with their parents, they'd lie and say "oh i need to go to the doctor or the storw for a couple hours"

>>81611393
I just don't think that's true, the majority of women are not virgins, but it's not THAT bad, 20-24yo about 22% are virgins and that is a statistic from the US, which is way more promiscuous then most countries.

>>81610809
>nobody in real life has made fun of me for wanting a virgin girlfriend
Yeah...i guess I have shitty friends. IRL my cuck friends told me to be less misogynist, less judgmental, less of a prick. And I wan't spouting insane incel vitriol either. I just said that if my girlfriend wasn't a virgin it would make me feel uncomforrable.

They're a bunch of cucks, though. And my female friends who also got mega offended by it? A bunch of whores

>>81611418
My skepticism tends to think self reported virgin girls are lying and have suckd dick ar least.
I also believe most of them are mrobidly obese

>>81612788
That just sounds like pessimism to me.
>>81612149
Most of what I got was friendly joshing that I should just go get laid, a couple of my friends offered to call over some really easy women that would suck you off no questions and they've joked about getting me a prostitute, but nobody's tried to reprimand me or put me down for it or anything, my female friend questioned it but after I told her why I want this she was supportive, even helped me out by scouting out my ex and relaying to me that she was a virgin and kinda into me before we started dating.

>>81604185
People do that all the time. Why do you think women have orbiters even though they never will fuck them?

>>81609846
>Nobody gets mad
>*gets mad*

>>81603854 (OP)
Insecurity
Yes, they calling you insecure is the perfect mirror. If they truly were confident in their whoredom they wouldn't give a shit

>wants to marry a virgin
This is traditionally associated with tradfaggotry and the belief that women should be stay at home housewives. This is like saying "i hate jews" and then wondering why people are calling you a nazi.

>>81613757
And tradicional is bad because?
Retards like you are so easy to influence because you just rely on superficial name calling and shame
>If I call you a bad name you'll stop supporting x cause

>>81613799
>tradicional is bad because
because it is bad, unironically. imagine wanting to reverse progress

>>81603854 (OP)
Most people are retarded, egoistic and pathetic so they like to say shit to feel superior. If you say you want to get rich a thousand faggots will shit on you and laugh saying it's impossible
Just choose what you want and don't listen to them

>>81613757
This is just a stupid thing to say. The statement "I want to marry a virgin." means nothing more or less then what it means, by this logic saying "I like white people." or " I like black people." would make you a racial supremacist because racial supremacy organisations also tend to believe that.
Also, what's wrong with stay at home wives? Or a man wanting one?

>>81613829
You just proved what I said. I won't even bother explaining to you. A retard that thinks morality and history only progress to the better and can never take step back doesn't deserve my time

>>81613858
>by this logic saying "I like white people." or " I like black people." would make you a racial supremacist because racial supremacy organisations also tend to believe that
Saying "I like white people" out of nowhere is indeed a big red flag.
>Also, what's wrong with stay at home wives? Or a man wanting one?
"My wife should stay in the kitchen" sounds much weirder than, say, "I want to provide for my family". "I want a stay at home housewife" implies both these things but much more so the former than the latter. It also signals that you want to financially dominate your partner, restrict her autonomy and more not very desirable things.

>>81613970
It doesn't signal any of those things, you iu just have a negative bias against the concept so you immediately have to assume things to try and discredit it, despite the statement ultimately being completely innocuous and inoffensive.
Also this
>My wife should stay in the kitchen
and this
>I want a stay at home housewife
Are completely different and you know it.
>Saying "I like white people" out of nowhere is indeed a big red flag.
Saying almost anything lime that would be weird out of nowhere, if we were standing in silence and I said I like oranges out of nowhere that would also be weird, but it also wouldn't point to any political view I might or might not have.
Weird is also one of those cop out words, if someone really wants to find a reason to exclude or ridicule you but they can't find anything to criticise in your beliefs or character, they will just resort to calling you weird. It's a word that means nothing more then "I don't have any reason for it but I just don't like you."

>>81613856
That's true, people especially online really are just crabs in a bucket.

>>81613757
>you believe in A? You probably also believe in B, because I say so
>Let me call you stupid for believing in B
Oh but I hate stay at home tard wives.

Women who brag about that shit brag about being glorified NEETs. Imagine being so useless as a 19 year old that you say you are wife material because you have no actual marketable skills and want to leech off a rich guy.

Don't get me wrong. Being a cleaner/cooker/nanny is hard and respectable work. But if a man bragged about only being able to do that, and only wanted to do that. He'd be mocked and die alone. Not that these wannabe tradwives ever did a day of actual cleaning or cooking in their miserable fucking lives. Girls put themselves above other girls for that shit. And tons of guys will want to marry them too. They truly live life on easy mode.

The only trad that matters is virgin. If she's the other type of trad wife. She's a whore that claims to be better than other women because she's also a NEET.

>>81614321
>The only trad that matters
to an incel on 4chan? pffft

>>81615203
If she isn't a virgin then all her trad facade is meaningless. In fact it makes her look like a grifter and dishonest
Just pay a maid if you want those things done for you, it's cheaper than a wife anyway

>>81603854 (OP)
Crab in a bucket mentality basically

>>81604739
>You don't deserve a virgin.
>deserve a virgin.
>deserve
At least you acknowledge that a virgin is the better choice.