how does one undo years of blackpilling for another person? My boyfriend who I met on here is convinced hes a fat ugly loser who doesnt deserve me despite the fact that hes extremely cute and is just a bit chubby (which makes him more attractive but I digress) and we're lookmatched (hes better looking than me if anything). I give him compliments a bunch and I always tell him how hot he is whenever he sends photos of himself but it doesnt seem to work. He always talks bad about himself and it makes me unbelievably sad because hes so sweet and kind and I wish he could see himself the way I do

>>81606872 (OP)
He unironically needs to learn to love himself or else it's going to end up like this

>>81606944
god I hope not. Ive always thought having a boyfriend who was a but insecure about himself would be sorta cute (Im into pudgy nerds so it comes with the territory) cause then once I dated him I could show him that I really do love him and that hes perfect just the way he is, and he could do the same for me because Im pretty insecure about myself too. but it really just makes me sad, I hate how cruel this world is to chubbier guys. theyre the most attractive type of men ever and yet everyone makes fun of them and makes them hate themselves

>>81607032
has he tried losing weight

>and he could do the same for me because Im pretty insecure about myself too
You should be secure for yourself desu because I constructed my self-worth around a girl once who I thought would save me but I learned that real change has to come from within

this thread made me cry please stop larping you don't exist

>>81607108
he doesnt need to lose weight he is perfect just the way he is

Im trying to be less insecure for myself too, its just nice to hear a cute boy say he doesnt mind all the things that are wrong with me

>>81607154
not larping, girls who like fat guys exist get over it

>>81606944
classic woman going on a spiel about her BOYFRIENDS problems made HER feel
always have to make it about themselves don't they?

>>81607167
his problems make me feel sad because I can tell that his insecurities cause him to be unhappy with himself. I think thats a normal thing to feel

>>81606872 (OP)
The only, and I do mean ONLY, way to convince him you are really into him, is to cheat on him with chad, and then tell your guy you actually prefer him over even chads

>>81607157
Have you given him a hug

>>81607163
Ok, but where are the women who like bald men?

>>81607205
chad is ugly, men w abs are subhuman to me. I want my cute squishy bf who will let me feed him cookies while I rub his tummy. and cheating is for whores
>>81607206
wish I could but its online for now. the closest I get is hugging my blanket that has a weighted blanket wrapped inside of it and pretending its him

>>81606872 (OP)
What exactly makes you think you know better than him?

>>81607242
Okay because he probably needs oxytocin release from a hug

>>81607215
I like receding hairlines, does that count?
>>81607248
hes handsome he just cant see it, hes blinded by black pill propaganda

>>81607242
>chad is ugly, men w abs are subhuman to me. I want my cute squishy bf who will let me feed him cookies while I rub his tummy. and cheating is for whores
Why do you have to make everything about you? This isn't about you, its about giving him some peace of mind. You don't need to enjoy being with chad, rather the point is to show him that you don't like chad in the only way that is genuinely convincing. And thus convince him that you can actually like your bf

If you actually loved your bf, you'd cheat on him with chad in order to be able to show your love to your bf. If you refuse to do so, you love yourself so much more than you love your bf, and he will continue to hurt

>>81607374
stop trying to get me to cuck my bf weirdo. go back to /trash/

>>81607384
Stop pretending you love your bf if you won't really prove it, brainless foid

>>81607273
God I wish I had a receding hairline instead of a norwood 1 and this

>>81607500
doesnt look that bad to me

>>81606872 (OP)
If this real i like you femanon hope the things with him get better

>>81606872 (OP)
Feed him healthy so that he's not sad about being fat

>>81607167
No you retard the point is that the guy is such a doomer that he's ruining his own relationship with paranoia and self hate

>>81607551
thanks, its not like theyre that bad or anything talking with him is still a great time, im just worried
>>81607588
but hes so cute fat..

>>81607666
Cursed post. Feed him healthy so that he lives a long time. DO YOU WANT HIM TO DIE ?>????

>>81606872 (OP)
fuck be super flirty and initiate sex a lot
indulge his kinks and fantasies like cosplay or whatever

>>81606872 (OP)
send him to therapy he has bdd

>>81606872 (OP)
Why the fuck do you retards make up these obviously bullshit stories? FUCK OFF with this.

>>81606872 (OP)
NON IAM UNQUAM VIRGO INTACTA ERIS!

GLORIA STIRPI

>>81606872 (OP)
Kill yourself larper, kekekekekekek fucking gaylord.

>>81606944
Demoralization bait, I hate myself more than that fat faggot and my ex LEFT ME. If anything he's the one who needs to be careful of OP as women always lie about being able to handle a man's issues.

Brutal, I will never have a gf that tries to get me to be confident.

>>81607374
it's about making him accept his flaws retard not showing that she cares about him. keep your ntr fetish to yourself

>>81606872 (OP)
But how tall is he?
>>81606944
Notice how she doesn't list height as something he complains about

>>81606872 (OP)
This is really sweet, you're a good girlfriend. It's hard to stop self loathing. I understand him because I feel the same way about myself. Just keep being there for him and comfort him, it helps a lot.

>>81606872 (OP)
Well, either you both start working on yourselves and actually making a person out of yourselves whom other people admire, or you'll just live with being mediocre (if you can).

>>81606872 (OP)
>UMMMMM HEY GUIIIIISE FEMANON HERE TEEHEE I LOVE MY FAT UGLY BOYFRIEND WITH A RECEDING HAIRLINE TEEHEE
YOU FAGS REALLY WILL JUST POST ANY BULLSHIT LARP FOR THE REPLIES NOW AND PEOPLE WILL STILL RUN WITH THE BAIT HUH

>>81606944
This is how I am. I am talking with such a pretty girl and I don't even know what she sees in me. She could have anyone and I am a nobody just some ugly awkard virgin.

>>81606872 (OP)
ARGH FUCK YOU I DON'T WANT TO READ THIS SHIT
every bitch I meet is either a slut who just wants to get off w me or a slut that ends up monkeybranching. Fuck you.
You whores will never settle for men that aren't truly liked, you'd rather settle for fat normies before you settle for someone a bit out of the ordinary

>>81606872 (OP)
Have you tried sending a titty pic ? That always seems to help

>>81606872 (OP)
>how does one undo years of blackpilling for another person
You don't.

>>81610296
This
I saw a post yesterday that said "You may leave inceldom but the inceldom will never leave you", and this may just be how it is for many people

>>81606872 (OP)
>how does one undo blackpilling

Idk suck his dick or something

>>81606872 (OP)
>some girls find fat guys attractive
>which means I'm ugly as fuck
I choose to believe this is an autistic work of fiction.

>>81608029
>>81608189
>>81610236
its not larp its a real thing, you guys need to accept that women can love their boyfriends even if they arent billionaire 7 foot tall muscular chads. also he doesnt have a receding hairline now im just saying I wouldnt mind it if he did

>>81610727
It a larp women hate men who are not perfect. Only men can love a woman for herself.

>>81610755
you will be alone forever with this mindset

>>81610782
Not my fault that women are like this. I only ask for love and time from a girl nothing more, she doesn't have to have a job or anything. No women thinks that way about men.

>>81610913
well I do. my boyfriend is the most perfect guy to ever exist and I love him

You can't fix everyone, some people are just miserable and they make for miserable company. If they have loved ones that believe in them then they are the problem.

>>81611007
Listen, take this into consideration >>81610255
And please leave this place. You are torturing me.

>>81606872 (OP)
Take him outside and shower him with the hose