Had to find this out the hard way, but if she is a virgin and not completely deformed, maybe even pretty, then she is a virgin by choice, not because she just didnt get the opportunity yet. She is most likely very hard to crack, even if in a relationship.

Allow me to explain:
>be me, dating a virgin girl I have known for about 2 years before we started dating (having known each other platonically without intention of dating for at least a year is a requirement for her to even date apperantly)
>After roughly 10 months of dating the farthest we went was making out fully clothed
>Let me touch her tits sometimes only after about 4 months of dating
>Only recently (about a year of dating) started with handys and bjs which, though very clumsy, admittedly are pretty damn good
>Didnt let me see her naked up until a year into the relationship

Dont get me wrong, I am not complaining. I really like this girl. However, dating a virgin is not as great as people on this board pretend it is. It takes a shit ton of time and patience and if your goal is to get laid, good luck, because chances are you will be waiting for ages. Its only really worth it if you like that girl a lot. Otherwise its a complete waste of time, and you will always be worried about making her uncomfortable/moving too fast for her.

>>81610948 (OP)
sounds great i would love that

>>81610948 (OP)
You are complaining about my dream kek

I'm almost 4 years in anon, we're long distance must of the time though, I've seen her pussy just earlier this year

Just fuck my shit up

>>81610948 (OP)
It's virtually always because of major psychological hangups related to sex. And if you help her work through them, she'll just leave you for someone she puts out for immediately. There's no point to looking for a virgin while no-fault divorce exists.

>>81611561
4 years is rough, anon. But I guess if the girl is really worth it its worth waiting it out. But I will say its been a year for me and I am starting to feel sort of demotivated.
>>81611605
I like to think this is not true, because as a virgin myself I would really like to have my first time with a girl who is a virgin as well. I dont want to feel judged or be compared by some chick who already had a ton of experiences, so going virgin is really my only option.

>>81611561
Long distance relationship, seen her pussy 1 month in, she found another guy 2 years in, 4 years in she got engaged with that guy she never met while sending me videos begging for my BWC.
Huh?

>>81610948 (OP)
>However, dating a virgin is not as great as people on this board pretend it is.
She just doesn't like you all that much. That's all there is to it. If you were Chad, it would be all the way on the first date. I hope this girl is just a side piece, and you're not wasting you life on her.

>>81610948 (OP)
This is how I always imagined dating women as a kid would be. Congrats anon you got one of the good ones.

>>81610948 (OP)
>if your goal is to get laid
then why date a virgin? if my goal was to get laid i'd sleep with anyone.

>>81610948 (OP)
You know you could just rape her

she would fuck you if you were chad.

>>81613033
all women are different but I dated a girl who I met at a party who was apparently a virgin, just wasn't interested in sex and wasn't interested in men. We clicked well on first contact, I had to move home inbetween moving apartments but I went to the nearest city to meet her, she sneaked me into her apartment she shared with her father and brother and we had sex, her dad was out but the brother was still in, didn't know I was there. Could tell she was genuinly a virgin because her facial expression when I first put it in was class and there was a bit of resistance (hymen) and she did bleed slightly but she enjoyed it, when I came in her the expression she had was just pure bewilderment. Ended up breaking up with her though as I just wasn't that into her then dated her friend instead.

>>81610948 (OP)
Frigid women are infuriating.

>>81610948 (OP)
She's getting dicked down by Black guys and just uses you as emotional tampon

>>81610948 (OP)
>sex
>sex
>sex
Kill yourself, subhuman pig
I've a fairly high sexual desire yet I'd easily stay 5 years without sex in a relationship if it works out at the end. You've decades to fuck her after marrying

Literally all the downsides of virgin dating that faggots mention are related to sex
I kind understand radfems since most men are trash(most women are trash too but that's obvious)

>>81610948 (OP)
>It takes a shit ton of time and patience and if your goal is to get laid, good luck
>Spend years not getting sexual access from whores.
>Spend years waiting to sexual access to a desirable woman
I don't understand. Are you pornrotted to the core or some shit?
I don't see a problem. It's been a long time anyway. You're acting as if waiting even longer is problem when it's guaranteed. Hell, if you were smart enough to solve problems you'd realise this:
If one was with said girl for years prior... Then one would already have obtained sexual access.
It's even just about sex. It's about what virginity is, and the impacts of the benefits that it possesses.
>Dating a virgin is not as great as people on this board pretend it is
Yeah, how terrible that she can pair bond more effectively.
How terrible that the chances she divorces you are substantially lower than a woman with a 5+ bodycount.
How terrible that she practised discipline and didn't whore herself out.
Boohoo. Woe is me. count your blessings, nigger.
Why the fuck does it sound like you're trying to play victim(?)
Must be foid propaganda.
>No, no, no, men. You are wrong once again! You don't le virgin!
Good bait - 9/10. You got me. Fair play.
Retarded /thread.

>>81610948 (OP)
Just because you can't pair bond doesn't mean other people are shallow pieces of shit like you

>>81614039
He's been dating her for over a year according to the post, I'd want to smash your head in if I were him and read this response

>>81613482
>Ended up breaking up with her though as I just wasn't that into her then dated her friend instead.
kys you disgusting normlanigger sex haver now one man will never have his virgin wife.

>>81610948 (OP)
Gonna be funny when you crack that shell completely and she runs off to slut herself out to some chad.

>>81614066
Woah, a year!!!! Really?

>>81614006
Like I said, I will not break up with her over this, I know I got incredibly lucky to even find a virgin willing to date me and she is not ugly either and a sweet person I get along with well (and have gotten along with even before we started dating, as stated). I am willing to wait, because I know it will most likely pay off and also as long as I myself am a virgin I would only ever want to be with a virgin.
All this post is trying to say is that it can get frustrating at times and also makes you question yourself a lot. I often feel like I am pushing her into things/going too fast for her and then I feel really awful about it, while at the same time feeling like I would really like things to progress a bit faster. It often makes me question myself and even feel like a pervert for suggesting anything remotely sexual with her, even if she says its fine, she would just prefer to wait. All I am saying is that its only really worth it if the girl means enough to you to wait a long ass time. Because you most likely will be.
>>81614066
Read reply above.

>>81614273
a year is a good bit though especially if you've been knowing her before.
i'm not gonna suggest anything though because i've never been in a relationship so goodluck man

>>81610948 (OP)
Another normie whining about a life that would be a dream come true for most of us here. Gtfo and post this shit on Reddit

>>81614273
Every relationship has it's challenges, principally in the beginning. Just because we say a virgin is better doesn't mean it's devoid of "problems"

make sure their vagina works too. my girl wanted to have sex on a regular basis, but since it never worked, she would get upset/lash out/angry and it was a shitty time. i ended up avoiding being around her if there was a chance for us to be alone or sneak away