Do you think charisma is determined by your looks? Or do you think its a stat that can be developed just like in an rpg?
>>81611175 (OP)Looks give you a huge charisma boost but you can grind charisma if you are NT.
>>81611175 (OP)the latter
but having the looks helps a lot heh
>>81611175 (OP)It is determined by the dice you rolled in the "neurotypical" and "bone structure" attributes.
>>81611175 (OP)What the fuck even is charisma? Is it like a chiasma? If so, then it is genetic.
How does one grind and develop their charisma?
>>81611228>gaslight yourself into being confident>practice talking to people>try but don't actually try to be the center of attention (if you know what i mean)its really just like, having the wits and responding quickly and timely in social situations
>>81611200genetic in the sense that if your dad's an extrovert and he brought you along wherever, then yeah
>>81611175 (OP)both. having good looks causes people to treat you differently to where you're freer and more encouraged to develop that charisma. you'll also socialize more with others who help you do that in subtle ways.
i think you could also develop it/understand it better such as through meditation and novel experiences
>>81611175 (OP)It's possible to be ugly and charismatic but it requires more effort to compensate.
It's a skill, attractive people still have to lose the fear.
I have more envy to those that can do theater shit remotely convincingly than those who have "charisma". A lot of the time charisma these days is filling dead space with something, that's not hard at all.