Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:51:54 AM No.81616105
First of all, tattoos can make you look mentally ill. When psychiatrists review patients, they make note of their appearance, and they will make note of your tattoos. You're statistically more likely to be crazy or to be a pervert if you've got tattoos.
The funny thing is, I perceive people around my age with tattoos as being more adult than me, especially women. I'm a 25-year-old man. I would feel more nervous approaching a 25-year-old woman with tattoos than a 25-year-old woman without tattoos, even if she only has a few small tattoos or a few letters or small symbols on her hands. I actually feel like their standards would be higher, which is a bit paradoxical, since I also view women with tattoos as being kinkier (at least easier to hook up with) and trashier (so lower status).
What is going on here? I believe my self esteem is playing a role, as I am currently low income with no real hope for a higher income in the next few years, and I am also currently still a bit fat, but gradually making consistent progress on my looks. (I'm 5'11, by the way.) These two things hurt my self esteem, and the low income makes me feel more childish. You technically need disposable income to buy tattoos, and they seem like one of the last things you'd spend your disposable income on. I've never gotten a tattoo, but I'm not really scared of needles, as I've been injecting steroids for the past 10 months (I am also aware steroid usage makes you look mentally ill, but I started lifting in 2013, so I don't give a damn at this point.), but I still feel like people with tattoos, especially women, could be a bit tougher than me simply because they've gone through the process of getting a tattoo. This perceived higher toughness makes me feel more childish next to women with tattoos.
Women with tattoos still turn me on, as they have that kinky aura to them, but I still feel like they're more of an adult than I am and that I stand less of a chance with them as a consequence.
The funny thing is, I perceive people around my age with tattoos as being more adult than me, especially women. I'm a 25-year-old man. I would feel more nervous approaching a 25-year-old woman with tattoos than a 25-year-old woman without tattoos, even if she only has a few small tattoos or a few letters or small symbols on her hands. I actually feel like their standards would be higher, which is a bit paradoxical, since I also view women with tattoos as being kinkier (at least easier to hook up with) and trashier (so lower status).
What is going on here? I believe my self esteem is playing a role, as I am currently low income with no real hope for a higher income in the next few years, and I am also currently still a bit fat, but gradually making consistent progress on my looks. (I'm 5'11, by the way.) These two things hurt my self esteem, and the low income makes me feel more childish. You technically need disposable income to buy tattoos, and they seem like one of the last things you'd spend your disposable income on. I've never gotten a tattoo, but I'm not really scared of needles, as I've been injecting steroids for the past 10 months (I am also aware steroid usage makes you look mentally ill, but I started lifting in 2013, so I don't give a damn at this point.), but I still feel like people with tattoos, especially women, could be a bit tougher than me simply because they've gone through the process of getting a tattoo. This perceived higher toughness makes me feel more childish next to women with tattoos.
Women with tattoos still turn me on, as they have that kinky aura to them, but I still feel like they're more of an adult than I am and that I stand less of a chance with them as a consequence.
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