Would you consider being with a girl who emotionally neglects you, and only wants sex, a win or a loss?
Asking for a friend
>friend = me

>>81618991 (OP)
loss because im lonely :c

>>81618991 (OP)
That's no different than hiring a hooker. You need intimacy anon.

>>81618991 (OP)
No, I need love. I would take a loving asexual girl over that.

>>81618996
>lonely
I have nobody but her. Leaving her would mean I have nobody to talk to and would be even more lonely. She has her moments, but most of the time her texts are far and dry.

No, she's not cheating. She doesn't like being friends with men since getting her new female friend group.
I've been grandfathered in.

>>81618991 (OP)
Depends on what you want. Personally I'd need her to switch between warm and affectionate, and cold and distant. Otherwise I'd start taking her for granted and get bored

>>81618991 (OP)
it depends i am ok with them not caring for my emotional needs i can provide them for myself but if they don't even want to talk for a bit or do anything else other then sex there is a bigger issue

>>81619010
>>81619012
She has her moments. Sometimes she likes laughing with me, other times it's watching a movie. But most of the time I come over she stays in bed on tiktok waiting for me to touch her.

Whenever I DO watch a movie with her, she just tries to make it touchy time. Even in front of her family she tries to make me touch her.

>>81619010
i honestly wouldn't mind a live in fwb or hell even a hooker and all i have to do is let her live in my house with a punch card to fuck 2 or 3 times a week.
atp i've given up on the whole romance thing i dont think women are capable

>>81618991 (OP)
definite loss, sex without love should be a crime.

>>81618991 (OP)
>only wants sex
Does this include cuddling? I don't give a fuck about emotional stuff but I need to be able to use her as a living body pillow as well as sex. If I get lots of cuddling as well as sex then that's perfect.

>>81618991 (OP)
Just be fwb

>>81619045
Yeah, she does like cuddling.

The one thing she hates though is talking about the relationship and having her open up more.
I think she regrets being cold a lot of the time, she's a sheltered asian girl who has zero social skills and kinda expects it to be like most of her friendships where she's carried along the ride.

So when she has to give back, it's hard for her. Not out of malice, but she said whenever she tries, she ends up becoming the same as usual... Cold.

>>81618991 (OP)
Sex is all the modern woman is good for

>>81618991 (OP)
I want frequent sex with a fuck-buddy, so it's a win for me.

>>81618991 (OP)
a win because i want sex too and a double win for me because i'm also emotionally unavailable

then again OP, i think the word you're looking for is friends with benefits

>>81618991 (OP)
Nope. I'd rather just be alone than perform more emotional labour for a cunt

Sure

Mentally downgrade her to cumtoilet instead of relationship material and you are gucci

i would consider basing my whole life on whether i have a partner kind of stupid

>>81618991 (OP)
no, i care more about the emotional aspect. id rather be sexless than that