>>81620131I dont think love is about relating.
I thinks its about respect, care and kindness and being a pillar of support for each other on the way of being a better and more complete person.
You do not need to feel same exact way, just be willing to understand and take it at face value.
>>81620154Depends on lifestyle of course but most modern humans have really bad lifestyle.
>>81620095I dont really have a specific ideal. Just some particular traits I'd prefer to have in a partner. Everything else can be variable
- Has hair longer than jawline
- Skinny/lean build.
- Passionate, active
- Open minded ala doesnt believe in thought crimes, so that we can both be truly honest
- Believes in good, not a nihilist
- Can accept me and is willing to be helpful
- Switch
- Likes to learn new stuff
- Doesnt treat people who he doesnt benefit from like shit
Not really a standard but in terms of values he should be willing to live outside of the city and to work with hands, but that's like a longterm compatibility stuff. Depending on his own intentions. I just really hate cities and only see them as stepping stones for escape.