Anon I'm 35 and I've never dated or had sex. It's safe to say it's over at this point: there's no time left to find a gf and turn this boat around. My entire life will now revolve around rewatching classic anime like Haruhi Suzumiya.

My pain is constant and sharp and there's never any true catharsis. I admit that I'm bitter. What makes me bitter is realizing that it's only partially my own fault. It's not my fault that you have like 10 years tops to find the partner of your dreams, and the world is doing everything it can to distract women from mating. During my journey I constantly bumped into women who were preoccupied with work, studies, video games, social media, imaginary e-Chads on Discord, delusional lesbian cope relationships, thinking they're actually male etc.

I was the one taking mating seriously. Women sitting at home staring at their phones inventing new genders, getting brainwashed by LGBT into lesbians etc. wasn't on me. This simply wasn't a good era to be a 20-30yo single white male looking for a cute tradwife.

>>81626653 (OP)
are you financially secure? job and/or good amount of savings?
do you have a house that you own?
do you desire trust and companionship? get a dog.
do you want more contact with other people? join clubs and hobbies
do you really really want kids? paid surrogacy exists, expensive but doable if you earn enough cash. (not just the surrogacy itself, working full time while being a single parent, you better have the cash on hand to hire help, honestly don't reccomend unless its your absolute life goal to have kids and you have like a quater to half a million bucks that you're willing to invest in this project)
do all that and if you're still unhappy and want also experience sex, book a ticket to an euro country where prostitution is openly legal and whores have to get regular std tests to do their job.

Basically the only thing you can't get is the loving and trusting relationship with your oneitis that gives you her everything and asks nothing in return (which is an idealized fantasy in 99% of cases and even most normies and chads don't have that), everything else is doable even if you're absolutely repulsive to women.

Realizing all the incel theories are correct is pretty depressing

>>81626894
>Basically the only thing you can't get is the loving and trusting relationship with your oneitis that gives you her everything and asks nothing in return

That's what I want, anon. I want the Disney / Twilight romance I've been dreaming of my whole life.
I'm financially secure but I've never had a job in my life. I can survive on 300 bucks a month because I don't have a car or a house.
I hate dogs. Every time I join hobbies I meet married normies there and they just make me even more depressed when they rub their happiness in my face.

>>81626938
if you don't like dogs then get a cat, or rats, or a parrot, or a snake.
If you don't like all animals in general, chances are you're evil and don't deserve happyness anyways.

>That's what I want, anon. I want the Disney / Twilight romance I've been dreaming of my whole life.
you and a billion other people on this planet.
MOST are fated to never find it.
Even amongst the normies who can actually get dates, get married etc. how many of them have the fairytale romance and live happily ever after?