How would you feel if you are the victim of child grooming? Except your spouse is very powerful figure, like a holywood movie star. For instance, you are child married to Adam Sandler, or Robert De Niro. From a toddler age you are groomed to be transgendered and have to act like a woman and always behave like an adolescent woman as in lolita.

Except you strongly identify as an orthodox jewish man.