>>81635172I don't know, I honestly don't. Both relationships I've had have been accidental and both ended in failure because they couldn't get over my terrible social skills. I cook really well, and both thought so, but other than that I'm painfully average in almost every regard, so much so it's worse than just being flat-out ugly and stupid and bad sometimes.
Only one of the ladies was fat, and when we were together she was a big fan of how much I did genuinely love her and how I thought her body was beautiful and how I paid special attention to it, so it may be a feasible strategy to flatter and adore cute fat girls who are desperate for anybody- but you have to actually love her for that to be an effective strategy.
She left for a guy above my league at the end of the day though so just remember that you're as disposable to her as you are to all other women so long as he also just shows her basic kindness, lmfao.