gf is dead set on having kids before she passes her early 20s. I also want kids but i cant imagine having a baby in a years time. Im in my 30s and still feel like a dumb teenager, while shes still young and says shes already done everything she wants to do and is ready to take the next step. Not to mention the girl has a huge breeding kink, every time we see a pregnant woman in public or in a show she excitedly looks at me and asks when its her turn. I love her, but i dont know if she understands for life changing having a child would be. But i dont want to ruin her dream of being a young mom. What should i do?

>>81631817 (OP)
You feel like a teenager because you haven't had kids yet. And you will continue to feel like that until you have kids. If you wait until you feel like a parent to have kids then you'll never have them.

>>81631817 (OP)
leave while you can, she might snap one day and damage your condoms just to get pregnant

>>81631827
unfortunately this makes a lot of sense, are you a parent?

>>81631861
No, sadly. Women hate nerds. But it is a fact that once you have a child depending on you it will change how you see yourself and your place in the world.

>>81631817 (OP)
Leave nigga leave. You're going to ruin your life this early, for a relationship that, statistically, is very unlikely to last?

>>81632280
im almost 40 bro, this is not early!!

>>81632195
its okay bro im a nerd to. Honestly i dont have any really great things about me so thats a extra reason why im thinking it might be time to wife her up

>>81632292
>im almost 40 bro, this is not early!!
Then you'll never feel mature enough. You have no neuroplasticity left.

>>81632309
i guess maybe i am tho, for the record i dont live with my parents and have held a good job for 10 years. Maybe i feel dumb still but am actually doing alright

>>81631817 (OP)
Embrace this. A girl 10+ years younger than you in todays insanity wants to be your baby momma and doesnt say that she has things she still wants to do. Ur pushing 40 nigga this is the last shot universe is giving u. U aint becoming a daddy at 60

>>81631817 (OP)
Wow someone normal?

>>81631817 (OP)
Dude just spunk in her already, you're near your expiration date. You really want your kids to visit you at cemetary or care facility when they are in high school?

>>81631817 (OP)
spawning a meaningless entity won't give your life meaning

be comfy and don't make new laborers on your dime

you will never know peace again if you have kids

>>81631817 (OP)
>What should i do?
You should leave this board

>>81631817 (OP)
You still feel like a teenager because your brain still hasn't matured. This is what everyone gets wrong, there is an actual chemical change that needs to happen in your brain and body and until it doesn't you don't start thinking like a man. It's what so many confuse for being an "alpha male" or whatever.

It's different for every guy. For some it happens after long hard labor, for some after you've had to survive on your own, without your parents, for some it happens after combat, for some it just happens.

It's that feeling you get where you start to find responsibility emotionally stimulating in a positive way. You start thinking: " Yes, I want to protect my mate", "Yes, I want to breed", "Yes, I want to provide for my family".

The fact that you're thinking seriously about the consequences and responsibilities of having a child is actually a good sign. Maybe you're not there yet, but you've taken the first steps.

>>81632565
Also yes, you should get the fuck out of this board and never come back. This place only makes you feel worse. Leave 4chan altogether if you have to.

>>81631817 (OP)
if you're older than 12 do it